Before you show your own truth, then please do not blame others for not being real enough, people are mutual, feelings are also mutual, although it is not good for a person to show all of his truth, but at least the truth must be shown, because if you do not do this, then you can not win the truth of others. Especially when we encounter feelings, we need to do this the most, but this kind of thing is too difficult for some people, such as the following signs, strong feelings, miserly truth, these signs of love are too tired, and it is impossible to relax.
Water sign
Water signs are always easy to be misunderstood, "bullied", in fact, water sign friends in the relationship will often have this feeling, or they will feel very tired, hate their own personality, and even some water sign friends will be extremely skeptical about whether they are suitable for talking about feelings, and once the water sign has these ideas, then this can be collectively referred to as chaotic thinking.
At the same time, this has another meaning, such a water sign in the face of feelings still have no way to control themselves, do not let themselves move, and at the same time their defensive psychology will become heavier, will become more unable to trust a person, believe in a relationship, in fact, this is very contradictory, because in the water sign heart, they are very real, very dependent on feelings, but when she needs to show her true, she can't do it, tired? Maybe it can only hold on.
First of all, you must know that the water sign has a strong sense of emotion, because their life benchmark is the state of feelings, such as a Cancer because of work, his mood is very bad, but in her heart lives a warm person, and if at this time this warm person persuades her a few words, then you will find that Cancer's mood will slowly become normal.
But if we change Cancer to Aquarius, you will find that this trick is useless for Aquarius, Aquarius is in a bad mood, in addition to their own diversion of attention, their own transition digestion, it can be said that very few people can solve the problem of Aquarius, Pisces and Scorpio and Cancer reaction state is also very similar.
Of course, the emotional state of the water sign has more than one side to their impact, we take that example in reverse, such as Pisces because of the quarrel with their own object, but also their own mood is very bad, then the question is, can she work well? Neither can she. So I always say that water signs are susceptible to influence, even if water signs know that they can't do that, which requires their own restraint and control, but often the result is that the more restrained and controlled they are, the more they will end up beyond their control.
The sensibility of the water sign is also a problem, because the water sign is very emotional, so it is easy to be emotional, which means that it is easy to happen here in the water sign, that is, the game of rationality and sensibility, and the victory is generally their sensibility, so the idea and psychology of the water sign will involuntarily produce a negative impact, then it is reasonable, the inner state of the water sign is easy to be pessimistic because of this starting point.
And once the feelings of the water sign find sustenance, then this feeling will be connected with the sensibility of the water sign, and the development of the water sign's feelings is a two-way development, so it cannot be not intense, unless the water sign does not have a heart for a person. In addition, the water sign has another characteristic, that is, the miserly truth, or the water sign does not dare to show their truth too quickly, which requires feelings, which requires the other party to give her encouragement, give her a chance to show her true, of course, Scorpio is not so difficult.
Let's extend the idea of the water sign based on the emotional point just now, why does the water sign dare not show the truth, their idea is also emotional" let him see my bad, my shortcomings, is it possible that he will not like me, is it possible that he will like me less?" "Once the water sign has these ideas, they will take two ways to deal with them, the first is called temptation, they will deliberately test a person, and then they will judge the feelings through a person's performance and attitude.
In layman's terms, how the water sign treats you depends mainly on your attitude. But to be honest, Cancer is the one with the shallowest tentative consciousness in the water sign, and Pisces and Scorpio are extremely probing. The second way is called seduction, although this is also a kind of temptation, but this is the definition of the water sign to take the initiative, such as the water sign will chat with the opposite sex, and in her heart, she knows that this kind of thing can not let her boyfriend know, but at the same time she wants to know how her boyfriend will react when he sees it.
So she will seduce, if you see this kind of thing is very angry, then the water sign is happy in the heart, and if you see it and do not get angry, then the angry, chaotic thoughts are the water sign, or in other words, when the water sign talks about feelings, their energy will be placed in these places, on the contrary, the real water sign can not show, there is no chance to show, they hide, suppress, tempt, judge.
At the same time they still want to get your heart, so the question is, are water signs tired of love? The answer is that the water sign loves too tired, and they have no way to get rid of this tiredness, so many friends always say that it is very tired and tired to be with the water sign, but objectively speaking, this can also prove another problem, that is, the water sign attaches great importance to feelings, they just want to integrate the heart with you. And those are just their tests for you, and if you want to get their hearts, then you have to cross these tests, so it is worth it to be tired!