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Text: Yaori Mist Sweet
Edited by Yaori Kirisa
Preface
Referring to the 96 version of "Dragon Babu", this classic undoubtedly carries the martial arts feelings of a generation.
In the play, the images of Qiao Feng, Duan Yu, and Xuzhu as chivalrous, elegant, infatuated, and cute and persistent are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and their respective masculinity has become a model in the hearts of countless people.
In real life, their emotional experiences have their own twists and turns, which are full of emotion.
Chen Haomin, who played Duan Yu, once let his wife give birth to four children in just five years on the grounds of "being afraid of his wife being lonely".
In the face of public opinion pressure, Chen Haomin had to come forward with his wife with a big belly to apologize to the public and try to calm the anger.
In contrast, although Fan Shaohuang, who plays Xuzhu, is relatively low-key emotionally, he has also been criticized by public opinion for getting his ex-girlfriend pregnant but not getting married, and was once criticized by public opinion.
Among the "three brothers", the most infatuated is Huang Rihua who plays Qiao Feng.
When his wife was photographed shopping with Xiao Xianrou by the media, Huang Rihua firmly said that they were just friends and supported his wife.
Later, his wife unfortunately suffered from cancer, and Huang Rihua did not hesitate to spend all his family wealth to treat her, and his weight plummeted by more than 20 pounds during his hard work.
In public, Huang Rihua even affectionately said that if possible, he would be willing to exchange his life for his wife's health.
Despite several rounds of chemotherapy, his wife Liang Jiehua eventually passed away, leaving Huang Rihua alone to bear the pain of losing his wife.
At Liang Jiehua's memorial service, Huang Rihua was so grief-stricken that he almost fainted, and he announced on the spot that he would never marry another wife for the rest of his life, and only recognized Liang Jiehua as his only wife in this life.
Now, two years have passed since the death of his wife Liang Jiehua, has Huang Rihua kept his oath to his deceased wife as promised, lived alone, and never found a new love? Whether his deep affection and perseverance can stand the test of time and become the real "Qiao Feng" in real life will make people wait and see.
【1】
From a broken football dream to a wireless star: Huang Rihua's turning point when he was unexpectedly selected for the actor training class
In 1961, Huang Rihua was born in a family in Kowloon City, Hong Kong, with two mahjong tables as the main source of income.
Due to the non-stop mahjong sound in the small space, Huang Rihua did not like this kind of family environment, and his emotional sustenance turned to football, and he was immersed in running and scrambling on the green field for a long time, determined to become a professional football player.
Driven by enthusiasm, Huang Rihua boldly participated in the football player selection competition, and stood out from thousands of applicants, and he advanced to the final selection process together with three other people.
Just when he was looking forward to making his dream come true, the organizers made a decision that made him frustrated, eliminating Huang Rihua and choosing the other three.
Life often closes one door and opens another.
Soon after that blow, with the continuous encouragement and recommendation of some elders, Huang Rihua signed up for the extremely competitive Hong Kong TVB actor training class with the mentality of giving it a try.
According to the memories of Miao Qiaowei, who signed up at the same time, the number of applicants for that session was as high as more than 6,000, and Huang Rihua's experience was magical.
He only took the initial examination, and when he returned home in the evening, he received a call to be admitted, and the other party also thoughtfully told him that he had been successfully selected and did not have to take the later examinations, but if he was interested, he could continue to participate in the later assessment process.
In this way, Huang Rihua, who originally longed for the football field, seemed to have gotten a precious opportunity without much effort, and successfully entered the ninth training class of the TVB actor training class, and began his unforeseen artistic career.
【2】
has become a smash hit idol from a small life, and he has not forgotten his original intention in the face of fame and fortune
In 1980, Huang Rihua officially stepped into the entertainment industry and signed a contract with TVB, starting his acting career full of unknowns and challenges.
At first, Huang Rihua was just an unknown young actor in the entertainment industry, and he played a supporting role in the Republic of China-themed drama "Shanghai Tang" and the emotional drama "Jinghua Spring Dream", making a low-key debut in a tricky way.
The gods of luck seemed to favor this fledgling young man, and just a year later, he ushered in an important turning point in his life.
