Objectively speaking, a person who is good at change must also have a strong ability to adapt, which is accompanied by his fundamentally strong ability to survive. However, the definition of change is actually a double definition, the implication is that the purpose of a person's change can not only be for their own good, change, can not stand alone from the perspective of the self to carry out, and if a person can stand in an objective point of view to change, then this is a good shaping, some people have an advantage at this point, and some people do not have an advantage, today we will talk about these three constellations that are less likely to be changed and shaped by feelings!
Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo
Macroscopically speaking, the four series of constellations have their innate genetic differences, of course, you can also understand that the innate constellation genes of the four constellations have advantages and disadvantages, and from the perspective of human nature, they are fair and balanced, but if you want to subdivide them, they are very different, and if you want to say selfish definition, then the earth sign cannot escape the relationship, in fact, the earth sign can show some of their fixed states when they are young, and their self-definition will slowly stand out with their growth, and according to my observation The earth sign is more paper than other children at the age of five to ten years old, and the fire, water, and wind are generally not so obvious at this age, of course, the wind will be more obvious than the fire and water.
Stubborn and blunt is the most appropriate description of the characteristics of the earth sign, from our subjective point of view, selfish, self is not an advantage, but from an objective point of view, selfish, self, it is not completely a disadvantage, the earth sign is the most representative at this point, and here we need to introduce a big environmental concept, it is the original family, this is the first stop of our growth, our growth changes will be affected by the original family, the good side does not say, but if the atmosphere of the original family is not good, Then the impact this has on us may be more of a negative impact, especially the water sign can not resist this effect.
And fire, wind, earth will be much better, especially the earth sign is the most "unique" As for why, this is mainly because of their innate genetic influence, to put it more thoroughly, the original family does not have a good atmosphere will indeed have some impact on the earth sign, but this impact is not large, because no matter how it is affected, the earth sign's own ideas and purposes will always be the most important. Let's take a more common example of life, such as parents often quarrel, water signs can't stand it, they will be very scared when they see their parents arguing, so they will escape, or will persuade, and such an atmosphere will definitely have an impact on the psychology of water signs.
If the water sign is not cared for by their parents when they are young, then they will be loveless and pessimistic when they grow up, but the earth sign will not, and the earth sign will find a way to solve this kind of thing, but what if it can't be solved? Earth signs are too lazy to reason, their focus is still their own ideas, their own purposes, which represents a direction of development. If a water sign lacks love since childhood, then his inner state when he grows up is loveless and pessimistic, so will he be strong? On the surface it will, but not on the inside. The earth sign is different, and even said that the original family did not give the earth sign enough care and warmth, which will make the earth sign super strong.
These are two different development directions, then when they grow up, you will find that the difference between them will be quite obvious, a Cancer from a young age and a Taurus who has lacked love since childhood, after growing up is a completely different state, at the same time, this also means their endurance state, and when they are close to maturity, the attitude and ideas towards the outside world and feelings will slowly be fixed. To be realistic, if you are good to a Cancer and you can give her enough security, then Cancer will definitely have a strong sense of dependence on you, because what he lacks is made up by you, and this kind of ender is also an extremely large emotional energy, emotional heat for Cancer.
But do you have a strong sense of dependence on an earth sign like this, Taurus? The answer is impossible, Taurus's idea is very thorough, first of all, he will not believe that you are so good to him for no reason, secondly, in taurus's idea, his parents have not given themselves enough emotional energy, emotional heat, then how much weight do you give? Or to put it more bluntly, Taurus may not even be able to fully trust his parents, so how can he fully trust you, Virgo is similar to Capricorn, so the question is, is the probability of them being changed high or low?
For example, Cancer feels your good, but she does not like to eat noodles, and you like to eat noodles, then you can rest assured, in the process of getting along with you later, as long as your attitude and feelings have not changed, then Cancer will slowly become like eating noodles, why? Because Cancer is willing to do this kind of thing, it is a spirit of giving and sacrificing, but the earth sign is different, the earth sign does not like to eat noodles, that is, does not like to eat noodles, which has little to do with how good you are to him.
For example, if you say something to a Virgo, "You see I love you so much, I've paid so much for you, can you change it?" Can you please stop being so clean? I look very troublesome, it is difficult to accept you like this! "So the question is, will Virgo change? Friends who have had this experience should have a deeper feeling. To put it bluntly, Virgo may promise you to change, but in fact he may find a way to brainwash you in the next process of getting along, because in the Virgo's idea, keeping your own clean standards is best for you, so they will use this standard to be good to you, not to you.
Or to put it another way, the shaping of the earth sign is a kind of self-shaping, only the earth sign feels that how to do something is good for themselves, then they will change, if you have benefits in your personal sense, if they do not approve, then they will not change, the concept of earth sign is very heavy and heavy, so the possibility of them being changed and shaped by feelings is low. Of course, this is not to say that the earth sign can not be shaped, in fact, as long as your earth sign is stronger, then they may be able to be shaped and changed, but this stronger concept mainly refers to the ability, not the amount of your feelings, in fact, in the end, it is a sentence, the good of the earth sign will only be harvested by the able.