Water signs are the more sensitive and insecure type of people in the 12 signs, especially when they encounter such things as feelings, it is always difficult to rationalize, so that they will be emotional. And this way of thinking and behavior has a certain impact on love and feelings, and even say that it will affect the progress and results of love, or it will make people miss someone or be missed by someone. And if the water sign can well regulate their feelings and sensitivity, then relatively speaking, love, feelings will be much more stable, today we will talk about the water sign to reconcile rationality and sensibility in the right way.
Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
The growth path of water signs can be described as bumpy, because they are so kind and sensible that they will be affected by many external influences, parents, families, friends, etc. will affect the speed and direction of the growth of water signs. This is like the definition of the water sign I said earlier, the goodness of the water sign can be different, especially Pisces is the most typical, Cancer is the second, and Scorpio is last. For example, for example, the parents of the water sign often quarreled when he was young, and there was little concern for the water sign, then the water sign will appear in a state of psychological depression in this situation, and what is even more helpless is that if the water sign does not get the correct guidance at this time, then he will still be depressed when he grows up, and that state of psychological depression will always be buried in their hearts.
But looking at the other three signs, they rarely have this state, just take the earth sign and the fire sign, parents often quarrel this kind of thing can affect Capricorn and Taurus? The same goes for lions and white sheep. It is no joke that they will not only be irritable when facing such things as parents quarreling, but also avoid themselves, and the independent characteristics of the earth sign and the fire sign are very meaningful at this point. The question is, why can't water signs do that?
In fact, the reason is very simple, that is, the idea and behavior of the water sign is based on feelings and dependence, which is a concept for others. So you have to know that the sensibility and rationality of the water sign will also be affected by this concept. For example, the water sign began to make friends, because he lacked security and love when he was young, so when a friend was very good to him, his heart would be inexplicably warm, and the more they got along, the happier they were. So the result is that the water sign will develop a sense of dependence, and then with it is possessiveness.
Water signs will have the kind of psychological characteristics that regard feelings as the only one, so if one day their friend has made a new friend and is no longer as protective and dependent on them as before, then the earliest psychological depression of the water sign will be stimulated, and they will instinctively think wildly. Then the two patterns are mixed together, and the water sign is more and more paranoid, giving his heart and his good to that friend, but the friend is gone, they can't accept such a thing, and they will see this kind of thing as betrayal.
Then the same reason, the water sign is almost like this when talking about love, because the previous psychology is too depressed, too hurt, so the water sign will habitually hide likes and love in their hearts, they do not have so much courage to break through this layer of window paper, so the water sign will be so passive. Then when the other party begins to take the initiative, some of their courage can be stimulated, and then they will enter a state of gain and loss, because of what? Because they rarely take the initiative to change, this includes habits, thoughts, behaviors, and their changes change with your changes and feelings.
So to be reasonable, how can the water sign be rational in feelings? It is no exaggeration to say that water signs are almost always emotionally paranoid when they break up. Here's why water signs like to talk about breakups so much when they're in love. When they feel that they don't care and no longer like it, they themselves begin to think wildly, and if they don't get your correct response, then their previous injuries are stringed together, so emotional paranoia, they have no way to control themselves, to put it bluntly, they are too afraid of being hurt, this psychological repression may have appeared since childhood.
Therefore, friends of water signs must think carefully about their own sensibility and rationality, you need to reconcile them well, otherwise it will still be easy to be hurt, or many times your injuries are not necessarily other people's problems, but more likely your own thoughts are affecting yourself. The correct way for the water sign to reconcile sensibility and rationality is summed up in two points, the first point is to face yourself, which is for example, when you are pessimistic and depressed, you must first think clearly about what is affecting you, rather than continuing to be pessimistic and depressed with this influence.
The second point is to control yourself, for example, one day your lover has not contacted you for a long time, and you must first control yourself when you are suffering from random guessing, because once you are emotionally paranoid, then no matter how your lover explains to you later, you will not listen. In addition, do not casually evaporate this kind of depression of gain and loss, but learn to find evidence and speak with facts. In fact, as long as you can do these two points, then you will find that slowly you will be rational, then when there are some contradictions in the relationship, you can directly and clearly say the problem, then relatively speaking, your friends and lovers can also know where the problem is, then it becomes easy to solve the problem!