#为什么底层家庭孩子很难成才? #
Why can't the children of the poor get ahead? These reasons are heartbreaking.
It's time for the college entrance examination again, and every time it comes, my mood will be very excited. In 2011, I completed the college entrance examination, and then spent another four years working, and in those eight years, I fell in love, got married, and had children.
12 years ago, I would never have imagined that I went to college and worked hard for eight years, and I was just an ordinary employee with a monthly salary of a few thousand yuan.
I left the countryside and poured into the big city and urban villages, and the years did not change me for the better, but brought me into a new predicament.
I am a single mother, my father has always supported me by farming in order to provide for my education, and when I was in high school, I dreamed of making more money and giving my parents a better life.
The so-called "carp jumping over the dragon gate" and "noble son of a poor family" are only the stories of a small number of people, after all, they are good wishes, but in fact, the children of poor families have been very difficult from the beginning, very difficult, and every step is very difficult.
Reason 1: There is no vision, only looking at the present, only trying to eat and wear, and there is no development.
When I was in college, during the holidays, I was working most of the time, my parents had a hard time, I never asked them what they were going to do, and every semester, I only had one tuition.
I know that handing out flyers, selling sales, and working in the school cafeteria are all manual work, with no skills and no development; I also knew that if I could develop more interests, learn more techniques, and learn how to dress myself, it would help me a lot in the future.
Reason 2: Sensitive heart, strong self-esteem, and low self-esteem.
When I first entered the society, I was the kind of person who was conscientious and hardworking, and would rather work overtime until late at night than show off in front of my boss.
I was too submissive, too much attention to the demands and evaluations of my superiors, too eager to exceed expectations, always feeling ashamed of my salary and being crushed by my own pressure.
I don't know how to go up, I can't speak, I can't pat myself, I'm very sensitive, I'm very inferior, and I definitely can't get along at work.
Reason 3: Lack of planning, no one to help, can only rely on falling into the pit to gain experience and lessons.
After the college entrance examination, I chose my major, that was the first time I dealt with the computer, a play was two and a half hours, my father looked at the computer and became sleepy, so he fell asleep on the table.
At such a critical juncture, I made a mistake, I was thinking not about my personal hobbies, nor about my interests, but about my primary goal, which was to help my family.
This kind of short-sightedness made me encounter a lot of problems in my future work, going around and around, and finally touching a nose of ash, only to know that the road ahead is not going through, and the price of trying is very high, so high that I am already in my thirties, and I am still in a daze.
Children of the poor, you have to study by yourself, educate yourself, reflect on yourself, plan yourself, and do better for yourself is the biggest test for others.