For parents, perhaps the improvement of children's grades must be the most pleasing thing for parents.
However, when helping children write homework, almost every family has become a "battlefield".
According to detailed statistics: most of the homework tutoring work of primary school students is undertaken by mothers.
Only about 10% of the fathers who take the initiative to take on the work of tutoring primary school students are only about 10%.
This is also the reason why many mothers have become "roaring mothers" when tutoring their children to write homework, after all, the mother's soft voice cannot play any wake-up call for children.
A few days ago, a father's homework to help his children was posted on the Internet, which triggered a lot of people to watch.
The father standing in the photo, with a clear tattoo on his left arm, is "mixed society" at first glance.
Without the slightest expression, he looked very cool, said nothing, and quietly looked at his son who was sitting next to him.
Looking at the momentum of the son and this father, I did not expect that the son was even better, and the next words made many people can't help but be amused.
I didn't expect my son to say: People's parents are anxious because they will, you won't, what are you anxious about?
When netizens saw this scene, they pinched a handful of sweat for their son's next encounter.
Unexpectedly, the son was even more astonishing, directly asking his father to put away the flower arm, and asked his father who was really scaring.
When you see your father's helpless and fierce eyes, I think most parents will have the same sympathetic look.
In fact, when tutoring children to write homework, pictures of chickens and dogs jumping and discord will always appear, but this is also unavoidable.
For parents, before tutoring their children to write homework, they should pay more attention to the preparation of the following questions.
[When tutoring children to write homework, we should pay more attention to these]
1, the key is the attitude
Most parents have an extremely bad attitude when tutoring their children to write homework, and even tie their hands together for fear of being rude to their children.
It is precisely because of this impatient attitude of parents that there will be no small pressure on the child, so that writing homework has become something that is forced to be completed, and there is no initiative at all.
Therefore, when tutoring children to write homework, the attitude of parents is very critical and important.
2. Pay attention to the creation of the environment
Before tutoring children to write homework, parents should also pay more attention to the creation of the environment, learning is the need for atmosphere, which is not only reflected in the child's body, but also in the parents' body.
If when the child is writing homework, the parents are either playing with the mobile phone, brushing the video, or immersed in the happiness of the TV series, the child's attention, naturally can not concentrate.
3. Do a good job of guidance
Parents help their children write homework, and the children are always running around and cannot concentrate.
In fact, it is the parents who do not do a good job of guiding the work, so that the child's attention is distracted.
Therefore, their subjective initiative is not stimulated in learning, but only passively completes homework, and only does things they are unwilling to do under the supervision of their parents.
In order to make children complete their homework faster and better, and reduce the friction between parents and children, parents can use the following methods when tutoring children to write homework.
【Ways to make your child write homework faster】
1, the support of good habits
Before tutoring children to write homework, try to help children establish good learning habits and awareness.
Make your child understand that learning is their own business and doing homework is the most important thing.
Only when this matter is done can other requests and other plans be arranged.
When the child can understand this matter, he can make more reasonable arrangements and make homework more efficient.
2. Set up plans and rules
Before a child does homework, the difficulty and amount of homework will increase as they age.
Therefore, before going home, let your child make a plan for completing homework, from easy to difficult.
This way can not only improve their efficiency when writing homework, but also improve their completion, and the enthusiasm of children in writing homework will also have a certain transfer.
3. Set up certain reward and punishment measures
Before the child writes homework, parents can set certain rewards and punishments, which can trigger their initiative in learning.
Encouragement was taken so that they could be more actively involved in writing homework, rather than being yelled at and urged by their parents to complete their homework.
【Author's Message】
Zhang Zai once said that scholars look at books, and every time they see and learn something new, they learn better.
With the deepening of the epidemic, online classes have become commonplace, but tutoring children to write homework is still a headache for parents.
Most parents want their children to be able to complete their homework on their own, keep it fast, and have a high accuracy rate.
This is the inner thought and desire of almost all parents, however, most children will be in a state of opposition to their parents.
The tutoring scene of chicken flying and dog jumping will break the parent-child relationship between many parents and children.
In the final analysis, it is the child's initiative that is not stimulated, and the parents' educational methods are problematic.
The above methods can solve these problems and contradictions, so that children can reduce the friction between parents and children during the tutoring homework.
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