In 1981, TVB's gold medal producer Li Tiansheng's new drama "Passerby" kicked off filming in Hong Kong.
On the day of the start-up, Chow Yun-fat, who was originally scheduled to play the leading role, categorically refused to participate in the filming due to disagreements with the "wireless" company.
In the face of the ready-to-shoot equipment and the cast that is ready to go, the temporary absence of the actor makes the entire crew fall into chaos, like a pot of boiling porridge.
The staff were anxious and gathered around director Li Tiansheng, urgently asking how to deal with this sudden crisis after losing the leading actor.
Although Li Tiansheng was furious in his heart, at the critical moment, he quickly looked around, locked his eyes on a young man standing silently in the corner, and made a decisive decision: "Let him play the leading role!" At this time, everyone's eyes were invariably focused on this lucky person who was handpicked by Li Tiansheng, who was Huang Rihua, who was only 20 years old at the time.
In the drama "Passerby", Huang Rihua played a cold and arrogant killer Li Tang.
With his outstanding appearance and solid acting skills, Huang Rihua quickly won the love of the audience, with the hit of the TV series, he became a popular student in the spotlight, and countless girls regarded him as their dream lover and adored him.
The famous actress Carina Lau once revealed in an interview that she was deeply infatuated with Huang Rihua back then, and her obsession even inspired her to apply for the TVB artist training class, just to have the opportunity to get close to her idol.
Another film goddess, Maggie Cheung, also specifically mentioned Huang Rihua when looking back on the past, she said that she once waited at the door of the TV station in order to get Huang Rihua's autograph.
In the face of sudden fame and the enthusiastic pursuit of many girls, Huang Rihua did not lose himself, but at the end of 1982, he calmly disclosed his relationship with his girlfriend Liang Jiehua, showing a mature and stable side.
【3】
A tortuous but steadfast on-screen couple love song
The love story between Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua is full of twists and turns and sweetness.
During that time, Liang Jiehua played a dusty woman in the crew, and Huang Rihua played a prodigal son.
At that time, Liang Jiehua was in her youth, not only with a tall figure, but also with a delicate and moving face, Huang Rihua was soon deeply attracted to her.
In her relationship with Liang Jiehua, Huang Rihua found that she was not only outstanding in appearance, but also a sincere, interesting and connotative girl.
When he realized that his feelings for Liang Jiehua had changed from colleague to admiration, Huang Rihua did not choose to hide it, but bravely confessed his heart to Liang Jiehua.
Fortunately, Liang Jiehua also had the same feelings for him, and the two fell in love at first sight and quickly established a relationship.
At that time, the acting training class explicitly forbade students to fall in love with each other, and in order to comply with the regulations, they had been carefully maintaining this underground relationship before Huang Rihua officially stepped into the entertainment industry.
Despite this, Huang Rihua's care and romance for Liang Jiehua have never diminished.
As Huang Rihua gradually emerged, he participated in many TV series, especially in the costume drama with Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu in 1981, which created a deeply rooted image and was known as the "costume god", attracting countless girl fans.
Entering 1982, Huang Rihua challenged Jin Yong's martial arts drama for the first time, and successfully performed the role of the kind and simple Xuzhu in "Tianlong Babu: Six Veins Divine Sword, The Legend of Xuzhu", and after the broadcast of the play, his popularity was further enhanced.
At this time, Huang Rihua decided to make his relationship with Liang Jiehua public.
He no longer wants to let this sincere love hide in the dark, and longs to be able to hold hands with his beloved, shoulder to shoulder, and calmly accept the public's gaze.
As soon as the news of the relationship was made public, it immediately caused a lot of controversy, both from the company and from some of the audience's opposition.
Huang Rihua did not back down because of this, he firmly chose to stand with Liang Jiehua, no matter how the media and the paparazzi chased, their sweet figures often appeared in the streets and alleys, and the pictures of holding hands and shopping and eating together were captured one by one.
As time passed, the public gradually accepted the lovers, and some even expressed envy for their deep friendship, seeing them as a fairy couple.
In 1983, "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" starring Huang Rihua and Weng Meiling was born, which was like injecting a shot in the arm into TVB.
