The sister wants to let the younger siblings, and the sister wants to help the parents share the pressure of life. These words are not unfamiliar to the post-70s and post-80s generations.
When we were young, our parents taught us: "You have to help us when you grow up", "If you are a sister, you have to let your younger siblings, who makes you older." ”
Therefore, for our post-80s generation, it is only natural for the boss to take care of younger brothers and sisters, which is your unshirkable responsibility.
But now the child thinks: Why should I let her? I'm a kid too.
For this matter, an eight- or nine-year-old girl in Shandong was thrown on the highway by her parents, and her father said bluntly: Give her a lesson, this child is too difficult to educate!
What's going on here? This matter has to start from the May Day holiday:
During the May Day period, the traffic police on duty at the high speed found a child on the highway and quickly went over to ask: "What's going on?" ”
The girl cried uncontrollably as she said, "I didn't give up my sister's seat, so she threw me down." ”
Traffic police: "Who threw it?" Girl: "My dad." ”
Traffic police: "What about your mother?" Girl: "My mom drove away." ”
The man next to him said that he was the father of the child, because this child was too difficult to educate, and he drove her out of the car in a fit of anger and wanted to teach her a lesson.
Netizens said: You can't do this, this can only make the sister hate the sister more.
Not giving up the seat can be a good education, and it is not a big deal, why do you kick the child out of the car because of this small matter?
According to the child's father: during the May Day holiday, he drove his child out, and the two children were not much different, and it was always common to be noisy.
In the concept of parents, the sister is still young and does not understand things, as a sister, she should unconditionally let her sister.
This time is no exception, the sisters in the car because of the struggle for a seat conflict, the sister can not grab the sister, angry crying.
The sister, with a few years older than her sister and a physical advantage, grabbed the seat and sat up, refusing to give up her seat no matter how much her sister cried.
Parents are also irritable when they hear their children crying, and they advise their sister to let her sister and let her shut up quickly and stop crying.
"Why should the big one let the small one?" This is the voice of countless older children. The sister was no exception, questioning her parents: Why should I let her?
The parents talked about it, but the sister refused to give in at all. Persuasion was ineffective, and both parents felt that the sister was too selfish. Dad, who was driving, felt even more irritable.
In a rage, he drove his sister out of the car, and the father may also be afraid of the child's accident, so he got out of the car to accompany the child, and the mother drove his sister away.
Netizens are full of accusations against parents, believing that parents should not throw their children on the highway under any circumstances.
Netizens said: How big is the psychological shadow of this sister? Maybe I can't let go for a lifetime.
Some netizens also said: The sister does not know to let the small one, and it is not too much to teach her a lesson. However, don't throw it on the highway, it's too dangerous.
Some netizens also said: The child is right, why does the sister have to let the sister?
The author thinks: the child is right, why does the sister have to let the sister? The right way should be: this thing sister let sister, that thing sister let sister.
Mutual humility is a virtue, remember, mutual humility is "mutual", and while the sister lets the sister, the sister should also let the sister, not let one child always give way to the other unconditionally.
The author believes that the couple's education model is not advisable, which will only make the sister have a rebellious psychology, and at the same time spoil the sister.