Text/Little Snow Mom
If the mother's love is outward, good at communicating and expressing, then the father's love is introverted, is calm and unsmiling.
Many people have a stereotypical impression of father's love, thinking that dad will not express it, but in fact, dad's love has always been very secure, they are just using their own way, silently guarding and caring for their children.
The father took the subway with his sleeping daughter in his arms, and for 40 minutes no one gave up his seat, and the father's hands moved tearfully
I saw a group of photos on the Internet, a father took his three- or four-year-old daughter to take the subway, the whole 40 minutes along the way, no one gave up his seat, the picture was sad at the same time, but also infected by his father's actions.
The father took his daughter to take the subway, because there were more people on the car, and did not find a seat, after getting on the car, the daughter was a little tired and a little sleepy, the father took the daughter in his arms, and after a while the daughter fell asleep in the arms of the father.
But during this period, there are many people on the subway, and we can also see from the pictures that there are many people standing, and it is not clear whether everyone is too tired after work, or whether the seats are all given to the elderly and children, in short, these 40 minutes away, no one gives up their seats.
In this way, the father held his daughter and ran all the way, the daughter slept very soundly along the way, the father insisted on the two arms in order to argue with the daughter, and even the "green tendons" burst out, which shows that the father is really "supporting" this way.
Parents who have hugged children understand this experience, usually holding a small baby, thirty or forty minutes feel that the arm is almost ruined, and this little girl weighs higher, the father can insist on holding down, this picture is really tearful.
After reading this set of pictures, netizens are also talking about it, some people praise this father for "heartache", saying that this is a good father, is a responsible father; some netizens are indignant, think that passers-by are too indifferent, why no one has given up the seat, saying that if it is their own words, they will definitely give up their seats.
Dad's love is relatively silent, but he has been silently paying
In fact, behind this father's behavior, is the epitome of many fathers, they are not good at words, not good at expression, even if they are holding their children on the subway, they do not say that they deliberately stand in front of the seat, they silently bear everything, silently care about their children, this may be the silent father's love!
Why are many dads not good at expressing themselves? Probably has a lot to do with the paternal love they received, recalling our fathers, when we were young, it seemed that there was very little communication.
At that time, parents were busy working and making money, and few fathers communicated and chatted with their children, so many fathers did not have this experience, and they did not know how to express their love to their children, only to say that they paid silently in action.
However, this situation is also gradually changing, many new era fathers have received a good education, for the child's communication and education, they are also trying a little hard, no one is born to be a parent, but also with the child to grow up and learn together, such parents are qualified parents.
The father who has experienced it will be able to appreciate the hardships of the mother more
Two days ago, watching a short video, a husband came home from work, looked at the mess in the house, thought what was happening at home, and asked his wife, "What are you doing?" What's going on at home? ”。
The wife said very plainly, "I haven't done anything!" Aren't you asking me what I do at home all day? I didn't do anything today! Only then did the husband react to what was going on.
Many husbands think how easy it is for Bao Mom to take the baby at home alone, how tired can it be? But in fact, after a day or two of taking it myself, I can't stand it, a lot of housework and have to take care of the children, not only physically tired but also tired inside.
Go home early after work, help your wife, do housekeeping with your children, not only to accompany your wife, but also to accompany the growth of your children, marriage and children are all need parental communication to maintain.
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