Why are campus romances less successful?
Because boys and girls think differently. Boys who are new to society soon know the hardships of society, the cruelty of reality, and the difficulty of life, and they are all growing up desperately.
Those girls who follow the boys' growth and turn them into men, some are disappointed and forgotten, and only with good luck can they achieve positive results.
The repair of this positive marriage is not only the "conscience" of a man after success, but also the fear of people's words, as well as the pros and cons of their own future.
In the eyes of men, their own growth and success are rooted in personal struggle
The girl who is trying to grow up with the man, if she only relies on the man to grow, the distance between the two is widened, and she will slowly not be able to go back.
Even if you get married, you can't go to the end in the end, because the two are not only a deviation in vision, but also changes in reality and social environment.
It's not that girls are not willing to suffer with boys, love and marriage have always achieved each other, and each needs to become a better version of themselves. Otherwise, it's really hard to get to the end.
Shen Teng's wife Wang Qi's biggest luck is not that Shen Teng married her, but that she is very smart and knows how to marry the other party.
Wang Qi is very clear that she has been with Shen Teng for 12 years, and if Shen Teng does not marry, it will affect his own development. After all, if a successful man bears the infamy of "Chen Shimei", even if he is successful, in the entertainment industry that pays attention to good conduct, there will be no chance of continued success in the future.
Although Shen Teng never showed much affection and advertised himself as a good man, he finally identified Wang Qi, was willing to marry the other party, and voluntarily shared the fame and fortune he earned with her.
This is not only Shen Teng's realistic consideration in marriage, the most important thing is that he is willing to recognize his 12 years with Wang Qi and is willing to give each other an explanation. Including Shen Teng's parents, they also recognize Wang Qi very much and think that she is a virtuous and good girl.
You must know that Wang Qi was also an actor back then, Wang Qi also had his own career pursuit, Wang Qi accompanied Shen Teng to fight hard for his career, Wang Qi has been encouraging and accompanying each other when Shen Teng is not working hard, such "love" is not only a partnership, but also a rare "comrade-in-arms relationship".
Wang Qi and Shen Teng's marriage will continue forever, no matter what the other party thinks of each other in their hearts, but they have long been not relatives more than relatives.
Who doesn't want to have a campus romance, knowing the roots and staying with each other for a lifetime. Unfortunately, not all romances are like Shen Teng and Wang Qi.
"Good Man Yang" Di overturned
Yang Di proved in a live broadcast with Yang Tianzhen that he broke up with his girlfriend of 16 years, he suffered for a week, he and his girlfriend even if they are not together in the future, the relationship is "not a breakup, the victory is divorce".
He has been proving to everyone that he and his girlfriend broke up voluntarily, it was their mutual decision, and he will take care of each other's thoroughness in the future.
Unfortunately, the melon-eating female netizens are not happy, they are scolding Yang Di for becoming bad if he has money, not being responsible if he has money, and forgetting old love when he has money.
For so many years, Yang Di's girlfriend has been taking care of his food, clothing, and living and has been doing everything behind him. While Yang Di showed his affection with his girlfriend in various programs, ate "good man" benefits, and absorbed a large number of girlfriend fans, he also said that his girlfriend was an amateur, and he didn't expose her because he didn't want her to be disturbed.
However, Yang Di can take his mother on the show, but he is not willing to take his girlfriend who has been in love for 16 years, and his girlfriend is like a shadow that does not exist at all, making people feel that everything is Yang Di saying: everything about him and his girlfriend.
A 16-year lover in Yang Di's eyes
Yang Di and his girlfriend belong to ordinary families, they met and fell in love when they were 2 years old, and the two have been together for 16 years, and his girlfriend has always been his strongest support. Yang Di also once said that he and his girlfriend will definitely get married, no accidents, or just in case.
As a result, Yang Di and his girlfriend broke up within a few years. This breakup made Yang Di chased and scolded by female netizens, saying that he was Chen Shimei! In order to prove himself responsible, Yang Di took out screenshots of his breakup conversation with his girlfriend, indicating that they broke up peacefully and were relatives.
Ask which girl and a man for 16 years don't want a wedding and don't want to put on a wedding dress! It's just that the man doesn't give it to you because he feels like you're already worthy of him. Yang Di's kindness to his girlfriend is also conditional, provided that his girlfriend has always been an invisible person.
Presumably, Yang Di's girlfriend of 16 years hid behind this man to watch his sweet show, and the affection between them was also very sweet. It's just that no matter how sweet the love show is, it can't compare to a marriage contract.
Cohabitation and marriage are two modes of life
Behind Yang Di's breakup with his 16-year amateur girlfriend presents the selfishness and determination of a so-called successful man. If Yang Di had told his girlfriend that they were not suitable for each other not long after becoming famous, they would not have dragged it out until now.
If Yang Di had confessed to his amateur girlfriend from the beginning that he would not marry her as a life partner, his girlfriend would not have waited for him for so many years.
It's just that the woman didn't come out to hammer Yang Di, which shows that everyone is rational and knows that each other has not had an easy time in the past 16 years, and does not want to ruin each other's future.
The fact is that Yang Di's 16-year love breakup has ruined his good man's image and audience popularity.
Maybe many people will say: Yang Di and his girlfriend broke up naturally for 16 years, it belongs to their own affairs, why did the melon-eating masses react greatly?
At the beginning, Yang Di did not set himself up as a "good man" persona, a long-term lover, and from time to time he showed his affection, and the audience would not be so unhappy!
Yang Di, you fool us with our yearning for beautiful love! After all, 16 years of cohabitation is not protected by law, 16 years of marriage even if divorce is a family property cut in half, marriage is of course to protect each other's interests, otherwise how can there be a marriage law.
The character of a good man cannot be set up casually
You see Lu Yi and Bao Lei for so many years, Lu Yi can self-detonate when he is the most popular to have a campus girlfriend, you can honestly say how he and Bao Lei came together, this is the attitude of being a boyfriend.
You decide that with this person, whether you have a successful career or a successful career, you can generously bring the other party to the audience to introduce each other, let the public know each other, never cover up the existence of the other party, nor hide your respect and love for your lover, which is what normal men should do.
If a man who has been in love with you for many years is unwilling to introduce you to his family, colleagues, friends, and does not want you to integrate into his circle, to put it bluntly, he does not recognize you in his bones, he just regards you as a life partner. For girls, don't waste time on people who don't love you.
Youth is just as precious as male and female youth, and no matter how you go into love, the core is to be honest with each other. You can propose your mode of interaction, but you cannot cheat and perfunctory each other, which is disrespect for the lover and disrespect for feelings.
Neither man nor woman can expect the other to be the only thing you love, but in the world of love, sincerity and respect must come first.