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It was an ordinary spring day, and Cai Lin and Ko Ziqi met for the first time on the beautiful campus of Seoul National University. That eye contact instantly moved each other, and they were deeply attracted by each other's appearance and temperament.
As a result, a love story as sweet as honey unfolded gorgeously.
During their college years, their lives were peaceful and wonderful. They are inseparable like shadows, always walking hand in hand on the campus boulevard, talking about their hopes and dreams for the future.
However, at that time, no one could have foreseen that fate had carefully planned a marriage journey full of uncertainties for the two of them.
Soon after graduation, Gao Ziqi proposed to Cai Lin affectionately. Cai Lin was excited in her heart, and poured out her endless yearning for the future to her intimate girlfriends.
In the end, with the warm blessings of relatives and friends, they tied the knot and entered the sacred marriage hall.
Life after marriage seems to be perfect. In 2018, Cai Lin was pregnant for ten months and gave birth to a lovely baby boy, who they named this new life "Park Min Woo".
A family of three is happy, Gao Ziqi often shares happy photos of a family of three on social platforms, and adds: "My family is my whole world. ”
However, who would have expected that not long after Park Minwoo was born, Cai Lin suddenly left quietly with her child and returned to her hometown in South Korea alone. Gao Ziqi was shocked, but Cai Lin never revealed the real reason for leaving.
At first, Gao Ziqi thought that this was just a short separation, but he didn't expect that two full years had passed.
Until the end of 2020, Gao Ziqi and Cai Lin officially announced the news of their divorce. As soon as this news broke, it immediately caused a sensation in both countries. Relatives and friends are full of emotion, why did the couple who seemed so sweet and happy come to this point? The root cause of all this may only be known to the person concerned.
The decision to divorce undoubtedly brought heavy psychological trauma to Cai Lin. As a mother, she had to take on the responsibility of raising her children on her own. In those lonely years, Cai Lin was determined to completely cut off all contact with her ex-husband Gao Ziqi.
Her first action was to change her son's original surname "Gao" to "Park" in her own name. Whenever the words "Park Minwoo" are written, Cai Lin's eyes can't help but redden.
This move undoubtedly not only deeply remembers her first birth day with the surname "Park Chae-rim", but also shows her steadfastness and courage as a great mother on a deeper level.
After undergoing a major name change, the great mother Cai Lin also made a shocking decision - when her son Park Minwoo was only three years old, she completely hid the fact that he still had a biological father and did not reveal any information to him.
It wasn't until that year that Park Min-woo began to frequently ask questions like "why is there no father in our family?" that Cai Lin revealed this secret that had been hidden for many years to him for the first time.
"Dear baby, you do have a father, but he is currently in distant China. Cai Lin said softly, with deep melancholy in her eyes.
At that time, Park Min-woo was only three years old, and he was full of curiosity and incomprehension about the unfamiliar word "father". However, Cai Lin's heart is full of complex emotions. She knew that it was wrong to conceal the existence of the child's father, but she couldn't easily let go of what Gao Ziqi did at the beginning, which directly led to their current family tragedy.
Although this decision may have been a bit extreme, it was the only action she could have taken at the time.
Time flies, time flies. From Cai Lin's parenting process, it is not difficult to find that as the child grows older, his doubts and longings for his long-absent father are also deepening.
Once, Cai Lin overheard Park Minwoo talking to the parents of her companions, and unconsciously sighed: "Your family is really happy, with your father by your side." The child's innocent envy made Cai Lin feel remorseful.
She realizes that a child's desire for his father is innate, an irrepressible instinct.
Since then, Cai Lin has begun to pay attention to the fact that whenever she sees the presence of her father from other families, Park Min Woo will always look at her expectantly. Sometimes, he would even subconsciously touch his own face, as if recalling his father's appearance.
These subtle gestures and expressions fully show how strong Park Minwoo's inner desire for fatherly love is.
