Love and hate, the taste of life, everyone's growth is inseparable from the pain, but when you look back on the past later, those hurts are actually not so obvious, it is just the nutrients you need at a certain stage of growth. It is said that time is the best explanation for growth, but sometimes some pain may not be explained by time, that is, a person's obsession, love and hate is some epitome of obsession, some people may be able to look down on it through the passage of time, but some people are difficult to do, today we will talk about this insoluble love and hate, a constellation with a very contradictory view of feelings!
Cancer
The environment has a very important significance for the growth of Cancer, if the environment in which Cancer grows is a good and active and optimistic atmosphere, then the personality of Cancer will not be so pessimistic and sensitive, but if the environment in which Cancer grows is not so benign, then the development of Cancer's personality will generally be biased towards the pessimistic and sensitive side, which is very different from the earth sign, because the environment does not have so much impact on the earth sign, generally can not be separated from the original personality, and this is because of the nature of the earth sign self But Cancer does not have such a nature, because Cancer lives in the eyes of others, in fact, in its own heart, and Cancer is sandwiched in the middle, with the change of the environment to change the original self..
Cancer friends themselves should know that some of the relationships and feelings around you always disappear inexplicably, but to be honest, the reason for the disappearance of those relationships and feelings is not objective, but subjective, or once the relationship and feelings become beyond your expectations and beyond the scope of your bearing, it may be abandoned by your own hands.
For Cancer, the key word is called calculation, for example, if someone around Cancer takes the initiative to ask cancer on a certain day, then at the first appointment, Cancer generally refuses, because what? Because Cancer will think wildly, Cancer will think about what purpose you have, but if this person takes the initiative to ask Cancer again, then Cancer may come out, but the probability is not high, or Cancer will refuse the second time, and the third time will generally come out, but the problem is that few people will do this, unless the person likes Cancer very much.
So you have to know that the reaction speed of Cancer's feelings is not slow, but needs to be judged, but if that person is not out when he first asks Cancer, Cancer does not go out, but asks Cancer's friends and girlfriends to go out, then how will Cancer look at this kind of thing? At least cancer's vision changed the next time he saw this person, and so did his girlfriend, for no reason, because feelings are unique in cancer's eyes, it needs to be pure, and as long as it is not pure, cancer can't control its own thoughts.
But it is because Cancer is too fond of calculation, so there is a habit of revenge, there may be many friends do not know, Cancer is a very vengeful sign, and can not put down, and as me, the perception of this may be the deepest, because I have three Cancers around me, just say that my high school classmates, in high school, because naughty always bully him, tease him, in fact, there is no malice at all, that age is simply naughty, but this matter has not passed until now, you and Cancer reconcile does not count, Get Cancer heart and you reconcile, Cancer once the revenge for more than ten years has not passed, just say now, as long as we do something together, Cancer will begin to target, play games to engage you, play cards to engage you, in short, is the opponent play, friends who have experienced should know, active détente can not be eased.
But the problem is that Cancer is good to you is also from the heart, there is one thing that I remember very deeply, I like to eat a shop cake, but this shop is very close to Cancer's home, far from me, but since I said this need, Cancer will bring me a copy every time, his good you can clearly perceive, but how to say it, Cancer's performance is really very contradictory, he is both good to you and against you, he himself can not control, and once Cancer is in this state, it is really difficult to be understood.
Cancer man's revenge will be expressed with action, but cancer woman's revenge will be hidden in the heart, as for whether cancer women will retaliate, it depends on whether it exceeds their limit of endurance, if it exceeds, then Cancer woman is very powerful, saying that the fish is dead net broken is not exaggerated, and Cancer in the state of love is also like this, he loves you and hates you, the more he loves and hates, very contradictory, of course, Cancer does not have the tenacious personality of Scorpio, so in general, Cancer will hold emotions and hearts in the stomach, Then use the state to hint at you, but give you the feeling that you can't tell the difference between love and hate.
But to tell the truth, Cancer this state they themselves can not control, so Cancer sometimes really does not understand the love and hate, once the heart has a knot it is difficult to unravel, the emotional view is extremely contradictory, so friends with Cancer must pay attention to, the initiative is a must, because if you do not take the initiative, Cancer can not control their pessimism, a lot of relationship feelings may become flavored, the most important point is to learn to believe, do not misunderstand because of the state of Cancer hot and cold, Because your misunderstanding will only make Cancer more contradictory.