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"Good Mother" Luo Haiyun: Use maternal love to hold up a piece of heaven for your child

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Luo Haiyun, an ordinary resident of Nancun Town, Panyu District, Guangzhou, an ordinary and great mother. Luo Haiyun's son is 14 years old this year, and unlike ordinary children, he is a child with cerebral palsy. What is touching is that Luo Haiyun has never abandoned his son, carefully taken care of him for ten years, and made every effort to let his children feel the joy of life, the vastness of the world and the beauty of life. Nowadays, children not only learn cultural knowledge, but more importantly, they learn to adapt to group life and get along well with teachers and classmates.

The good man said: "No matter how hard it is, seeing the child grow up day by day, life is full of hope." ”

"Good Mother" Luo Haiyun: Use maternal love to hold up a piece of heaven for your child

Luo Haiyun

Never give up on going around seeking medical treatment for your child

Luo Haiyun, a 44-year-old resident of Nancun Community in Panyu District, is about 1.6 meters tall and looks nothing special. However, people who know Luo Haiyun give her a thumbs up, and hard-working, positive and optimistic is everyone's evaluation of her.

All this must start with Luo Haiyun's son. 14 years ago, the child arrived early, the body organs and brain were not fully mature, suffering from cerebral palsy. In order to change this little life, the child begins to receive rehabilitation treatment before he reaches the age of one. At that time, every day after work, Luo Haiyun would first go to the market to buy vegetables, go home to cook, and then bathe, feed and change diapers for the children. In order to keep the home in order, Luo Haiyun was sometimes busy until the early morning and could not go to bed to rest, tired and sore.

In the process of seeking medical treatment for his child, Luo Haiyun met many doctors and patients. They told Luo Haiyun that after the child is 3 years old, there is no need to do treatment, just do some rehabilitation training at home. Luo Haiyun often does rehabilitation training for children for 10 years. At the same time, she did not give up treating her children, and she and her husband looked around for relevant medical information, even if there was only a glimmer of hope. In order to give the best treatment for the child, Luo Haiyun's family has also sought medical treatment in other places many times.

When his son was 10 years old, Luo Haiyun took the child to a hospital in Beijing for treatment. Kung Fu pays off, this treatment has a better effect, the child can slowly take a step. Luo Haiyun said with emotion: "Life is not easy, but hard work will eventually be rewarded." ”

"Good Mother" Luo Haiyun: Use maternal love to hold up a piece of heaven for your child

Luo Haiyun accompanied the child to read. For children, she never gives up.

Patient guidance Accompany your child to school and read

In the past 14 years, Luo Haiyun has encountered large and small ups and downs, and what makes her feel most difficult is to find a school for her children. Considering the child's future development, Luo Haiyun did not choose a special school for her child like other mothers, but let her children enroll in ordinary kindergartens and primary schools. This is a bold idea and very difficult to implement.

"When the child reaches the age of kindergarten, no kindergarten is willing to accept it, so I teach him myself." Luo Haiyun recalled that she had taught for a long time, but her son still did not know the three numbers of 0, 6, and 8. She didn't give up and guided him over and over again. She attaches great importance to cultivating children's cognitive abilities, and under her careful cultivation, her son has the cognitive level of preschool children.

It is difficult to enroll in kindergarten, and even more so in primary school. When the child was 5 years old, Luo Haiyun began to find a primary school for him. But many schools said they could not accept special children, and after every communication with the principal, Luo Haiyun was disappointed and returned. Finally, after many efforts, Nancun Town Center Primary School expressed its willingness to accept the child.

The school has solved, but the child really goes to school and faces a new problem: the child is not convenient to walk, how to go to the bathroom after class? He only has contact with his family every day, can he adapt to seeing so many classmates at once? In order to let the children study smoothly, Luo Haiyun simply resigned to accompany the reading. Every time she goes to class, she accompanies the child outside the window and takes the child to the bathroom after class. "Later, when the child was older, he was picked up by his grandfather and accompanied him to study." Luo Haiyun said.

In addition to her mother's care, the teachers and students of Nancun Town Center Primary School also took good care of this special student. Children not only learn cultural knowledge in school, but also learn to adapt to group life. Today, Luo Haiyun's son has adapted to school life and gets along well with teachers and classmates.

Live seriously to make children feel happy

Although these years have been very hard, Luo Haiyun always has a smile on his face and never complains in front of his children. When she has free time, she takes her children on trips. Over the years, Luo Haiyun has taken her children to almost all the domestic attractions, and has also visited Japan, Vietnam and other countries, and the large and small museums in Guangzhou have left her and her children's footprints. In order to let the children enjoy the fun of the journey, she also took the initiative to guide the children to make their own strategies.

"I want to set an example for my child, I want my child to know that the obstacle to walking will not affect the whole of life, we can live like a normal person, difficulties can be overcome, and this will be the wealth that he can use for a lifetime." 」 Luo Haiyun said that she should make every effort to let children feel the joy of life, the vastness of the world and the beauty of life.

In the ordinary and ordinary life, Luo Haiyun adheres to the responsibility and love for his family, has good thoughts, never gives up, and uses maternal love to support a sky of life for his son, and his story of deep affection has touched many people and illuminated more special families. (Information Times)

【Source: Guangzhou Civilization Network】

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