As a parent, what is the most original feeling when you love your child with all your heart? It's happiness. You are sad and tired for your children, but you still love your children. You endure all the pain and get pleasure from it. You understand what love is because of children, and you know what it means in the course of life. So, having children is the greatest happiness in your life.
Please compare the difference between having children and not having children. It can be said that after having children, you have your second life. You can't even imagine how to live without children. So, how important is your child to you! I am afraid that you should also write this book now because you want your replacement.
So, I want to ask you a question: Is your love for your child conditional, because the child is beautiful, you like it, because the child learns well, you love him, or because the child is praised by others, you only double him? None of this is true love! Because you are sick, you will lose your temper with your children, say your own tickets, and don't let your children annoy you, which is not love. Only when you are in a good mood and want to accept your children, do you love your children, what kind of love is this? Loving children should be unconditional. No matter what shortcomings the child has, parents should be able to tolerate the child, which is true love.
Love is God's best gift to mankind. Those who are loved will see the world positively, no matter what the causes and difficulties, they will not fall, and they will not speak of failure after being frustrated. They know how to think for others, they know how to be tolerant, they can hold the hand of their loved ones and get back on their feet. Therefore, if a child understands love, he will have the most powerful weapon to survive in the world. So, in order to cultivate children to understand love, what should parents do?