Huang Rihua cried again.
A full year after the death of his wife, Liang Jiehua, he burst into tears on the talk show "One-on-One".
"When I chant the sutra all day long, please let her recover, if you want me to live for ten years, it doesn't matter if I live twenty years."
After saying this, Huang Rihua, who is nearly 60 years old, cried like a child.
In May 2020, Liang Jiehua died of blood cancer.
Hurry to go.
Failed to rescue it.
After that, Huang Rihua publicly announced: "I will not marry again in this life." ”
Later, he slowly retired from the entertainment industry.
Occasionally, he appears, either for his daughter or to remember his wife.
When he fell in love with Liang Jiehua, Huang Rihua was already a male god in all of China.
He gained a foothold in the circle because of two plays.
One is "The Legend of the Archery Hero".
Huang Rihua plays Guo Jing.
Be honest.
Righteousness is awe-inspiring.
Whether it is the look or the action, it is very much in line with Jin Yong's brother Jing.
Because of this drama, Huang Rihua was canonized as a god in a battle.
Become a childhood memory for generations.
The other is "Tianlong Babu".
He also played an iron-boned man, Qiao Feng.
Huang Rihua's interpretation is perfectly in line with the original work.
Free and heroic.
Courage is superior.
Fascinated a group of female audiences.
Because of these two roles, Huang Rihua is popular all over the country.
And the role of these two obsessive men in the play, in the dark, confirms his emotional path.
He and Liang Jiehua met in a wireless artist training class.
At that time, Liang Jiehua was 20 years old.
Huang Rihua is 19 years old.
The two soon fell in love.
Huang Rihua is very popular with girls.
Miao Qiaowei said that as long as Hua Ge appeared, there would be girls running after him.
Huang Rihua also revealed to Wang Han:
"At that time, I didn't dare to go out all day."
Even if he is infatuated with thousands of young girls, he loves Liang Jiehua alone.
In the gap between filming, Huang Rihua had only one thing in mind, to find Liang Jiehua.
Good buddy Miao Qiaowei made fun of him:
"He only cares about patting and dragging, and he is really a heavy color and a light friend."
But the happy times are short.
Within a few years of love, the two broke up.
It is rumored that it is because Liang Jiehua has too much temper and is always inexplicably angry.
Huang Rihua couldn't stand it.
So I chose to separate.
At this time, Huang Rihua was exposed to be in love with Deng Cuiwen.
Therefore, the media have published articles accusing Deng Cuiwen of being a little third and destroying Huang Liang's love.
Huang Rihua quickly came forward to explain.
To say that this is nonsense, there is no such thing.
His denial made the outside world think that he would reunite with Liang Jiehua.
However, what people are waiting for is not a reunion, but a re-love of Huang Rihua.
Not long after, Huang Rihua announced that he was in love with Gong Ci'en.
Fans can't take it.
It was Gong Ci'en's intervention that led to Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua breaking up.
Huang Rihua said that he broke up with Liang Jiehua before he was with Gong Ci'en.
There is no debate about what is right and what is wrong.
This relationship lasted only two years.
He did not go to the end with Gong Ci'en.
Because, Huang Rihua suddenly realized that his favorite was Still Liang Jiehua.
So he put down his face and past and ran to find Liang Jiehua to reunite.
At this time, Liang Jiehua is no longer single.
She had a boyfriend in name only.
But Huang Rihua's sincerity touched her.
Entangled, the two are together again.
Leung described the deviance as "he was tempted."
Fortunately, Huang Rihua finally returned to the track.
After a year of reunion, the two were no longer willing to let go of each other's hands.
In 1988, Huang Rihua proposed to Liang Jiehua.
They divided and merged, and their love ran for 8 years, and finally decided to work together for a lifetime.
On that day, Liang Jiehua was dressed in a white wedding dress on the floor.
Beautiful and atmospheric.
Huang Rihua was nervous.
His hand, he didn't know where to put it.
Hong Kong media said: Huang Rihua finally hugged the beauty back.
Their marriage was blessed by countless people.
But marriage is not love.
Love is the wind and snow moon.
Marriage is chai rice oil and salt.
Just married, the two quarreled endlessly.
In particular, Liang Jiehua is still the violent temper of that year.
Huang Rihua also refused to back down.
A lot of times, they quarrel at home.
The argument was so loud that neither side wanted to talk, so the long Cold War began.
Once, the two quarreled over a small matter.
Both parties are tired and say the same thing: Divorce.
