Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi have received much attention from the beginning of the announcement of their relationship.
After all, in the great entertainment industry, there are only three couples in the Sino-Korean combination: Yu Xiaoguang and Qiu Cixuan, Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun, Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi.
So, how did this couple, whose fame was very different and could not be beaten by eight rods, come together? And why did you get divorced?
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Gao Ziqi was born on April 30, 1981 in Taiyuan, Shanxi Province.
He has loved sports since he was a child, good at basketball, once won the title of national second-level athlete, and later gave up sports to join the entertainment industry because of the restrictions on straining ligaments and height in competitions.
He graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy's acting department in 2000, and their class called himself a drama cousin, and his classmates included Wan Qian, Hong Xin's husband Zhang Danfeng, Guo Jingfei, Qian Fang, and Dong Rongrong, the actor of Xiao Meixia in the TV series "Evil Edge", and so on.
In 2002, Gao Ziqi starred in "My Days with Jordan", which began his career as an actor.
In 2003, he played a supporting role in the fashion drama "Take Me Fly, Take Me Away", and his name cannot be found in the cast list.
In 2004, he participated in the costume historical drama "Long Sword Acacia", cooperating with Chen Kun and Li Bingbing to play the Zhengde Emperor and also a small supporting role.
In 2006, he co-starred with Bao Jianfeng and Li Xiaoran in the costume legend drama "The Legend of Xue Rengui" as Xue Rengui's brother Zhou Qing.
In 2007, he participated in "Qia Classmate Boy", in which he played the jealous, hypocritical and selfish villain Liu Junqing, who played a little more than before.
In 2011, Qiong Yao remade "New Zhu Gege", and he became popular for playing Xiao Jian, who played "one Xiao and one sword to go to the world".
Aunt Qiong Yao praised him greatly: "Gao Ziqi's qing dress is handsome and extraordinary, and he has surprised me from the beginning of the dressing." The role of Zhen Jian is difficult to play, but Gao Ziqi's performance is very mature, knows how to experience it with his heart, and is very spiritual. From the moment I finished the makeup, Gao Ziqi made me take a reassuring pill at the corner of the sword. It seems that there is no role that he can't control, whether it is a handsome boy or a vicissitudes of wind and rain, he plays it with ease. ”
According to legend, he and Zhao Liying fell in love because of this play, but neither of them admitted it, and did not find a real hammer to prove that they had been together.
Subsequently, he played the male protagonist Cheng Shuhang in "My Family Has Joy".
Played Han Li in "Flower Non Flower Fog Non Fog", and Deng Lun simultaneously pursued fireworks Bai Menghua played by Yang Zi.
It is estimated that because of the friendship of this drama, when he got married, Deng Lun became his best man, which began Deng Lun's vigorous "best man's great cause".
In 2013, he co-starred with Cai Lin in the period drama "Li Family Compound", and in 2014, he and Cai Lin co-starred in the period drama "Legend of Fools".
The two fell in love because of the drama and opened a sweet love affair.
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Cai Lin is three years older than Gao Ziqi, born in Seoul, South Korea, and graduated from Seoul University of the Arts.
In 2000, she became popular for starring in Zhen Shanmei in "The Temptation of Eve", and when she became popular, Gao Ziqi had just gone to college.
Later, Cai Lin starred in the Chinese romance drama "Love Aegean Sea", partnering with Su Youpeng and He Rundong.
This drama has earned the tears of countless people, and it is interesting that the heroine she played in this drama is named Guan Xiaotong.
In 2007, Cai Lin starred in the Korean drama "Dazi's Spring", which was the annual ratings champion drama of that year.
In addition, she cooperated with Su Youpeng for the second time, and starred in "Yangmen Tiger General" with Zhao Yazhi and Hu Jing.
Later, he starred in "New Drunken Golden Branch" with Zhang Jiahui and Qiao Zhenyu, and starred in "The Secret History of Kangxi" with Hu Jing, Xia Yu and Zhong Hanliang.
Emotionally, In 2003, Choi Lin married a Korean singer Lee Seung-hwan, who was 14 years older than her, and Lee Seung-hwan also wrote a song for Choi Lin, "Do You Love", however, the following year, it was rumored that there was a problem with their marriage.
South Korean media said that their divorce was caused by the intervention of Lee Seung-hwan's apprentice Park Shin-hye, and it is unknown whether it is true or not.
Some people also say that they did not get a marriage license when they got married, so it cannot be regarded as a divorce, but should be counted as a breakup.
