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In the 80s of the last century, a drama called "Plainclothes Police" was like the last gorgeous sunset at sunset, injecting a strong vitality into the dull society of the time.
The actor Hu Yajie in the play has successfully created the image of "Zhou Zhiming" with his superb acting skills, and his heroism and enthusiasm are deeply imprinted in the hearts of every audience.
At that time, Hu Yajie was only a junior in his early 20s, and he was full of apprehension and anxiety about playing a role that spanned more than 30 years old and needed to have rich social experience.
However, he did not back down because of this, but humbly asked the director for advice with a humble attitude, and had an in-depth discussion with the director. Unexpectedly, just a week later, he received a formal invitation from the crew.
In order to be able to interpret the role more perfectly, Hu Yajie resolutely decided to spend a whole month in the detention center. At that time, each actor was fully engaged in the creation of the character, doing his best, as if he was fully integrated into the world of the character.
Hu Yajie is exactly like this, although he lacks rich acting experience, but with his serious and diligent work attitude and professionalism, whether it is day or night, he always holds the script in his hand and reads it carefully.
With the joint efforts of all the staff of the entire crew, the character image of "Zhou Zhiming", who has gone through hardships and twists and turns and finally grown into an excellent policeman, was finally vividly presented in front of the audience.
The film won numerous awards upon airing, and its sensational effect was unprecedented. As a result, Hu Yajie has become a household name "Rock Boy", known as the first batch of idol stars in the real sense of the Chinese film and television industry.
Countless young people are determined to join the criminal police team because of the worship of the police image he plays. In the face of all these honors and achievements, Hu Yajie himself was extremely surprised, he never expected that his words and deeds could have such a far-reaching impact.
In 1992, Hu Yajie received an invitation to play an adopted orphan in the movie. It was in that place that he met a girl who made him fall in love at first sight - Tang Jing.
Unlike him, who was born into a military family, Tang Jingnai is an authentic Beijing girl who spent a happy childhood in her father's drama world since she was a child. At the age of 11, she embarked on a journey to the opera school and devoted herself to the study of the art of Peking Opera.
"Her demeanor back then was extraordinary! As a Wudan born, she is amazing, and she is by no means an ordinary person! Now, years later, Hu Yajie still fondly recalls the first time he saw Tang Jing in heroic form.
At that time, she was slender and slender, with an elegant temperament, and a pair of bright eyes flashing with wisdom, which made him fall in love at first sight, and his eyes could never leave.
However, when this beautiful girl really approached him, Hu Yajie was like a teenager who had not been deeply involved in the world, so nervous that he didn't know what to do, and it was difficult to express his emotions.
"At that time, we didn't have a clear title between us, nor did we address each other as 'teacher', and we just nodded lightly when we met as a greeting" Whenever she recalled this beautiful past, Tang Jing couldn't help but smile knowingly.
As a fellow villager, in order to win the heart of the beauties, Hu Yajie gradually let go of his inner restraints and actively sought opportunities to communicate with Tang Jing. He told her in detail about the customs of Beijing and his unique understanding of the art of opera.
"We all came out of the same place, if you need help, you can always come to me" Later, I learned that Tang Jing loved yellow peaches, and he did not hesitate to travel thousands of miles to find this heart for her in the local county.
Seeing that this famous movie star is so approachable and considerate, the feelings in Tang Jing's heart have quietly grown like spring rain.
Unfortunately, Tang Jing's father suddenly suffered from cerebral thrombosis, and although he was saved by timely rescue, he left serious sequelae, resulting in half of his body and completely unable to take care of himself.
For this young lover, it was undoubtedly a heavy blow Hu Yajie saw it in his eyes and was very anxious in his heart, but at that time he was busy making an important movie, so he could only bite the bullet and take the initiative to take care of his father-in-law.
During those difficult years, he traveled between the hospital and the set, taking care of the daily life of the elderly. Although his father-in-law seemed drowsy most of the time, Hu Yajie always insisted on a cordial conversation with him, as if this would make the old man feel at home.
The vigorous and energetic son-in-law in front of him deeply touched all the medical staff present with his firm determination and hard work. In just half a year, Hu Yajie and Tang Jing, the lovers, finally became married and walked into the sacred hall of marriage hand in hand.
Since then, he has not only made brilliant achievements in his career, but also ushered in the happiness of his family: on the one hand, he successfully entered the Chinese People's Liberation Army Air Force Political Department Repertory Troupe, became a glorious literary and artistic soldier, and participated in the shooting of many well-known film and television works, such as "Distant Clouds, Near Clouds", "Blood Morning", "New Year" and "Wisteria Garden", etc., and also won many important awards such as the Golden Globe Award in a row, becoming a high-profile first-line actor at that time.
On the other hand, he worked together with his wife to live a stable and fulfilling life. Although the two often quarreled over trivial matters in life, and even filed for divorce many times, they failed to achieve it in the end.
Tang Jing said frankly in an interview: "He usually seems very serious and rarely compromises, however, when he gets drunk, the whole person seems to be refreshed, becomes extremely gentle, and even coquettish, and those sweet words that are difficult to speak on weekdays will continue to pour out."
In 1997, after the crystallization of Hu Yajie and Tang Jing's love was born, his wife did not hesitate to give up her beloved stage performance career, and instead devoted herself to the role of a full-time housewife and devoted herself to taking care of her family.
