Ming Hui and Ah Chang's strong and weak marriage of a woman is a chicken feathers every day in this mansion, which is also very realistic.
Two people can walk together by true love, from the perspective of family affairs and business ability, Ah Chang is not worth mentioning, belongs to the son-in-law of the inverted door. Minghui definitely has no shortage of wealthy sons and daughters, and choosing Ah Chang should be a place of stability.
This is a bit similar to "Pearlescence" where Mother Kang chooses Daddy Kang, jumps out of her comfort zone to choose her partner, goes against the wishes of her parents, and is not shackled by the marriage alliance.
The woman's strength is reflected in the following: first, she has the ability to do things and can play an important role in the family business; Second, it can manage the affairs of the small family well and control the risks.
The man is weaker, as long as the person is good and honest, it is always controllable.
Ah Chang is like this to Minghui, and Dad Kang is the same to Mama Kang, these two men are actually very tired to live, and there is no problem with the woman being strong, mainly because of the class pressure in the woman's social circle, and the man feels very pressured.
Minghui has always hoped that Ah Chang will grow a little and win glory for his small family, in that feudal traditional era, no matter how capable women are, the stage they can play is always limited, and men are qualified to compete on the big stage.
It's a pity that Ah Chang can't afford to support Ah Dou, he is always frizzy when he does things, and his emotional intelligence is worrying.
The eldest young master of the Zhu family died, this is a sensitive word for the whole family, and he prefers which pot does not mention which pot.
The counter miscalculated and looked for more money to give to others.
Do your own accounts and do unevenly, Ming Hui also has to help check and fill in the gaps at home.
From the beginning, the cooperation battle between the two people was not fought well.
Ming Hui spoils Ah Chang too much, Ah Chang's own ability is weak and unconfident, and accepting this kind of large-scale help is even weaker. Ah Chang is a living mom boy, and Minghui's marriage is equivalent to raising an eldest son.
If women are strong and men are weak, they should adjust each other well and complete the optimal mutual achievement.
Ah Chang also has advantages, has a good temper, has a sense of humor, and loves his wife. Ming Hui fought with her second aunt outside, and when she returned to the room, she always returned that she was loved by her husband, and this grace was not available to others.
Minghui did not take the initiative to stimulate Ah Chang's initiative, the simplest work like this always goes wrong, either a problem of attitude or a problem of ability, if the basic skills are not well played, it is easy to become a waste in the future.
The woman is too pampered by the man, and she must be strict when she should be strict, otherwise she will silently make amends and make a wedding dress, and the other party will never grow.
Moreover, this will make Ah Chang's mentality more and more unbalanced, he can't see through the problem, and he doesn't know how to use the medium and long term to see his own development.
No, after being coldly talked about by the outside world for a long time, Ah Chang decided to take a shortcut and do something he was not good at but full of risks: investing indiscriminately, and then stepping on the thunder himself.
"Pearl Glory" Kang Dad is also, who has been in a high-pressure environment for a long time, and is very blind to prove himself, and does not follow the scientific method to adapt to local conditions, and is always prone to hit a wall.
Ah Chang, in the end, he staged a drama of crying, making trouble and hanging himself three times, and his face was lost.
Many marriages will also encounter this kind of problem, women are strong and men are weak, and women want men to be steady, well-behaved, and willing to obey. The woman will take care of the whole and be responsible for the overall situation, and the man will continue to enjoy the greenhouse of marriage.
The operation of the family actually requires the minds of both parties, relying on one person alone is useless, there will always be people who are not enough and are in a hurry.