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Foreword
Recently, the owners of Rongqiao Xingyu Community in Jiading District, Shanghai reported that there was an elderly man on the 6th floor who was crazy about online shopping every day, and the express delivery at home was piled up, but he never opened the box.
Surprisingly, the old man even fell asleep on the delivery pile every day, and the home environment was a mess.
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Express delivery piles up, and the living environment is poor
According to neighbors, since last year, some of the old man's couriers have rotted and smelled, which has seriously affected the living environment of the neighbors.
The old man knew that the situation at home was out of control, but he just refused to change his current lifestyle.
She said: "My daughter's personality is different from others, she studies law, and we don't have much contact with each other when she is usually very serious. We had a meal before she went abroad, and I was the only one who cared about her after she went abroad. ”
The property revealed that they have currently found a temporary spot in the common area dedicated to her couriers, while some large items can only be temporarily placed on the fire escape.
Although this practice is not compliant, it is also a helpless move.
Online shopping addiction fills the emptiness in your heart
According to the statistics of the property, the elderly claimed that the cost of online shopping for goods in the past year had exceeded 1 million yuan.
However, most of these couriers were not opened, and the elderly had to climb through mountains of couriers to get in and out of the door, or even lie directly on the courier packages to sleep.
The old man said that some things were bought for himself and some things were bought for his girlfriends, but now his girlfriends are not coming.
Psychologists said the elderly man may be suffering from "hoarding disorder," also known as hoarding disorder. Online shopping courier delivery has become a kind of attachment for her to fill the emptiness in her heart.
Social Repercussions and Neighborhood Care
Neighbors are worried about the elderly's condition. "Not only does this affect our living environment, but it also makes people worry about her physical and mental state," said one owner. ”
The property has also made several attempts to contact the family of the elderly, but the situation has not improved.
According to the person in charge of the territory, the old man has been divorced since 2010, and it is difficult to contact his daughter in a foreign country.
The old man's brother said that his sister did not listen to persuasion, and he himself was in his 70s, so it was difficult to take care of his sister's affairs.
Expert's opinion: What the elderly lack is care
Psychology experts judged that the old man's behavior reflected her inner loneliness and lack of love.
Although she is not short of money, she lacks joy, care and comfort, which is also a common problem for many elderly people.
Experts suggest that society should pay more attention to the mental health of the elderly, give them more care and companionship, and help them get out of loneliness and regain the joy of life.
Let's take a look at what everyone is saying!
Netizen comments
Netizen:
I take care of the children alone in a different place every day [covering my face] I understand this loneliness very well, and when I am fine, I go to the milk tea shop to drink milk tea and chat with the proprietress for a while
Netizen:
How to disassemble the knife in another box. The cycle is endless
Netizen:
You go to her house and accompany her to dismantle her, she may be happy
Netizen:
I have two jobs that are more or less like this, doing housework for the elderly, mainly chatting [covering his face]
Netizen:
Yes, at this age, it is better to be lonely than social
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