My father and mother

During the National Day, for some reason I could not go home, I remembered a lot, remembered the decades that my parents knew were together, and wrote it down for you, I will never forget it.

Both father and mother were born in poverty in the early seventies, and the mother was three years old.

My mother was the youngest in the family, and the most pampered one in my grandmother's family, but she did not let my mother develop any big miss temper, my mother was kind and industrious, and she rode her bicycle alone to a large market dozens of kilometers away to sell watermelons; she was skillful and skillful, and she did a good hand of needlework; my mother was smart and serious, and when I said how well I studied, my mother would always say that she had inherited her, and often remembered that she had to mention her first place in the primary school exam.

There were six brothers and sisters in my mother's family, my uncle and aunt treated me very well, my grandmother and grandfather died in my third year of high school, and I did not go back to personally give them a ride, which I never wanted to mention, but I never forgot their kindness to me, and I will honor you both when we see each other again in the next life.

Later, after being introduced by others, my mother was with my father, who was also a kind person, kind-hearted, that is, my mouth was not good, and my mother did not say much about my father for this matter. At that time, his father was also a high-achieving student, all the way to the third year of high school, the results have been good, in the year when the third year of high school was about to take the college entrance examination, he knew that the family had no money for him to study, and resolutely chose to go out to work, which became his father's eternal regret.

There are four brothers and sisters in the father's family, the father is the third oldest, there is an uncle below, in fact, the grandparents are what I don't want to mention, because the grandparents' preference for the uncle, there are a lot of contradictions between them, they are not worthy of me, not to say, but they are sorry for my father, sorry for my mother, and then the grandfather's death, only after the grandmother herself, the mother often let me visit, the mother is kind, the father is not easy, I've always wanted to use some of my actions to give my parents and grandma a little more peace of mind.

In those years, when my mother first came, it was not easy to be poor, and I knew many things, but I no longer wanted to mention it, but I could only say that I was grateful to my mother, who helped to stand up this family with her thin body.

When I was about two years old, my family and my aunt's family began to engage in farming, and the days got better day by day, and then my mother often said that when the first breeding reached 5,000 yuan, my father said that he had never seen so much money. My aunt and my uncle had four children, and the happiest childhood had ever been with these older siblings.

Later in life, I have been doing farming, and when I was in the sixth grade of elementary school, that year, with another important person in my life, my sister, life has improved day by day. My mother said to me that she would give birth to a sister so that you would have a companion in the future.

In fact, I have always felt fortunate that my parents, two farmers who did not have higher education, regarded knowledge as extremely important, and in the days when I was about to enter secondary school, my father always demanded my studies very strictly. That year, I was lucky enough to rank in the top 100 in the county with a score of 88 and was admitted to one of the best local middle schools, and my father told me many times later that if I did not enter the top 100, I would not have money to study here. I was thirteen years old. It was also that year that I left the small mountain village where I had lived for 13 years, went alone to the county town where I had almost no impression before this, and began my middle school life. To this day, I vividly remember that the first time I took the bus, I sat in the wrong direction, I couldn't sit, and it took me all afternoon to get to school. At that time, I had just entered middle school, and I had a strong sense of loneliness and inferiority. Hate why parents can't give me more, and even hate why parents send themselves here. At that time, how many times I secretly cried, I really felt helpless. I don't want to say anything more about what happened later, but I just want to thank the kind teachers and classmates I met. After living here for six years, I later entered a 211 university and began my current graduate school life after going through baoyan research.

In fact, after middle school, the days at home are a little less, but such a family is what I like, my father and mother have dedicated their lives to this family, in fact, the relationship between father and mother has always been good, it is my grandparents, because of a preference, caused many unnecessary contradictions.

I am grateful to my parents, who used their own efforts to provide better for me and my sister, the mother's skin was dark, but she was also the girl who loved beauty, and her father's hair was gray, but he was also a black hair, and over the years, he really suffered too much.

The mother has always been kind, but there has always been a threshold in her heart; the father has always been stubborn and has always had a low head; the mother's temper is sometimes too impatient, and the father does not know how to be flexible. Therefore, there are often small fights, but in private, you are all talking about each other's good, and you are all considerate of each other.

In the blink of an eye, my father and mother have known the age of destiny, and have worked hard for half a lifetime, in fact, sometimes it is not good to say a lot of things to my father and mother face to face, write it down together, I want to say, good days are coming, and we will get better and better in the future.

May all the fathers and mothers in the world be in good health and all the best!