Mother's Day| in Etonkids, see different mothers, pursue the same "philosophy of love"

Every child's life

The first mentor was his own mother

Start by learning to say the first sentence

Start with the first step on your tortuous steps

On the road to growing up, maternal love has never been absent

Tomorrow is Mother's Day

This is also Eaton's 20th anniversary

From "Eaton International Education Group"

After being officially upgraded to "Eaton Group"

First Mother's Day

On this special day

We launched an interview with The Eaton Moms

After watching this video, I hope that mothers feel:

What exactly should a good mother look like?

That's what you are now

Because, how many mothers are there in this world

There will be as many ways to be a mother

And you, without a doubt, are the best mother in the eyes of your children

In this school of life, the only thing we have to learn

It is to love every day in your own way

To accompany children to become the best version of themselves

Eaton also wishes all the moms in the world:

Happy Mother's Day!

A question that even Mother's Day can't avoid: "Will I be a good mom?" ”

It is said that parents are the first teachers of children, and family education is the starting point and the most important place for children's education.

At home, the most companion of the child is often the mother.

Even Dr. Montessori once said: "If a child lacks the companionship and care of his mother, he is in a cage, in fact, he has been abandoned." ”

Because of this, whether it is a stay-at-home mom or a working mom, they are often plagued by the same question: "Will I be a good mom?" ”

In this confusion, we can also accidentally walk into the wrong area:

Can't wait to help the child to complete some things that he can do independently, such as helping him put on shoes and clothes, feeding;

Teach children to memorize many Tang poems early, memorize many arithmetic formulas, and report many interest classes;

When the child is a little older, he can't wait to spend the whole weekend either in class or on the way to class. But what the child really likes, how much can be absorbed, few people can really calm down and figure it out.

The more you give, the more anxious, tired, and lonely your mother becomes, and the child is often unhappy.

Etonkids saw and understood this bitterness, and pointedly pointed out the problem:

Love is innate, but the way of love needs to be cultivated.

How to understand this sentence? Looking down, the stories of the following Etonhouse moms are the best annotations to this point.

Eton's mother has a saying: There are as many mothers in this world as there are many ways to be a mother

Several of the Etonium moms interviewed had different backgrounds.

The 5-year-old son's mother is the operation manager of Eaton KA; The mother of Xu, who has a 22-month-old daughter-in-law, is the senior manager of Etonkidon KA's special product development; Ms. Xia, who has a professional doctorate, is the course manager of Eaton Academic Management Center; and Ms. Vivien, the head of the board and CEO of Eaton Parents...

As soon as they appeared, they made people feel:

There are as many mothers as there are in the world, and there will be as many ways to be a mother.

For example, for Jie's mother, she spends 90% of her time and energy on her son, and almost does not need her own time, because being with her children is happy enough.

In Xu's mother's view, the hour before going to bed every night is a high-quality companionship time for her and her daughter, and most of the rest of the time is left to her husband to take care of.

Growing up in a free and equal environment, she has an educational philosophy: first do yourself. Mothers are happy and not anxious, which provides a good environment for children to grow.

Teacher Xia is a standard Buddhist mother.

As an expert with more than ten years of professional experience, she learned Montessori 0-3 years old AMS certification at the beginning, is the first batch of certified teachers in China, Xia teacher throughout her work and spare time, is learning professional knowledge.

With this confidence as a support, her parenting philosophy is very Buddhist - everything respects the idea of children. From kindergarten to interest classes, her standards are also simplified to: as long as the child likes.

Ms. Vivien, CEO of Eaton, described the role of mothers as follows: love, faith, nurturing, teaching, and understanding. Mother's love is the love of angels, selfless dedication, wholehearted dedication, is a kind of unconditional compassion and great love that does not ask for anything in return.

Every child is like a seed, the mother needs to respect the child's unique personality, TA is jasmine to love the elegant fragrance of TA jasmine, do not desire to turn TA into a peony or rose. At the same time, it is necessary to create an environment for this seed to bloom individually.

We love children, respect children, and the result of our efforts is to be able to make children the best of themselves, not the best children in the minds of parents, which is the highest state of love.

Yes, although several Eaton moms are of different types:

Have a dedicated and dedicated mother, and raise a child and her own happiness in the company;

There are elite mothers in the workplace, accompanying their children for one hour every day with high quality, and the rest of the time is handed over to their husbands to achieve their children's free-form development;

Buddhist mothers who have "as long as the child is happy" seem to be free-range, but there is a set of parenting logic behind them.

But at Eaton, there's a consensus among moms: it's about letting their children be the best version of themselves.

They clearly know that excellent education is not to teach children how many Tang poems to memorize and how many quick calculation formulas to learn, but to ignite children's curiosity, cultivate children's excellent character and ability to create happiness.

What is the best Mother's Day gift? It's about seeing your child grow into the best version of themselves

Light up wisdom with love and let children become the best version of themselves.

To put it all in a nutshell, this is what Eaton has always advocated: to make children autonomous learners, astute thinkers, creative problem solvers, empathetic little citizens, and gritty and sunny individuals.

At Eaton, what mothers have to do is not to pursue how many interest classes their children have enrolled in, how many languages or skills they will have.

It is to fully respect the child, return the initiative of learning and life to them, let the child become a self-master, become an active, driven and courageous sunshine individual in life, and empower them with the ability to create happiness.

In other words, to love children is to provide them with a rich, stable, and safe environment for them to develop indefinitely. After all, educating children is not about giving them a destination, but about providing for their journey.

Allowing children to be the best version of themselves is also reflected in the educational philosophy of Eaton Kindergarten. The following articles, when the mother accompanies the child at home, is also worth referencing.

1) Create a prepared environment

Children have an innate inner vitality, as parents and educators, we must create a suitable growth environment for children, so that children's inner vitality can be freely developed.

For example, try to provide your child with an orderly environment and real objects, even if the child accidentally breaks it.

Real objects can make children sort out the difference between real life and the unreal world and achieve natural growth.

2) Respect and give children true freedom

Respecting the child is not completely free-range, but recognizing that the child is an independent individual with its own growth rhythm.

Only by understanding the child from the child's standpoint and psychological state can we understand the child in a real sense.

For example, at Eaton Kindergarten, the teacher will squat down when talking to the child, maintain the same height as the child, and look the child in the eyes when speaking, and treat it with an equal attitude.

3) Let go and let the child boldly do it

Dr. Montessori has a classic saying: I listen to it and forget it; when I see it, I remember it; when I do it, I understand it.

This is also the reason for children to "work", to do it to understand.

As a mom, never help your child with tasks he thinks he can do on his own.

Because well-intentioned help deprives children of the right, freedom, and joy of success to do these things independently, and it can also become an obstacle to children's development.

Let go and let the child do it, the child will progress, this is growth.

Finally, when you are caught in the mud pit of anxiety and exhaustion of educating your children, Ms. Vivien's Mother's Day wishes to all mothers may help you:

"I want to say to every mother that every parent longs for their children to be happy and happy for a lifetime, unfortunately as parents we can give their children money and resources, but we can't directly give them happiness."

But we are able to develop their ability to create happiness on their own! At the same time, we are able to cultivate the good character of the children. In the process of creating happiness, they will experience difficulties and setbacks, which is the price of their growth and the harvest of their growth, which can make children have real happiness and happiness and achieve the best of themselves!

At the same time, in the eyes of your children, you will always be the best mother. I hope that the process of accompanying the child's growth can also make the mother the best version of herself! The mother holds the child's hand for only a few years; but the heart will always miss the child!

Happy Mother's Day to moms! ”

END