At that time, wireless was in a low period, and many actors faced the dilemma of having no scenes to shoot and chose to leave one after another.
The success of "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" not only saved wireless, but also achieved another peak in Huang Rihua's career.
TVB bet heavily on Huang Rihua and arranged for him to play the role of Guo Jing in the play, and what is surprising is that Huang Rihua accurately grasped Guo Jing's straightforward and persistent temperament and presented it vividly on the screen.
With this role, Huang Rihua became famous in one fell swoop, and TVB also achieved a dramatic reversal because of the success of the show, recovering from the slump.
At this time, Huang Rihua was infinitely beautiful, side by side with Tang Zhenye, Miao Qiaowei, Andy Lau and Tony Leung, known as the "Wireless Five Tiger Generals", and became famous in the entertainment industry.
The law of the entertainment industry is often that the greater the fame, the more right and wrong.
After Huang Rihua became popular, scandals followed, and the names of actresses such as Hui Yinghong, Deng Cuiwen and Gong Cien were associated with him.
These rumors continue to ferment, which makes the relationship between Huang Rihua and his real girlfriend Liang Jiehua suddenly tense.
Although Huang Rihua strenuously denied and repeatedly assured his loyalty to Liang Jiehua, Liang Jiehua still could not let go of the pressure.
Although they had reached the stage of preparing for their wedding, in the end, reason prevailed over emotion, and both parties chose to end the relationship peacefully.
In 1985, when Huang Rihua made the news of their breakup public, he especially emphasized that they broke up after careful consideration, and sincerely wished the other party a better home in the future.
In the same year, Huang Rihua met Gong Cien, an actress who is also a Virgo, during the filming of "Yang Jiajiang".
The same zodiac sign makes them have a lot of tacit understanding in their living habits and interpersonal interactions, and the two naturally get closer.
Huang Rihua mustered up the courage to pursue it, and Gong Cien was moved by his charm and accepted the relationship.
The good start didn't last long, and just a year later, their relationship came to an end.
The reason is that the two have similar temperaments, and they can tolerate each other when they are friends, but after becoming lovers, they become more and more sensitive to each other's small flaws and can't bear it.
This mutual consumption of life exhausted both of them, and in the end they sensibly chose to break up peacefully.
In the days after the breakup, Huang Rihua often misses the quiet years spent with Liang Jiehua.
They had been in love for five years, and there had been almost no heated arguments, and the initial breakup was really impulsive.
Huang Rihua longs for the harmonious and quiet life when he was with Liang Jiehua, he does not want to repeat the experience of his parents' marriage full of quarrels, and is determined to find the lost love.
So, Huang Rihua took the initiative to contact Liang Jiehua and frankly expressed his desire to get back together.
And Liang Jiehua actually never forgot Huang Rihua after the breakup, and when she received his call, she agreed to get back together after a short hesitation.
Far from alienating them, the two years of separation have made them more mature, and when they come back together, they feel more connected and fit with each other than ever.
【4】
From the screen hero to the "beloved wife" in life, he interprets the marriage of an affectionate iron man
In 1988, Huang Rihua proposed to his lover Liang Jiehua, and they were determined to hold each other's hands tightly and spend the rest of their lives together.
On the wedding day, Liang Jiehua was wearing an elegant and gorgeous wedding dress, which was so beautiful that people took their breath away, while Huang Rihua was at a loss because of nervousness, even so, his heart was filled with incomparable happiness and satisfaction, because he finally married his beloved woman.
From the wind and snow of love to the firewood, rice, oil and salt of marriage, they soon discovered that married life is not all smooth sailing, daily trivial matters often lead to disputes, and both parties are unwilling to compromise easily.
After experiencing countless quarrels and reflections, Huang Rihua couldn't help but ask himself repeatedly: Why can we continue to stay together despite frequent quarrels? Perhaps this is love, an emotional bond that cannot be fully explained in words.
Gradually, Huang Rihua understood that the harmony between husband and wife is inseparable from the tolerance and forbearance of both parties.
He began to try to change, and this change was fruitful, the conflict between husband and wife gradually decreased, and Huang Rihua became more respectful and obedient to his wife, becoming a veritable "strict wife".