In 2013, Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi, who worked alone in China, fell in love.
In 2014, Gao Ziqi, with the help of his friends Huang Ying and Yin Xishui, personally sang the Korean version of "I BELIEVE" to propose to Cai Lin, and Cai Lin was moved to tears and agreed to him.
On October 14, they held a wedding in Taiyuan, Shanxi, Gao Ziqi's hometown, and on October 23, the two held a second wedding in South Korea.
On December 12, 2017, he announced on Weibo that he had been born and that his son's nickname was "Gift".
Last year, there was gossip that the two had divorced, and Cai Lin came out to deny it.
In March this year, some netizens speculated that they were divorced, because Cai Lin suddenly emptied Weibo, while canceling the attention to everyone, and in daily life, Cai Lin no longer wears a wedding ring, but wears a tail ring.
She often posts her children on social platforms and never sees Gao Ziqi's figure.
Gao Ziqi's side also sent a weibo with an unclear meaning: "It seems that a lot of things have happened this year, and many things have been experienced, and it has passed." ”
Celebrities show love and love may not be true love, but if they don't show love, it must be a problem.
Yesterday, the news of their divorce was confirmed.
Cai Lin posted on social platforms: "I am not the kind of personality that seeks understanding by explaining a lot, my life is just silently doing my best to live." ”
Currently, she lives in South Korea with her 3-year-old son.
Subsequently, Gao Ziqi sent a Weibo message to wish his ex-wife: "Sincere thanks, sincere blessings, hope not to be disturbed, everything is fine, gift mother." ”
In my opinion, it is actually a good thing to be able to get a decent divorce like this.
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But netizens don't seem to think so.
Some people joked that the two divorced for the upcoming cooling-off period of divorce.
Some people say that these two people divorced in order to participate in Han Zong's "We Are Divorced".
"Cai Lin has been divorced twice, and it must be her problem."
"After reading a report, I don't know if it's true or not, the woman has been with several men, and she has had an affair with several men before she has not been with Gao Ziqi."
"Divorce professional household?"
"Why should Korean women take their children away?"
"Originally unworthy, Cai Lin is not worthy of Gao Ziqi."
"Have you all had children and are still divorced?" Either it's a man's leg splitter, or the baby isn't her own. ”
"Chinese men can't spoil their daughters-in-law so much?"
"Cai Lin divorced from a Korean, went to China to find an unmarried handsome man, reality TV showed that she is very strong, no wonder she has been divorced."
"The woman doesn't feel good-tempered."
"Gao Ziqi has paid too much."
These comments strike me with a question mark???
It's about to be 2021, and when it comes to divorce, women are still being humiliated.
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Is there a problem for a woman as long as she divorces?
In my opinion, the main reasons why they can't divorce are three:
Language barrier, communication barriers.
Transnational love, separation of the two places.
Because of the drama, there is a role filter in the early stage, and after the filter is broken in the later stage, the living habits, personality, and three views are incompatible.
Divorce is not shameful, compared to those who have a bad life, can not be separated, all day in the marriage to fight each other, hate, internal friction of people, decent divorce, is a manifestation of responsibility for themselves and others.
Conversely, those who are not able to divorce also have a hard time getting happiness in marriage.
Thousands of years ago, the ancients wrote in the "wife release agreement": "Whoever is the cause of a husband and wife, the three lives in the past life are related, and they are first matched with the couple in this life." If the relationship is not compatible, it will be a complainer, so it will be relative... Since the two hearts are different, it is difficult to return to the same mind, and soon they will meet with all their relatives and return to their own ways. May the mother and daughter depart, re-comb the sideburns, sweep the eyebrows of the beautiful, and skillfully and skillfully, and select the lord of high-ranking officials. Resolve grievances and release knots, and don't hate each other. One is different and two wide, and each is happy. ”
One is different and two wide, and each life rejoices, which is a kind of detachment and a kind of relief.
As Li Zongsheng wrote in "Understanding": "If our love is wrong, may you and I not suffer in vain." If you have given sincerely and sincerely, you should be satisfied. ”
When Gao Ziqi and Cai Lin got married, both sides paid a lot of sincerity to unite together, and now they are decently divorced, blessing each other, and it is another kind of love: "I give you the last love, is to let go of the hand, do not have a double bed between a sea." ”
Bless them.
Also bless all those who are brave enough to divorce, let go with dignity, and live seriously.