A few days ago, the divorced South Korean actress Cai Lin and her Chinese husband Gao Ziqi reached a settlement on the issue of visiting their children.
Recently, three years after Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi divorced, they reached a settlement on the issue of visiting their children. The relationship, which had become awkward because of the mutual neglect of each other for four years after the divorce, finally ushered in the dawn of breaking the ice.
The marriage of Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi was once a high-profile transnational marriage between China and South Korea. However, the marriage did not stand the test of time, and after six years of ups and downs, it finally ended in divorce.
After the divorce, Cai Lin refused to let Gao Ziqi visit the children. This move has sparked heated discussions in public opinion, and people can't help but think about why there are frequent problems in the transnational marriages between Korean artists and mainland stars?
South Korea and China have very different cultural backgrounds, which leads to a lot of differences in living habits and values. These differences often become insurmountable gulfs in transnational marriages.
In South Korea, for example, the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women is still deeply entrenched. In China, the idea of equality between men and women is more prevalent. This kind of cultural difference can easily lead to conflicts in married life.
Differences in living habits are also a challenge in cross-country marriages. Koreans and Chinese have different eating habits, sleep schedules, and even different ways of speaking.
These seemingly subtle differences, in a long-term common life, can accumulate into huge contradictions. One party feels that the other party is too picky eater, and the other party feels that the other party is too sloppy, and in the long run, the relationship will inevitably be affected.
Transnational celebrity marriages often receive special attention from the public. This kind of attention is both blessed and questioned.
When there are problems in a marriage, the pressure of public opinion can become a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it can put pressure on the parties to solve the problem. On the other hand, it may also make the parties feel invisible and exacerbate the conflict.
Transnational marriage is a challenging journey in life. The transnational marriage between a Korean artist and a mainland star is even more so. Not only do they have to face cultural differences, differences in living habits, but also the pressure of public opinion.
The reconciliation between Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi shows us the possibility of reunion in transnational marriages. I hope that their experience can bring some inspiration to other multinational celebrity marriages.
Transnational marriages require understanding, tolerance, and communication. As long as both parties can put aside their prejudices and work together to overcome difficulties, transnational marriages can also blossom and become a good story.
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