On December 24, according to Taiwan media reports, 40-year-old actor Xie Jiajian attended a public welfare event, he incarnated as a "gift-giving ambassador", went to the home of a poor single mother with the staff, sent gifts and red envelopes, and called on all walks of life to pay more attention to vulnerable families.
At the event, Xie Jiajian was once moved to tears, and he also exposed his unhappy and miserable experience.
Xie Jiajian, who has been debuting for many years, has won the first Golden Vision Award in Malaysia with superb acting skills. Recently, he was also pulled out as the "prince" of the Malaysian supermarket chain, with family assets of more than 10 billion, and is a veritable rich second generation.
However, behind Xie Jiajian's scenery, there are many unknown bitterness.
Xie Jiajian recalled that his parents divorced from an early age, and his father left him to his grandparents to raise in order to do business.
Because his parents were not around, he was often bullied by relatives in his childhood and suffered from all kinds of cold words.
At that time, he was still in elementary school, only 9 years old and 10 years old, and he had to go to the river to take a bath, get up at 3 a.m. to cut bananas and light candles to read, which was very bleak.
Every New Year's Day, Xie Jiajian did not have parents around to buy new clothes for him to wear, and it was rare to have an uncle who hurt him very much, and every time he came back, he took 1,000 yuan to his grandmother, saying that he would take him to buy new clothes and shoes, which made him very happy. A person who is not a father, but is so generous to him, such a kindness, he confesses that he will always remember and thank the other party for a lifetime.
Xie Jiajian also mentioned that he did not have his first birthday cake until he was 17 years old, and he knew what birthdays tasted like. It was also at that time that his relationship with his father began to warm up, and his life gradually improved.
However, the experience of his childhood left an indelible impression on him, and he always told himself that he had to study hard, be stronger than others, and never lose. He really didn't want to go back to the neglected feeling he used to have, it really hurt.
Affected by force majeure, Xie Jiajian has not returned to Malaysia since the beginning of the year. He said that going home to quarantine, I think it's painful because I really can't stay in a space for too long.
Xie Jiajian also revealed that his father always told him to go home and asked him why he didn't come home. Recently, he also used the excuse of his uncle's 80th birthday to let him go back to participate. However, Xie Jiajian felt that he was used to living here and felt that there was a feeling of home here.
In fact, dad also proposed to help him buy a house, but he felt that the house here was too expensive and the cost performance was too low. For the same price, you can buy a villa in your hometown, you can only buy one house here, and he plans to take the money given by his father to shoot a play.
Asked about the coming year, do you want to end singleness? Xie Jiajian said bluntly that he has always taken his career as the primary goal, and unless he wants to have a baby, he will not find another half.
Finally, I wish Xie Jiajian a smooth work and a happy life!