Huang Rihua calmed down and did not want to leave.
"People are married, why should they get divorced, why should they get to this point, many things can be solved."
From this incident, he understood the way husband and wife get along.
"You really need to put up with each other."
"To be patient, one of them must be patient."
Only by retreating can we sustain it.
In 1990, their daughter Huang Zhiqing was born.
After that, Liang Jiehua abandoned art to pursue a career in business.
Switched careers as an insurance broker.
She wants to take care of her daughter in every way.
Because she was once a star and the wife of a first-line male star, Liang Jiehua has a lot of resources around her.
It didn't take long for her to become a manager.
Annual salary over one million.
Huang Rihua was very supportive of his wife's withdrawal from the circle.
In order to reassure Liang Jiehua, he cleaned himself and did not pass on gossip with any actress.
It is rumored that once Huang Rihua went out to perform and heard someone talking about his relationship with Cai Shaofen.
Huang Rihua broke the glass in one breath.
He showed determination not to want to be away from home for too long.
Even if you travel on business, you only go to fixed places. Such as airports, hotels, and places of work.
In the heart of her daughter Huang Zhiqing, her father is very single-minded.
She said that Huang Rihua only loved four things in his life.
milk tea.
Play soccer.
Eat bread.
Another thing, "Like my mom."
"He's just hot on the outside, but at home he's just (like) a little sheep, the most perfect man."
In those years, as long as Yu ji wrote Huang Rihua, he would add three words: love wife number.
He is a well-known wife lover in Hong Kong.
Even if the wife is misunderstood, she desperately tries to protect her.
A few years after getting married, there were paparazzi photographs, and Liang Jiehua had a hot chat with male colleague Kenny alone after work.
This image caused an uproar in Hong Kong.
Liang Jiehua, of course, denies cheating.
But then, the media exposed photos of her playing with Kenny.
They travel abroad together.
Go shopping together and buy flowers.
The public scolding became more intense.
Everyone speculated that Huang Rihua would definitely divorce Liang Jiehua.
But Huang Rihua chose to believe his wife.
"She's not going to mess around, I have confidence in her."
In order to confirm his wife's innocence, Huang Rihua went to the insurance company and took a group photo with Kenny.
Then he told the media:
"We've known each other for a long time."
This move saved Liang Jiehua's image.
It also saved the marriage.
Because of this, since then, when people mention Huang Rihua, they will laugh at it: The green cloud covers the top.
Meaning, he had worn a green hat.
Huang Rihuacai didn't care.
In the same year, his mother died.
Huang Rihua decided to leave the entertainment industry.
For the next 7 or 8 years, he rarely participated in major performances.
Asked why he withdrew.
He will always be that sentence:
"Let yourself recharge and grow up with your daughter."
However, the life he was looking forward to did not come in the end.
Because, Liang Jiehua is sick.
Diagnosed with blood cancer.
This is also known as acute myeloid leukemia.
At the end of 2013, Huang Rihuagang and Liang Jiehua celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary.
Liang Jiehua suddenly felt unwell.
After that, a high fever persists.
She thought she had a cold.
That's how doctors prescribe medicine.
As a result, after taking cold medicine, stomach pain occurred again.
Doctors also say that it can be treated with injections.
As a result, a needle was injected, and there was a bruise at the tip of the needle.
Liang Jiehua only felt tired.
She touched her skin lightly, and when she touched it, a bruise appeared.
Finally, I went to the blood test to learn that it was a blood cancer.
Liang Jiehua froze.
"It's a thunderbolt on a sunny day."
She froze in place and did not respond.
Huang Rihua took the lead in breaking the silence:
"I might as well stop my work, I'm willing to fight this battle with you."
Liang Jiehua refused.
"You fulfill the contract first, get the work done first, and I have doctors and nurses to take care of me."
That night, Liang Jiehua couldn't sleep all night.
Worry, fear, worry... All kinds of thoughts made her toss and turn.
Huang Rihua also did not sleep all night.
He accompanied Liang Jiehua all night.
There was silence all around, and it was pitch black.
The two were in the familiar bed, talking from birth to death and talking about their families.
Liang Jiehua was very afraid of his sudden death, and explained the aftermath one by one. Unavoidably.
Huang Rihua's tears flowed.
"Don't worry, you'll be fine, you'll recover." You have to be strong. ”
Later, Huang Rihua revealed his vulnerability to Wang Manling, "At that time, I was extremely afraid in my heart, but in order to stabilize my wife's emotions, I could only suppress my emotions and soothe her emotions." ”
The next day, Huang Rihua accompanied his wife to the hospital.
