Cultivating consortias that are difficult to empathize with

To be reasonable, the level of a person's empathy is also the level of a person's emotional intelligence, but emotional intelligence and IQ are closely related, emotional intelligence it is not simply good at talking and doing things, it is more of a person's ability to understand the feelings of others. Let's divide the feelings into two parts, one part is like, the other part is hate. If what a person likes is something you hate, will you give the other person something you hate when you want to make that person happy? So in the same way, if a person hates something, but this thing is something you like, so you give it to the other party in order to make him happy, will the other party be happy? And this kind of thinking logic is difficult to be unblocked, feelings are more complicated, today we will talk about these two constellations that are difficult to cultivate empathy!

Leo, Aquarius

Leo is a sign that is difficult to let go of self-awareness, it is like the feeling of being the king of the mountain, my world is the master, speaking of this concept, Leo friends should feel the most about three words, that is: "I think" In addition, the characteristics of the fire sign are most obvious in Leo, for example, such as a person who does not speak very clearly, then what will Leo say? This person is always not speaking clearly. For example, if a person falls in love three times and fails, what will Leo say? This person always fails in a relationship. If you ask Leo why he talks like that, he doesn't know why.

In fact, the reason is those three words: "I think" plus the fire sign likes to exaggerate that kind of characteristics, so Leo speaks like this. So the question arises, is it wrong to speak like this? At least there's nothing wrong with Leo, but the problem is that it's not an objective way of speaking. Can Leo's friends get out of this bend? The answer is hard and hard. The second is the emotional state of Leo, Leo is a very outward, optimistic sign, making friends is very free and direct, so Leo friends have always been many, but in fact, as long as you look closely, you will find that there are really few good friends, and there are even fewer real friends, I think Leo friends are the most empathetic to this feeling.

So the question is, how does Leo make friends? In layman's terms, two people have drunk wine together once, and they are very happy, it is almost a friend, two people have drunk wine again, then they are already friends, drink more than a few times and play together a few times, that is a good friend, but then again, where are the good friends who are so friendly? But as soon as you ask Leo, he will tell you that they are good friends, why? Because Leo himself feels that he is a good friend with each other, leo will stand up for any problems between them, but when Leo has his own problems and difficulties, few people are willing to stand up.

Leo friends should have experienced such things in the process of growing up, and in retrospect, they saw the wrong person and were blind. Will Leo treat that friend well after that? The answer was no, and the reason was still what he felt. In fact, Leo is also in such a state when in love, like a person will indeed have no scruples to pay, will think that they are the best things to each other, reasonable, it is really good to do so, but the question is, have you ever thought that the other party really wants those to pay? Can your efforts really achieve the corresponding value? You don't even think about it, you just think about one question, that is, do you love him or not, and what do you do to make the other person fall in love with you.

The impact of this emotional model on Leo is not insignificant, so it is difficult for Leo to cultivate empathy, but how to say it, look at luck. We combine these characteristics of Leo to derive another characteristic of Leo, that is, Leo is good or bad, the better and more capable Leo has a temper, because of what? Because such a Leo has proved to himself that he is excellent, and the less capable and unskilled Leo is, the worse his temper will be, because of what? Because he has no sense of existence, he feels that others look down on him.

And with Leo to the palace of Aquarius is also a difficult constellation to cultivate empathy, but how to say it, Aquarius after all, fast thinking, adaptability is stronger, and secondly, Aquarius is not so easy to walk the heart, emotional, so many people say that Aquarius emotional intelligence is high. It is undeniable that this is the case, but you may not know that the high emotional intelligence of Aquarius lies in being able to talk and be funny, and secondly, how can a person who does not walk the heart and does not speak emotionally, how can he not talk? Aquarius stands at this point, but is that true empathy? It's not, and the truth is the opposite, Aquarius's state is a mere manifestation of high resilience, which has no purpose.

When it comes to emotional intelligence, Virgo is quite typical, but Virgo's emotional intelligence is purposeful, not joking, how can a Virgo casually say good things to a person? But whenever he says it, it proves that he is thinking something. Or there is a request for you or does not want to annoy you. And Aquarius is not so able to think, Aquarius is simply what they want to do, what they want to say, you other people, the outside world has no impact on Aquarius at all, so I always say that Aquarius is the real casualness, at least Aquarius people are not so tired, regardless of age, and you look at Virgo, there is one who is not tired?

And the emotional contradiction between Leo and Aquarius is because of that strong sense of self, can not put down and can not put down, self-contradiction and self-recognition, Leo is fine, hurt more, pain enough naturally will grow, and the shrewd Aquarius hurt less, so it will not hurt much, in addition, Aquarius will not waste their brains to think about those useless things, so really to say, empathy on Leo is still larger, because Leo has no way to spontaneously get up before there is no real self-recognition.