Shared by: Chen Weiling
Life Wisdom Growth Journey:
"Life Intelligence" is the 76th stage of the first order, the 40th stage of the second order, and the 18th stage of the third order
"Heart transfer" first order 12th stage, second order 13th stage, third order 3rd stage
The first phase of "Clear-sightedness" and the third phase of "Sustainable Development"
"Parenting" No. 10, "Organizational Practice" No. 3
"Mental Intelligence" is the 16th stage of the first order, the 4th stage of the second order, and the 1st stage of the third order
Hello everyone, I am Chen Weiling from Zhanjiang. How did a person with almost zero hands-on ability complete the recording of 68 videos?
Buying stands, installing equipment, matching costumes, editing videos, dubbing soundtracks... Each link is done by yourself, learning from scratch. The key behind this is not to learn how complex the technology is, but to hold a heart to do things.
Children are the heart of parents, and every parent has poured all their efforts into it, and all of them do not want their children to be able to become healthy and talented. But it always backfires, children will have all kinds of problems, maybe the so-called rebellion, maybe they don't like to learn, and even some children are more serious, they will become depressed, autistic, violent...
Many parents are always trying various ways to educate their children, good words have been tried, cold face admonitions have been used, but always treat the symptoms rather than the root cause, repeatedly failed.
In the past, I learned a lot of theories in children's education, understood a lot of educational skills, and felt that I used them well, and I have always been an "excellent parent" of the school, and I often talk about parent-child education courses and share parenting experience... Until the child had a major problem and directly "punched my face" in my education, I could no longer face the parent-child education section, and also sealed all the parent-child education books...
I am very fortunate that after encountering family changes, I walked into the study of Bao Fengyuan's "Life Intelligence" course to further understand the laws of mental operation, learn to better change my own methods, continuously improve my energy, and fill my life.
When I was willing to face the past and look directly at my own problems, I began to read the book "Children's Problems Are Parents' Problems" written by Teacher Bao Fengyuan, until I saw such a sentence in the book:
Parents are originals and children are photocopies.
A word to wake up the dreamer, it turns out that the education we are seeking is just the opposite of the opposite. We don't change ourselves, but we always try to adjust the shadow, which is different from asking for fish in the wood, and naturally there will be no results.
All of a child's behavior and way of thinking is merely replicating what his parents do. We parents always think that we are right, that children need to be corrected, and we don't know that children just copy everything we have.
When we feel that something is wrong with our children, it is only the children who are using their own bodies and behaviors to let us see what is wrong with ourselves.
Children come with the original ease and innocence, will not think too much, will only subtly learn, and record everything about the parents. When we see problems, we only see the tip of the iceberg, and under the invisible water, all kinds of problems have become entangled.
Seeing that there are many people around, because their children have problems and start looking around for solutions, repeatedly thinking about how to make children better? However, many unsuccessful attempts, seeing the child's condition, feel very anxious and confused... Through learning, I learned that the root of the problem is the problem of parents, and I would like to help them and help more parents learn the correct educational concept.
Teacher Bao often said: "If you want to be good for yourself, you must first help others become better." Energy comes from altruism, from giving and exchanging. "As I learned more and more, I became more and more aware of the importance of this sentence. As a parent, if you can't set a good example for your child, how can you ask your child to grow up to be a useful person in society?
So the first goal I set for myself was to record a reading video of "Children's Problems Are Parents' Problems". I want to help more families find the right educational concept and make more families happier. From that moment on, I, a live broadcast white and video white white, began the road to advancement.
Previously, I was a very well-taken care of and extremely poor hands-on person in my life, and some simple assembly work (small bench or simple fan, etc.) was done with the help of others. But the live broadcast tools (including lights and brackets) that I bought this time were all moved home by myself and assembled little by little by looking at the instructions, which made me feel particularly accomplished.
During the live broadcast, I also went from computer PPT sharing, endorsement sharing to learning to share with a teleprompter. In order to make more sophisticated videos, I also learned skills such as editing videos and color scoring.
Every time I record, I will check the effect repeatedly and listen to it several times to feel it with my heart. The process of recording videos is not smooth sailing, sometimes there is no sound, sometimes there is a black screen, sometimes there is no saving... It is often necessary to record repeatedly, and it is busy until two or three o'clock in the morning to complete the day's tasks.
In order to achieve better results, sometimes in a video, I will try three different sets of clothes and silk scarves, and record them more than 5 times.
In this process, I realized the value of the word "heart".
Only sincerity, only intentions.
Gradually, I received more and more feedback from friends, who said that they would watch my videos every day, and then practice with their children, change their attitudes and ideas, and their relationship with their children became better and better.
From February 1, 2022 to May 6, 2022, I recorded a total of 68 chapters of the book "Children's Problems Are Parents' Problems", with a total of 45,186 views.
Three months may not seem like a long time, but I have completed a project that is very big for me, a project to start from scratch and build my own work little by little. These 45186 views, each time is a link between me and everyone's heart, is the affirmation after hard work.
In this process, I did not have any material gains, neither inserted advertisements nor participated in any commercial activities, but only out of a heart, I wanted to spread the correct educational ideas and pass them on to those who needed them.
Because I have been drenched in rain, I also want to hold an umbrella for others.
Teacher Bao Fengyuan mental education series of books, choose "children's problems are parents' problems" book, for me, to go through a heart of the hurdle, because the parent-child relationship is my pain, record a whole book, is to constantly review the past, reflect on themselves, bring into their own process.
It is precisely because of this that I can devote myself wholeheartedly to sharing the road I have traveled and the experience I have gained with others, so that more families can get better and more children can be happy and healthy.
In this process, although there was no material gain, I felt full of energy. Because of giving, so get. My family is harmonious and warm, my work is smooth and happy, my wealth energy is getting better and better, and my people are younger and more energetic.
In doing things with my heart, I see my own value; in the benefit of others, I get my own happiness.
Children are the hope of a family, but also the hope of a nation and a country. Only by learning the correct educational concept can we plant the seeds of happiness, beauty, health and upward mobility in the child's life.