Write the warmest words in the deepest nights
Author: Sui Meng Z
Hello everyone, this is Tachibana Koman.
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Recently, an incident related to "a 24-year-old girl in Henan" has continued to dominate the hot search.
Heartbreaking, infuriating.
The heat of this event remained high, and it was not flooded by the sea of people.
A living life was buried in his marriage, not to mention the contradictions and entanglements between them, the loss of a single life is enough to prove to society:
Marriage is no longer the fate of girls, love and be loved are the rights of girls.
Nowadays, there are more and more free and independent girls in society, who can not only complete the realization of self-worth, but also assume the responsibility of supporting their parents.
The group power in this society, girls, is really indispensable!
Girls who see this article, please continue reading.
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From childhood to adulthood, every girl has to go through a long process of growth.
In this process, there are many changes, including changes in appearance and changes in heart.
Every girl can embrace her true self in a different way and develop a new and beautiful look.
At the beginning, girls can first feel their inner emotions, release positive energy from the bottom of their hearts, and believe in themselves.
Even if there are sometimes many negative voices from the outside world, it is important to learn to lower your shoulders, tolerate your own shortcomings and those of others, and see your own vulnerability while appreciating your own strengths.
Secondly, girls should also learn to accept their own characteristics and personalities, do not force themselves to do some very unnatural things, obey their hearts, find a suitable healthy way for themselves, and enrich themselves.
Only by understanding oneself can one better accept others.
Finally, girls also learn to embrace failure and setbacks.
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The journey of life is always accompanied by failure, but how to face it positively is the key.
When failure comes, don't collapse, stop, reflect well, bring gains, don't always be simply negative, be optimistic about change, warm your heart like the rising sun, and make yourself stronger.
Girls should embrace themselves, accept their true appearance, feel their great existence, face life bravely, and embrace their vigorous self when the morning of growth comes.
They keep their good expectations in their hearts, but no one guarantees that they will be fulfilled.
They will see pain and suffering as a kind of growth, move forward steadily, and constantly bravely face setbacks, whether they are injured or lost.
They learn to wake up from their dreams so that endless darkness no longer attacks their hearts. They know how to let go of themselves, see everyone around them, and over time, they also grow step by step.
Every girl has their own story, whether it is pain or happiness, they can turn it into strength and make themselves usher in a new look.
They will quietly seal their secrets, endure any suffering silently, use their perseverance to change their destiny, and create their own beauty with their own efforts.
They will strive to move forward in order to reach a happy end, and use their energy to light up the night sky, like shining starlight, shining brightly, bringing more brilliant light to the world.
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As a girl, you are also strong enough.
When you feel overwhelmed, remember: as a schoolgirl, you have strong perseverance and courage. You have the ability to achieve what you love and achieve the goals of your dreams.
No matter what happens in life, you have to firmly believe in yourself and don't hold back when you see an obstacle.
Girls have greater power than boys, as long as you firmly pursue your goals, you will definitely reap the rewards.
In the face of difficulties, what you have to do is to show your strength, not choose to give up or even lose hope because of failure.
Acknowledging that you sometimes fail and trying to learn from your failures and find ways to take you to the next level, that's all that matters.
Let yourself keep working hard, maintain high morale, be brave to do what you think is right, bravely face setbacks, and achieve your dreams, which is the skill that every girl should have.
In short, every girl should have a confident, optimistic and positive attitude, create their own future, and continue to work hard in the journey of pursuing their dreams, and eventually you will achieve your dreams!
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