In the face of her son's increasingly desperate desire to see his father, Cai Lin has been fully mentally prepared. She knew that one day, this secret would no longer be able to be concealed, and father and son would surely meet again.
In order to achieve this goal, Cai Lin began to carefully teach Park Minyu to learn Chinese, hoping that he would be able to communicate smoothly with his biological father in the future.
Although Park Min-woo never explicitly expressed to Chae Lin his desire to see his father, as a mother, Chae Lin's keen insight has already sensed that the little boy's deep expectation for his father's love is increasing day by day.
Faced with this situation, Cai Lin had to rely on her own practical actions to prepare the little guy as much as possible, so as not to cause him more harm on the road of growth.
In the well-known reality show "Single Mother Parenting" in South Korea, the performance of Chae Lin and Park Min Woo has attracted widespread attention. And one of the episodes made all the audience feel heartache and shock.
It was a recording scene when Park Min Woo was three years old. As a curious child, it is natural for him to have endless questions about the figure that is missing from the family. Just as the staff was ready, Park Minyu suddenly turned his head and asked Cai Lin: "Mom, why are you the only one in our family? I saw that other children have their fathers with them at home."
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When Cai Lin heard this, tears instantly welled up in her eyes. She tried her best to hide the pain in her heart, and responded gently: "Baby, in fact, you also have a father, but he now lives in China, which is far away from us.
Park Min-woo continued to ask in confusion: "Then why isn't Dad with us?" Cai Lin choked up and replied: "This...... Mom will tell you slowly in the future."
At this moment, Park Minwoo suddenly said something that shocked everyone present: "Actually, I didn't think about seeing my father." ”
This sentence was like a bolt from the blue! All the staff, guests and audience were all saddened.
Park Min-woo then explained, "Because I already have my mother by my side, I don't feel lonely. After speaking, he hugged Cai Lin tightly, and Cai Lin seemed to be greatly comforted, and finally couldn't help crying loudly.
This touching picture, although it seems ordinary, is emotional. How did a three-year-old child come to understand such a profound topic in life? His words reveal the most painful scars of single-parent families, but also show the unique and pure power of family affection between mother and child.
After the divorce, Gao Ziqi's desire to see her son Park Minyu became stronger and stronger. Although his relationship with Cai Lin has come to an end, as a father, seeing his own flesh and blood is undoubtedly his responsibility and obligation.
When Park Minwoo was three years old, Gao Ziqi, a famous actor of the Changchun Neo Art Troupe, secretly planned a trip to South Korea. After months of reflection and careful preparation, he resolutely left his hometown and quietly stepped into the country of his dreams.
Gao Ziqi originally planned to appear in a mysterious way and bring an unexpected surprise to Park Min-woo. However, what he didn't expect was that Cai Lin seemed to have planned it and prepared a "thrilling" "surprise" for him.
When Gao Ziqi arrived in Seoul, Cai Lin adopted a jaw-dropping strategy to keep him out of her home. As for the specific methods, the outside world does not know, but it can be imagined that it is resolute and ruthless.
Gao Ziqi felt helpless, so she had to leave with deep regret and missed the reunion with her son again.
This failed meeting made Gao Ziqi fall into extreme frustration. As a father, he has the legal rights and responsibilities to visit his children, but Cai Lin ruthlessly obstructed him for some reason.
After returning to her homeland, Gao Ziqi began to reflect on whether she had made any mistakes, but she could never understand why Cai Lin was so determined to prevent their father and son from seeing each other.
Cai Lin's behavior has also caused widespread controversy in society. Some people think it's counterintuitive to prevent father and son from seeing each other, but others say that perhaps Cai Lin had to make such a decision for some special reason.
Despite facing many doubts, Chae Lin did not give up on the hope that Park Min Woo would be able to meet her father in the future. In order to achieve this day, she began to carefully teach her children to learn Chinese and fully prepare for future reunions.