It is said that the tiger brothers fight, and the father and son soldiers are in battle. In March 2019, Mr. Liu of Henan province and his brothers co-founded a processing plant. But before he could show his fists, his wife was the first to jump out and object. Because the brothers cooperated to set up a factory, the couple made a big fuss and finally divorced the marriage.
So why does Ms. Chen not hesitate to divorce and oppose her husband and brother partnership? Is the root cause of the breakdown of marriage because of the contradictions of the extended family or because of other hidden feelings?
At the beginning of the show, Mr. Liu obviously did not want to remarry, but compared to her resoluteness, Ms. Chen seemed very attached and unwilling. But then again, after nearly a year of divorce, they also have new feelings for each other, why does Ms. Chen still want to go back and remarry her ex-husband?
Ms. Chen told us that the ten years of relationship ended like this, and she was really unwilling, because the trigger for the divorce was not because of the relationship problem between the husband and wife, but because of Mr. Liu's brothers.
Ms. Chen told us that she did not agree to her husband and her brothers doing business together, and then without her consent, her husband put the factory into operation. It was because of this that they scolded each other, and then the ex-husband smashed himself with a stool. Mr. Liu explained that because his ex-wife scolded his eldest brother as a wild breed that day, he had no choice but to do it.
For Mr. Liu and his brothers to cooperate in this matter, Ms. Chen is a hundred unhappy in her heart. However, her objections did not work at all, coupled with Mr. Liu's attitude of cutting first and playing later, obstinately acting, the contradictions between the husband and wife were immediately intensified. According to Mr. Liu, the reason why Ms. Chen is so rude is because he and his family, especially his eldest brother, have long been incompatible.
As a sister-in-law, why would Ms. Chen be so repulsive to her husband's eldest brother? Ms. Chen told us that when they were still in love, the ex-husband and his eldest brother were making sofas together, and the father-in-law said that the factory was two people, the ex-husband and the eldest brother, but after they got married, the eldest brother said that the factory was his own. Mr. Liu explained that most of the funds for opening this factory were from the eldest brother.
Later, the couple began to do it alone, they first customized a set of sofas, used the materials of the ex-husband's brother, and after doing it, they went to calculate the cost, but the price calculated by the eldest brother was higher than that they sold to others. So Ms. Chen felt that the eldest brother could not deal with this person, and partnering with him would suffer losses.
For the eldest brother Mr. Liu is actually very grateful, so in business he is not willing to worry about the eldest brother. However, his carelessness is a loss in Ms. Chen's view. If ms. Chen cooperated with her eldest brother because she was worried about economic damage, then why did Mr. Liu and her brother cooperate with Ms. Chen to oppose it.
Ms. Chen told us that one day she had an argument with her ex-husband's brother, and his brother beat himself. Ms. Chen told us that after they got married, they asked to separate the family when their mother-in-law was not used to living, and their family said that they had driven his mother away, perhaps because of this reason, the younger brother was angry and pressed himself into the basin.
When her mother knew about it, she was very angry and ran over to her ex-husband and brother to theorize, but she didn't expect that her brother not only did it to herself, but even her mother beat her.
At this time, observer Chen Xingdong believes that both sides have undermined the bottom line of both sides when handling family relations. Observer Zhu Yongzhuo believes that you can't handle family disputes in a one-size-fits-all way, because you are comfortable, but the other party is not very comfortable.
Through the efforts of the mediators, the parties voluntarily agreed to the divorce.
At the end of the mediation, it is said that home and everything is happy, and when dealing with the relationship between large families and small families, it is even more necessary to have an inclusive and humble heart. If you encounter a slight contradiction and immediately go to opposition, or even die without contact, it will only destroy family harmony and hurt the feelings of husband and wife.
In the past ten years, Ms. Chen has been too strong and too calculating, which has made her husband and family very depressed. And Mr. Liu can not actively resolve each other's misunderstandings, and eventually let the marriage move towards understanding.
At the end of the mediation, the two people decided to break up peacefully, hoping that after going back, they could realize their problems and make adjustments, and then actively face the future journey of life.