In April 2019, Chizuko Ueno addressed new students entering Japanese institutions of higher learning in the auditorium of the University of Tokyo
"What awaits you is a society where hard work is not fairly rewarded.
Professor Ueno said this because, as a scholar of women's studies, she has seen too many incidents of unfairness between men and women.
As a professor of gender equality, Ueno is in the concept of equality between men and women
Directly point out: men and women have the same power, not to make women like men, men and women have the same power is that the weak are respected in the posture of the weak, no matter what kind of world and environment, even if they become refugees, they must master the wisdom of survival.
She hopes that graduates of the University of Tokyo: Don't use the unique circumstances and abilities you have acquired to belittle those who are not as fortunate as you, but to help them. ”
In the early spring of 2023, in order to promote Professor Ueno's book "Misogyny", a publishing house specially invited Cai Quanhee, a self-media emotional blogger who graduated from Peking University, to talk about feminism.
The blogger took a headline that forced Graman: "As long as you live freely, you can do whatever you want."
Unfortunately, when Kim Hee Hee took her two married roommates, sitting lazily on the bed in a pair of pajamas, she asked Professor Chizuko Ueno, who was still unmarried, with a happy face:
Are you not marrying because you have been hurt by men before?
As soon as this topic came out, it was basically equivalent to dragging the "love title" of Peking University graduation to the bottom of the foot to rub.
Even many netizens typed: Thank you to these 3 married ladies of Peking University, who cured my blind worship of famous schools.
Whether it is Jin Xixi traffic for the sake of traffic, or topic hype for the sake of topic hype, in short, she has successfully come out of the circle and has become a negative teaching material for independent women.
You must know that everyone really has a lot of expectations for women who graduated from Peking University. Peking University and Eastern University are among the well-known universities in Asia.
We would have liked to hear the advice and opinions of Kochi women on women's confusion (schoolwork, employment, marriage, having children, personal growth).
As a result, they did not expect that they would be like the seven aunts and eight aunts from the village, and they started the topic of marriage and childbirth.
To be honest, who looks at it does not shake his head
Anxious married women who graduated from Peking University: You can study, take exams, and get a high diploma dowry, which does not mean that you adapt to the development and changes of this society, and you do not represent the values of all women
The question is you married, do you really feel happy and happy
Have you really thought about what it means for independent women to be better versions of themselves? You are the real misogyny.
Misogyny core: hating one's female identity and not taking everything you have for granted. I especially care about other people's opinions, because I am afraid of losing, I always live carefully, and I do nothing because I like it, but because I love it to cater to the preferences of others.
The growth of a woman does not lie in where she graduates, but in the fact that she can see herself as a person, not a tool person! Be yourself! It is to live out your own attitude to life, not to look at people's eyes and attitudes in all lives
I don't want more women to feel that because of Peking University's anxiety about the existence of married women, do they see, don't they end up becoming ordinary women who condescend to family marriages, endure cheating husbands and prostitutes, and desperately give birth to children to save their families?
You see, they have also become "male treasure" spokespersons, married women who provide more emotional value to men. The most terrifying thing in the world is that elite women walk down the altar without saying anything, and they cater to the world to spread various values that drop their heads.
They earn all kinds of topics, all kinds of traffic fame and fortune value, and by the way, educate women without independent thinking into real "marriage tool people"
Married women are never cut from unmarried women. It's not that you're married and you belong to your husband, and you can't be yourself.
It is that you are married, you should think more about the meaning of marriage to you, and how to make yourself happy in marriage, let the other half become your own help, rather than being dragged down by the other half, and from then on embark on the road of living for family lovers and children.
The problem is that everyone, including married people, is also an individual, and needs their own career, pursuits, and room for growth, regardless of men and women
Chizuko Ueno said to them very calmly
In feminism, there are those who marry and do not marry, those who give birth to children do not have children, feminism is not divided into three, six and nine, and the most important thing is not to fool yourself
To have the idea of pursuing freedom, as long as you live freely, you can do anything.
Chizuko Ueno, she just happens not to be married, it's not that she doesn't want to get married, it's not that she refuses male courtship, it's just that she just didn't meet her soul mate, she chose celibacy, to stand in the study of equal rights between men and women, and to call on women to become better versions of themselves.
Feminism proposed by Ueno-sensei: The essence is that women are independent in thought, financially independent, and independent in personality, and can live a life with choices!
Instead of being seen by others: a gentle, cute, empathetic girl. Behind a good girl is to follow secular values and live what the world likes, not what she likes.
As for whether you have suffered some harm and did not get married. The essence is that the "good girls" are a kind of provocation and arrogance towards women who are themselves.
"Good girls" are tamed and civilized, and women who are themselves are always thinking about the meaning of their own life and how to live their independent life.
Ueno-sensei sees independent women and men as following their inner voice, willing to listen to their hearts, and able to face themselves honestly and calmly, based on their own values and feelings at all times.
Don't conform to the crowd and don't pander to it, and strive to live your life meaningfully.
About misogynistic men and women... Chizuko Ueno gave the example of a specific group of men and women, and this example is really attractive, they have always existed and will not change, let alone give the so-called solution.
Ueno is just a sociologist, and she can only ask these questions and draw attention, but she can't solve individual problems.
Misogynistic – certain categories of machismo
Women are not seen as an independent person
Women are pets, sexual organs, fertility tools, toys that can be trampled, unfaithful, wantonly beaten and abused... Only women cannot be human and independent
Women's misogyny – patriarchal families are the hardest hit
There is a mother who is bullied by her father, a patriarchal childhood, and cannot prove that she is a woman. The more "patriarchal" the educated women.
The more you fight for your son, the more you don't accept female identity, the more misogynistic (women are competitors) and have no basic friendship and respect for women. I think that women cannot be the main force of a woman without men
Male misogynistic core: Do not allow women to challenge their so-called male dignity and male self-esteem, do not tolerate women being stronger than themselves, verbally attack and suppress independent women, hate their unwillingness to marry and have children, and all women who make him unable to take advantage
The core of female misogyny: dare not face up to their female identity, are indoctrinated and tamed into women: women are one rank lower than men. Dislike women who are better than themselves, and process or spread rumors about her words and deeds to achieve inner balance
Behind misogyny is the analysis: the anatomy of a specific group of men and women, causing controversy... (The topic selling point is enough) is very able to tease female nerves.
The book has many bugs and many opportunistic tricks
Like what
Finding a few chauvinistic male protagonists as a perspective for contempt for women does not represent the views of all men.
Some of the so-called great writers in the West are not prostitutes, mistresses, chaotic private lives, and treat women as playthings. Not to mention misogyny, they hate even themselves.
Using women's misery to encounter sensationalism, causing women's collective panic and pessimism (Ueno knows text guidance and marketing)
Men and women in the context of the big era are tool people of the times, without his real social attributes and attributes. Everything we see, hear and feel needs to be implemented in specific people, in an event itself.
The value of women is to be who you are
Chizuko Ueno was born into a patriarchal family, his father was extremely authoritarian, she spent her life seeking her father's approval, and at the same time she did not like the mother of the housewife
Please take a rational look at the emotional book "Misogyny"
We can hate social injustice, but we can't hate men and women. In a pluralistic society, men and women respect each other, which is the best love.
As a woman, you must have your own opinions, attitudes, and opinions on everything. Instead of what people are exporting to you, you think it's the world.
Strong exam ability does not mean strong social adaptability, and exploration of the unknown in this world, including empathy that respects different values
The world is your own value system to create self-worth and improve yourself!
We women strive to be who we are, not who others expect and imagine. The core of being yourself is being honest with yourself and living according to your heart.