Everything in the world needs balance to maintain, love will not be an exception, and many of us may not think of the concept of balance when we first face love, on the contrary, many people will instinctively treat love with their own likes and emotions, and only after love loses balance can we realize this problem. Some love balance is passively broken, and some love balance is actively broken, the next few signs we want to say are very typical, the balance of love is easy to be broken by the paranoid subjective consciousness of these signs!
Water signs – Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
Many people say that the subjective consciousness of water signs is weak, but in fact, their subjective consciousness is very strong! At the same time, the water sign is easily associated with failure, especially at the point of feelings.
Before talking about the water sign, it is necessary to talk about the fire sign, the fire sign is more impulsive than the water sign, so in theory, the fire sign is also easy to be associated with failure. But unlike the water sign, the three big guys of the fire sign are generally more capable of resisting blows, and everyone should not say how they love face, even if the fire sign loves face, they will hold on hard. Secondly, the subjective consciousness of fire signs is also very strong, but their definition of "strong" can be established.
Because the idea of the fire sign is not so easily affected, they have the courage to do what they want to do, even if they know that they may face failure or pain, they will still try it. So fire signs are injured, they are not so easy to be knocked down, and they will not deny themselves because of a certain thing or a certain person. The water sign obviously does not have such a skill, first of all, the water sign is not as strong as the fire sign. Second, the idea of a water sign can easily be influenced.
So that's doomed to something happening. And the point of "strong" subjective consciousness of the water sign is the point of paranoia. Let's take a more vivid example, for example, a person has just started chasing Cancer, and Cancer will not have any habits or love consciousness at this time. Of course, if Cancer hates this person, then this person can't catch Cancer, so you can also understand that as long as a Cancer doesn't reject you and doesn't resist you, it proves that you are still possible.
Then as this person continues to pay and continue to be good to Cancer, Cancer will not be as cold as at the beginning, and Cancer will slowly respond to each other. But many friends may not know the strange point of Cancer, in addition to the people who are particularly fond of themselves, Cancer is slow and leisurely to other people, and the injured Cancer is even more so, so you have to know that Cancer's slow and leisurely emotional consciousness will last for a long time, which means that in the stage when you are constantly good to Cancer, you may be tired of giving feelings, and Cancer thinks that you may really like him at this time.
So tired you can't be so aggressive to treat Cancer well, and Cancer will be confused at this time, and they will think that you are not so sincere with him. Cancer would think, "If you have a real heart for him, then you'll always be good to him, not the tired and slightly cold attitude you have now." So be reasonable, at this time you tell Cancer that you love her, is this useful? Can you easily change Cancer's mind? What do you think when you see Cancer in this situation? Do you think Cancer loves you?
And Cancer will not feel good at this time, because he is doubting, he is still afraid of hurt. To put it bluntly, your tired and slightly cold attitude will make Cancer think that you don't really love him, and his insecurity will also doubt you. And Cancer's insecure hot and cold will make you feel like he doesn't love you, so the question is, how do you break this deadlock? Cancer's paranoid subjective consciousness is this form, and once it is extremely difficult to change, either you grind it down or you choose to leave.
Scorpio is a sign that is easily associated with failure, because Scorpio's subjective consciousness is more difficult to change, and this sign is also very similar to a fire sign in addition to the nature of the water sign, violent and prone to extremes. In a word, Scorpio is extremely confident in his own ideas and judgments, for example, if a Scorpio feels that you don't really love him, don't really care about him, then is your performance useful? The answer is useless, because of what? Because you only perform after Scorpio has said those words to you, at this time Scorpio will only think that you are performing for the sake of performance, you are proving for the sake of proof, Scorpio will not think that this is true.
Simply put, the more abnormal your behavior, the more Scorpio feels that you are not sincere, that they are particularly self-righteous at this point, and that the person who is most likely to suffer this loss is the fire sign. If Scorpio is paranoid, it is very scary, and it can be denied by six relatives. So why is Scorpio so paranoid? Because in this case, Scorpio will feel that he is the victim. Pisces in that situation has both Cancer and Scorpio characteristics, so as long as a Pisces feels that a person does not really love himself, then he has no way to balance his psychology, once the paranoid thoughts arise, Pisces will lose most of their self-control, what kind of loss he can make, what kind of words he can say, they themselves are not aware.
So speaking of which, do you still feel that the subjective consciousness of the water sign is weak? The balance of love is easily upset by the paranoid subjective meaning of the water sign. In fact, the mature water sign will be aware of this problem one day, but the water sign that has not yet matured may still be injured because of this problem.