In the second year after marriage, Liang Jiehua gave birth to their love crystallization - daughter Huang Zhiqing.
In order to take better care of the family, Liang Jiehua decided to quit the entertainment industry and concentrate on her husband and children at home, and the family of three started a warm and harmonious new life.
With a solid family backing, Huang Rihua has moved forward more vigorously in his acting career, and he has created unforgettable roles in many classic film and television dramas, such as the calm and righteous Zhanzhao in "Bao Qingtian", Qiao Feng, the hero who has the world in mind, and the heroic hero Hu Yidao in "Snow Mountain Flying Fox".
In real life, Huang Rihua's love and loyalty to his wife are also praised.
In order to reassure Liang Jiehua, he has always maintained good conduct, and has never had an affair with any actress after marriage.
Whether it is filming outside or in daily life, he always adheres to a regular life and rest to avoid unnecessary suspicions and misunderstandings.
At that time, as long as news reports involving Huang Rihua were almost always labeled "Beloved Wife", highlighting his love and care for his wife.
It can be said that in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, in terms of the degree of pampering his wife, Huang Rihua is definitely one of the best models.
【5】
In 2000, he turned the tide in the family crisis, and later faded out of the showbiz to protect his wife and daughter
The year 2000 was undoubtedly a stormy year for Huang Rihua.
In this short period of time, he not only endured the great grief of his mother's death due to illness, but also faced the severe test of the family crisis.
That year, the media exposed a news about Huang Rihua's wife Liang Jiehua and male colleagues eagerly talking in a private space, which immediately aroused widespread attention and speculation among the public.
Public opinion boiled instantly, and people accused Liang Jiehua of having an extramarital affair.
Subsequently, some so-called "evidence" followed, including photos of Liang Jiehua walking in the rain with an unknown man and exchanging flowers, which further deepened the public's identification of her cheating behavior.
For a while, Liang Jiehua's image suddenly deteriorated in the eyes of the public, and she was labeled as a "bad woman", and many media rushed to report it, unanimously condemning her infidelity.
In the face of overwhelming accusations and doubts, Liang Jiehua chose to stand up and clarify the facts.
She insisted that she had a normal colleague relationship with the man and that the interaction between them was purely necessary for work and that there was no overstepping.
Although her explanation is logical, in the face of the surging tide of public opinion, the thin justification seems to be inadequate, and cannot completely dispel people's doubts and accusations.
In order to defend the peace of the family and protect his wife from false accusations, Huang Rihua decided to take the initiative and take practical action.
He put down the halo and shelf of stardom, went to the insurance company where the man involved was, found the man, and took photos together, using practical actions to prove that the two are indeed work partners, not an ambiguous relationship as speculated by the outside world.
Huang Rihua's move showed his persistence and responsibility to his family, and also successfully calmed down the public opinion turmoil.
After experiencing this family turmoil, Huang Rihua's mentality and focus of life have undergone profound changes.
Since 2002, he has gradually faded out of the public eye, reducing his acting work and devoting more energy to accompanying his wife and daughter.
This move is not only to make up for the lack of care for his family, but also to repair and strengthen the marital relationship, reflecting his cherishing and protection of family life.
Huang Rihua's choice allows people to see the responsibility and choice of a public figure in the face of a family crisis, and he interprets what is a real sense of family responsibility with practical actions.
【6】
His wife, Liang Jiehua, was diagnosed with blood cancer, and the husband and wife spent a difficult road against cancer together
2013 is of great significance to Huang Rihua and his wife Liang Jiehua, which is the 25th year of their married life together.
On the anniversary, Liang Jiehua admired the necklace given by her husband in front of the mirror, but unexpectedly found that her nostrils were oozing blood.
The couple didn't pay enough attention to this, and simply thought that Liang Jiehua might be too excited about the festive atmosphere.
As everyone knows, the complexity of the matter is far beyond their expectations.
The next day, Liang Jiehua's physical condition deteriorated sharply, not only feeling fatigue, but also severe dizziness.
She did not go to a big hospital for treatment immediately, but found a small clinic near her home, grabbed a few pairs of medicines and took them at home.
