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Back then, Ge You can be described as a legend in the minds of countless fans! His unique and superb comedic talent has made him a brilliant figure in the film industry. His dominance in the international film industry cannot be shaken; His unparalleled comedic talent is even more breathtaking.
In addition, he has also won many heavyweight awards, such as Cannes Best Actor, Golden Rooster Award Best Actor, etc., which fully prove Ge You's outstanding achievements in the field of performing arts.
However, just as his career was reaching its peak, his personal life was in an unprecedented predicament. With the loving care of no parents and the joyful expectation of no children, her only sister Ge Jia also went to a foreign country and settled in the United States.
Now that he has entered the age of sixtieth year, only his wife He Cong is by his side, which makes him often show a trace of loneliness and loneliness in private.
Whenever he recalls the decision to be infertile for life when he was young, Ge You is always full of emotion. At that time, in order to devote himself to his career and pursue an independent and free lifestyle, he and He Cong made this important decision together.
However, the rational choice for a while has been exchanged for some regrets after aging now.
Whenever he sees the laughter and excitement of the children in his friend's house, Ge You will always feel an indescribable sense of loss in his heart. Perhaps it was the arrangement of fate that made him taste the ups and downs of life.
Fortunately, he is not really alone, after the death of his best friend Fu Biao, Ge You did not hesitate to accept his son Fu Zien as a righteous son, showing the responsibility and care of the elders to the younger generations with practical actions.
However, despite the company of the righteous son, the relationship between him and his biological children is still different after all. Especially as I get older, I don't have other close friends around me, and the loneliness becomes more and more intense.
Every time he stared at the side face of his wife He Cong, Ge You couldn't help but show a little melancholy.
Time seems to go back to the 90s of the last century, when Ge You was in the golden age of his career, and people from all walks of life gave him high praise and praise for his acting talent. However, just as he became famous, his family life suffered a series of changes and blows.
The first thing that catches my eye is the heavy blow caused by the death of my parents one after another. As the head of the family, Ge You can't hide the pain in his heart every time he worships his deceased parents.
Especially when his kind and kind mother Shi Wenxin passed away, his emotions were almost on the verge of collapse, which made people feel pity.
After all, in Ge You's long growth path, his mother has always been his closest confidant. The huge shock of losing his loving mother made it difficult for Ge You to recover from his grief.
In addition, her sister Ge Jia's decision to choose to settle in the United States also made Ge You feel unprecedented confusion and hesitation. Although Ge Jia, as a new generation of women who are constantly striving for self-improvement, has the right to choose their own path in life, this move also means that Ge You will lose the companionship and support of her relatives again after the death of her parents.
Before parting, Ge Jia thoughtfully suggested that her brother consider having children in order to have a stable old age, but in the end she respected and understood her brother's decision. After all, as an adult, Ge You should have the right and conscience to make choices about his life path.
Facing the moment when his sister was about to leave, although Ge You seemed calm and calm on the surface, his heart was full of endless nostalgia. He knows very well that when he enters his twilight years, in addition to his wife He Cong, the only person who can rely on each other is probably the adopted son Fu Zien.
Such loneliness and loneliness will undoubtedly make people feel frightened and uneasy.
Despite Ge You's brilliant achievements in his career, his private life was not all smooth sailing, and it was not until he met He Cong that his fate ushered in a new dawn.
When they met for the first time, He Cong was deeply moved by Ge You's humble and polite demeanor. As a knowledgeable woman, He Cong naturally has extremely high requirements for male friends, but Ge You's first impression on her is so flawless.
With the subsequent dates, He Cong has a deeper understanding of Ge You's many advantages such as diligence, sincerity, kindness, and responsibility. And Ge You was also deeply attracted by He Cong's unique literary atmosphere, and the relationship between the two quickly warmed up, and the fire of love was burning.
However, deciding on the process of working together for the rest of your life is not an easy task. Since both parents are looking forward to seeing their grandchildren as soon as possible, when Ge You and He Cong announced that they would abandon their plans to have children, they immediately attracted strong opposition.
"You are already not young, and you are about to enter the threshold of thirty years old, but you can't forget the responsibility of inheriting the bloodline!" He Cong's mother urged with an extremely anxious expression. "Indeed, your career is thriving at the moment, and if you can add a new life, your family will be happier and happier.
Ge You's mother also chimed in and lobbied passionately.
However, in the face of the persuasion of their parents in turn, Ge You and He Cong resolutely defended their position. "We are all career-oriented, and we want to have a relatively free life." "In addition, I personally don't have full confidence in taking on the role of father.
Indeed, mother, today's society is developing rapidly, and the concept of being too conservative has long been outdated. We plan to enjoy the world of the two of us, and it is enough to care for each other and rely on each other. He Cong also unabashedly stated his views.
Despite this, both parents remained stubborn, and the atmosphere was tense to the point of solidification. In the end, Ge You and He Cong emotionalized their parents with firm belief and sincere love, and the parents of both sides had no choice but to compromise and reluctantly accepted the "non-mainstream" life choices of this young man.
Since then, Ge You and He Cong have lived a sweet life of living together in the world of the two. They devote most of their time and energy to their careers, supporting each other and overcoming difficulties together.
Although they have endured doubts and reproaches from relatives and friends, the two have always kept their promises, and their dedication to this way of life is not a kind of tenacity.
Today's Ge You has become a bright star in the film industry, but in the long journey to success, he has also experienced countless hardships and setbacks. Whenever he recalls the past, Ge You can't help but frown, revealing a thoughtful look.
In 1976, Ge You, who had just left school, was sent to work on an ordinary pig farm in Changping County, Beijing, which was far from the artistic path he longed for. There, he had to deal with the foul-smelling pig manure every day, and it was hard to imagine that in such a hostile environment, a world-renowned comedy master could be born.
However, it was this arduous experience that made Ge You deeply aware of his artistic talent and dreams. In 1978, after learning the news that Chinese art academies had begun to recruit students, Ge You resolutely resigned and decided to take the exam, hoping to reverse his fate with his talent.
Although his first foray into acting was a complete success, Ge You did not choose to back down or stop because of this. Under the enthusiastic encouragement and encouragement of his father Ge Cunzhuang, he resolutely signed up for the audition of the Chinese Trade Union Literary and Art Group, and integrated the bitter tempering he experienced in the pig farm into a comedy short film "Feeding the Pig".
Amazingly, this sketch work won the unanimous praise of the judges, and Ge You also stepped into the journey of realizing his dream and bidding farewell to the hard years spent on the pig farm.
Ge You, who has just joined the crew, can only play those insignificant roles in the play due to the lack of professional acting training. However, he was not discouraged by such a predicament, but diligently observed and learned from the superb acting skills of his predecessors in the crew, and gradually explored a unique comedy performance style.
Finally, in 1985, Ge You appeared on the big screen for the first time and participated in the movie "Fiancée in Midsummer", which officially kicked off his brilliant acting career. Two years later, his brilliant performance in the movie "The Stubborn Master" earned him a nomination for the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actor, and his fame rose to prominence in the film industry.
In 1989, Ge You was fortunate to participate in the filming of the film "Code Name Jaguar" directed by Zhang Yimou. From an unknown small role to his outstanding performance in "Farewell My Concubine", Ge You finally won the eye-catching Cannes Best Actor crown in 1993 with the film "Alive", and his outstanding acting talent has also been widely recognized and appreciated by audiences around the world.