The family of three is happy, and the couple seems to have found the best balance in life.
However, fate challenged the family again that year – Hu Yajie's father-in-law's condition deteriorated and he needed to stay in bed for a long time. The situation at that time was even worse: my father-in-law suddenly suffered from cerebral thrombosis, and although he was saved by timely treatment, he left serious sequelae, resulting in hemiplegia, completely unable to take care of himself, and he could only lie in bed and suffer from the pain every day.
"Although he can't speak, his mind is still clear." Whenever she recalls her father's heroic posture in the past, but now he is lying on the hospital bed like a living dead, Tang Jing can't help but cry like rain.
As a housewife, she was exhausted from the chores of a small family, but now she has to take care of her in-laws, her parents, and her own and her husband's three families.
Hu Yajie's life is like a marathon, and his daily hard work makes him physically and mentally exhausted. Sometimes, however, in the dead of night, he had a chance to catch his breath, lay flat on the bed, and fall into a deep sleep.
Whenever he saw his wife's haggard face and increasingly plump body, his heart was filled with endless guilt, because he knew that his wife had paid too much effort and sweat for the happiness of this family.
In order to be able to share the heavy responsibilities shouldered by his wife, he did not hesitate to put down all the work in his hands and devote himself to the family, and shared the responsibility of taking care of the family with his wife.
In the following three years, Hu Yajie always accompanied his father-in-law's sickbed, and gradually mastered various skills in caring for patients.
Although most of the time, my father-in-law always seemed lethargic, but he still persevered in communicating with the elderly and sharing interesting things in life, as if this would make the elderly feel the warmth of home.
Seeing her husband taking such careful and thoughtful care, Tang Jing's heart was filled with incomparable happiness. She said with emotion: "It is my greatest blessing to be able to spend the rest of my life with you."
In the past, I didn't fully understand the true meaning of the phrase 'old companion', but now I finally understand that we must go through every time together, no matter what difficulties we encounter, we must support each other and share happiness."
Hu Yajie was alone at home taking care of his father-in-law and other elders in the family, without any outside assistance, and all the burden fell on him alone. Sometimes, when Tang Jing returned home, she saw her husband sitting on the sofa exhausted, with washed sheets and crutches scattered on the floor beside him, apparently just finished all this.
She silently walked behind her husband, hugged him tightly, left an affectionate kiss on his forehead, and said gratefully, "Thank you, thank you very much." ”
With the joint efforts of the couple, the father-in-law's condition was finally brought under control. In 2015, Hu Yajie participated in the TV series "My Niangtian Xiaocao", and once again won warm applause and cheers from the audience with his superb acting skills.
It is worth mentioning that in this series, he plays a paralyzed patient, and every time he falls on the ground, the scene is real and shocking. Due to his lack of relevant experience, he was injured many times during filming, his hands and feet were bloodied, and even his pants slipped off because he was not fastened with a belt.
After a period of tempering, he gradually mastered the methods of dealing with these situations and learned to take the necessary precautions.
Since then, the couple has become more closely involved in public welfare, actively participating in various social activities, helping the disadvantaged raise funds, spreading relevant knowledge, and even building facilities such as safety experience halls.
When asked how he felt about winning the award, Hu Yajie always maintained a humble and polite attitude, and replied frankly: "All the glory should be attributed to my wife, if it were not for her selfless support and encouragement, I would not have been able to achieve what I am today."
When it comes to tutoring, Hu Yajie and his wife, Tang Jing, adopt complementary strategies: his wife plays the role of a stern mother, while he presents himself as a tolerant and enthusiastic father. However, no matter what method they take, they attach great importance to teaching by word and deed, and always guide their children with their own behavior, and resolutely prevent their sons from having any thoughts of privilege.
From the time the child was still in primary school, they taught him to be sincere and humble to his family and friends. Whenever children are faced with a choice, whether it is going to school or other matters, they never forcibly intervene, but let the children weigh the pros and cons before making the decision.
Even when his son went to study in a foreign country, he learned the news that his grandfather was seriously ill, and it was his son who took the initiative to give up his studies and embark on the journey back to China to accompany his relatives.
Every weekend from then on, the father and son would go to the hospital as scheduled to accompany the sick elderly in bed. Hu Yajie always patiently and meticulously told his son about his grandfather's life and deeds, and warned his son to remember the teachings of his ancestors and never forget his roots.
Seeing his son listening attentively, his heart was filled with endless relief.
In daily life, Hu Yajie and his wife take care of their son carefully and thoughtfully. When they go out shopping, they often see a delicious food or an interesting toy, so they don't hesitate to buy it and give it to their son, just to see the happy smile on the child's face.
"All the precious items I have are carefully selected and gifted by the couple and they always put my needs first whenever and wherever they are," says my son.
It is precisely because of having parents with excellent quality such as parents-in-law and mother-in-law that we can give birth to our outstanding and good husband - Mr. Hu Yajie! It is precisely because of these two extremely attentive and thoughtful parents that we can see a male role model who respects the elderly and respects the virtuous, and has excellent character and learning!
Mr. Hu Yajie and his wife, Ms. Tang Jing, with their personal experience and practical actions, vividly show us the two ancient and timeless themes of "filial piety" and "love", which makes the world sigh!