The medication did not provide any relief, but the condition became more and more serious, with nosebleeds, accompanied by a large amount of hair loss, and pillows covered with hair loss.
At this time, Liang Jiehua and Huang Rihua realized that this was not an ordinary disease, so they decided to go to a major hospital for a detailed examination.
As a result, doctors diagnosed Leung Kit-wah with a blood cancer, known as leukemia, which is one of the typical symptoms of leukemia.
Liang Jiehua was shocked and could not accept this cruel reality, she repeatedly asked the doctor: "Are you sure that there is no diagnosis error? I have always paid attention to health maintenance, how could I suffer from this disease?" Although Liang Jiehua was full of doubts and unwillingness, the doctor still insisted that she be admitted to the hospital for treatment immediately.
Faced with a severe condition, Liang Jiehua had to follow the doctor's instructions and be admitted to the hospital.
Huang Rihua took care of his sick wife wholeheartedly, resolutely suspended all work, and stayed by Liang Jiehua's side every step of the way.
Liang Jiehua began a long and arduous chemotherapy process, and the scene of other patients in the ward suffering from hair loss due to treatment shocked her, she stroked her thinning hair, and couldn't help but feel sad: "Will I be like them, all my hair will fall out?" Seeing this, Huang Rihua was distressed, and immediately comforted: "My dear, even if you really lose your hair, you are still very beautiful in my heart, and I will always love you." The high medical costs required to treat blood cancer continue to pour into the hospital's account like flowing water, and Liang Jiehua, who was originally plump and fair-skinned, was also devastated by chemotherapy, her cheeks were sunken, and her hair was almost gone.
In order to hide her sick appearance, she always wears a hat on weekdays.
Although Huang Rihua is a well-known actor, his early income was not rich, and in the face of sudden huge medical expenses, their life pressure increased sharply.
Huang Rihua spent about 7.5 million yuan on treating his seriously ill wife, Liang Jiehua, and he believes that it was all worth it, because his wife occupies an irreplaceable place in his heart.
In 2015, after a long period of treatment and nursing, Liang Jiehua's condition was finally effectively controlled and he was discharged from the hospital.
Liang Jiehua, who has been reborn, is full of emotion, knowing the fragility of life, but also full of deep gratitude to her husband Huang Rihua for his long-term selfless dedication and persistent care.
When she said to Huang Rihua with tears in her eyes: "Husband, thank you for doing so much for me, you have worked too hard."
Huang Rihua hugged her tightly and comforted: "The family doesn't need to say this, as long as you are well, it is the greatest comfort to us." ”
In order to make his wife happy, Liang Jiehua walked out of the house for the first time after recovering from illness, Huang Rihua accompanied her to the mall, buying beautiful clothes and jewelry, looking at his wife's long-lost smile, Huang Rihua's heart was full of relief.
In order to pay for the high medical bills, Huang Rihua began to take over various commercial performances, no matter the size, he did his best, and no longer had any pickiness.
Huang Rihua was once famous for playing the hero Guo Jing in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" and the hero Qiao Feng in "Dragon Babu", he cherished these characters and never easily used them to hype.
However, in order to raise money for his wife's treatment, he would recreate the classic scene of Guo Jing pulling a bow and shooting the eagle in each performance, although the years have left traces on his body and his body is slightly blessed, he still plays each role with the most serious attitude.
Ill-fated, Liang Jiehua's physical condition was not stable.
In 2018, she had to be admitted to the hospital again, where she was told that she would have to have a bone marrow transplant, which was extremely expensive.
Huang Rihua resolutely said: "Even if the family is bankrupt, I will treat my wife, and I must accompany her to defeat the disease." Although the operation was successful, it brought serious side effects, and Liang Jiehua's organ function deteriorated rapidly and his body became weaker day by day.
Looking at his tortured wife on the hospital bed, Huang Rihua's heart was like a knife, and he secretly swore in his heart: "If I can make my wife recover, I am willing to live for 20 years!" On May 26, 2020, Liang Jiehua finally left her husband Huang Rihua and daughter, who loved her deeply, leaving endless thoughts and regrets.