First chemotherapy.
In those years, Liang Jiehua underwent a total of five chemotherapy treatments.
Her figure is getting thinner and thinner.
Hair fell out a lot.
Watching himself become bald, Liang Jiehua was heartbroken.
She was also diagnosed with depression.
Every day when she woke up, she was always crying.
Huang Rihua comforts his beloved wife:
"I think hair loss is a small thing, it will grow again, I often shave my head, don't be afraid."
In order to encourage his wife and earn more medical expenses, he began to run a large number of commercial performances.
Because, the business performance work time is short, and the money is fast.
Every day, he took the earliest flight to the commercial performance venue, and the latest flight to the hospital.
As soon as I got off the plane, I immediately went to see Liang Jiehua.
Because it is an intensive care unit, outsiders are not allowed to enter.
Huang Rihua stood outside the window of the ward and called his wife.
"Are you okay?" I am back. ”
His wife's "it's okay" can reassure him.
Every day is like this.
Such days lasted for 3 years.
During this period, Huang Rihua did not socialize, did not participate in rallies, and spent time other than commercial performances with his wife to fight cancer.
In 2015, Liang Jiehua's condition stabilized.
She admired her husband's perseverance.
"He was really hard in those days, and it was really hard to see him."
"He's a great husband."
After his wife's condition improved, Huang Rihua told his relatives and friends about what had happened in the past few years.
Everyone was shocked.
Andy Lau, Tang Zhenye and others called Huang Rihua at the first time and asked him to open something.
Huang Rihua replied with sonorous force:
"Got it."
Fortunately, everything is fine.
He finally survived the darkness, and for the rest of his life, it was a happy time.
But in 2020, Liang Jiehua's condition recurred.
This time, there was no rescue.
Huang Rihua was in pain.
On the day of the funeral, his eyes were swollen from crying.
On Liang Jiehua's coffin, Huang Rihua wrote: Loving his wife Liang Jiehua, the affection is unforgettable.
The reporter went to interview him.
Huang Rihua still held back the crying:
"We could feel her walking with a smile."
Hong Kong media reported that shortly after Liang Jiehua's death, Huang Rihua was overly sad and had thought of committing suicide.
But thinking of my daughter again, I finally gave up this idea.
Huang Rihua, who did not have Liang Jiehua, his face was becoming increasingly haggard.
He stopped filming at all.
Maybe there's no nostalgia.
Once, Huang Rihua said to a friend, "I feel that I have no goal in life, and I don't know what to do in the future." ”
He rarely went out.
Stay home all day.
Huang Rihua confessed that he missed his wife day and night at home.
Seeing the bed will remind her.
When I get the clothes, I think of her too.
One night, Huang Rihua woke up in the middle of the night.
He sat up and habitually touched the side.
The side is empty.
At that moment, he finally woke up, and his wife was really gone.
She went to another world.
The next day, Huang Rihua walked out of the house to go to the appointment of his friends.
However, the word Liang Jiehua was still reluctant in his heart.
Note: Huang Rihua's letter to his wife
A few months after Liang Jiehua's death, Huang Rihua gave his first exclusive interview.
When he talked about his wife, his eyes were tearful.
"For me, the most memorable situation was the saddest one, the moment I watched my wife die. This is my most memorable picture. ”
"I feel like the fate is over, but the feelings will never go away."
Recently, Huang Rihua made another guest appearance on Li Zhishan's program.
Originally, it was a warm healing column.
But Huang Rihua inadvertently mentioned his wife and couldn't help but cry.
"For forty years, my wife and I have lived a life of love and dependence on each other.
I think we're both happy and happy.
But since she left us last year due to illness, I am no longer happy. ”
Sometimes the days are really difficult, so I go to see the pictures of my wife.
He printed out all the photos of Liang Jiehua's past, more than 30,000 of them.
From their acquaintance, love, daughter,to marriage, sorted out one by one.
Every photo is a memory, a kind of affection.
Now, Huang Rihua has a different view of life and death.
Life is a journey.
Death is another beginning.
Or, after leaving this life, in the next life, he can meet Liang Jiehua again.
At that time, there will be no more sickness, no tears.
There is only simple happiness, and simple lovers.
Walk together all your life, snuggle with each other.
Life and death go hand in hand, never separated.
Author: Chi Jinwen