【7】
In the pain of losing his wife, he kept his oath and finally walked out of the haze accompanied by his daughter
At the funeral of his wife Liang Jiehua, Huang Rihua was grief-stricken, tears poured into his eyes, and the irrepressible grief deeply touched the hearts of everyone present.
With extremely sincere emotion, he made a solemn oath in public: "I only have one wife in this life, Liang Jiehua, I will continue to protect her, keep my promise, and never marry another in this life." Although the relatives and friends around him persuaded him to find a new partner to spend the rest of his life with as soon as possible, Huang Rihua's feelings for his deceased wife were unswerving, and he could no longer tolerate anyone else in his heart.
During the day, with the company of family and friends, he can still endure his grief and barely squeeze out a smile, but when night falls, when everything is silent, the longing for his wife is like a tide, making him toss and turn and sleepless all night.
A few months after Liang Jiehua's death, Huang Rihua accepted the first in-depth interview in his life.
During the interview, whenever he mentioned his wife, his eyes were red and tears welled up.
He said emotionally: "For me, the most unforgettable memory and the most painful experience is the moment when I witnessed my wife's death. It was the most unforgettable image of my life. Huang Rihua knows that the fate between husband and wife is over, but that affection will never fade.
Soon after, Huang Rihua was invited to participate in the program hosted by Lai Zhishan, which was originally a heartwarming program designed to soothe people's hearts, but when he inadvertently mentioned Liang Jiehua, tears broke down again: "In the past 40 years, my wife and I have always been like glue, and we have been so happy and happy. But since she passed away last year due to illness, my world has lost its color, and my happiness has gone with it. In those unbearable lonely moments, Huang Rihua would choose to look through his wife's photos to express his grief.
He printed more than 30,000 photos of the years they had walked together, from acquaintance, love, birth of a beloved daughter to entering the palace of marriage, a total of more than 30,000 photos, and carefully classified and sorted them out in chronological order.
Each photo carries a warm past and condenses the deep emotional bond between them.
Huang Rihua often stared at the photo and let the tears fall, which made her daughter Huang Zhiqing see it in her eyes and hurt in her heart.
In order to help his father overcome his grief, she carefully planned a series of activities to accompany him on trips, taste food, watch movies and entertainment, in order to divert his attention and alleviate his pain.
Under the careful care and companionship of his daughter Huang Zhiqing, Huang Rihua gradually came out of the haze of losing his wife and began to reintegrate into social life, occasionally making guest appearances in old friends' movies, participating in variety show recordings, enjoying distant scenery, and trying to open a new chapter in life.
Over time, Huang Rihua eventually adapted to the state of being single.
When asked again whether he would keep his promise and remain single for life, he responded indifferently: "The matter of fate is not controlled by man, it is the will of God, and we cannot predict when it will come." Therefore, I chose not to think too much about it, but to focus on the present moment and do my part. These words not only reflect Huang Rihua's calm acceptance of fate, but also show his openness to his future life.
【8】
Affectionate protection, life and death depend on each other, love transcends the boundaries of life
In 2019, Huang Rihua and his daughter participated in the recording of the mainland variety show "Daughter's Boyfriend".
In the show, Huang Rihua had tears in his eyes and revealed to the audience the truth about his wife Liang Jiehua's poor physical condition.
He affectionately said that despite the changes in life circumstances, whether rich or poor, whether healthy or sick, he would keep the vows he made when he got married, and always be by his wife's side.
In order to save his wife, Huang Rihua almost exhausted the wealth accumulated in his life, and tried his best to restore Liang Jiehua's health.
Despite great efforts and sacrifices, Liang Jiehua finally passed away, leaving Huang Rihua to bear the pain of losing his wife alone.
"Life and death are broad, and Zicheng said. Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son. This classic verse from the "Book of Songs" aptly depicts the deep and pure love between Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua, which depends on life and death.
Although the reality has not allowed them to grow old together as they wish, Huang Rihua has done his best, even at all costs, just to protect his beloved.
This deep affection that transcends the boundaries of life is undoubtedly the most noble interpretation of love.
It is conceivable that even if Liang Jiehua has turned into a star in the sky, her soul will definitely feel Huang Rihua's endless love and persistence, and feel deeply comforted and satisfied.