-01-
Let's start with an interesting thing.
During the pandemic, some colleagues were isolated at home.
A young man who doesn't even know what kind of kitchen looks like on weekdays actually opens his chef's "confession".
Every day, he would make a dish with a romantic confession and post it in the circle of friends, alluding to a girl's name and the story between them.
The girl is also a colleague of our same unit, but in another branch, the girl just quietly "watched" at first, and then began to silently like, so everyone saw that the girl had a reaction, and began to coax in the comment area, and then, the two people actually began to sprinkle dog food very tacitly.
It really makes people sigh, isolated at home, can also chase girls like this, really a master.
However, everyone also knows that it is not uncommon for boys to like this girl, because usually in the unit, boys do not know how many times they have secretly confessed.
The two people were actually just about to uncover that piece of paper.
-02-
Loving someone actually requires tricks.
For example, we always think that loving someone should be natural, but you will find that unconsciously, that person always appears in your life, always inadvertently "intersects" with you, and always goes wherever you may meet him... In fact, all this is just your "heart" into his mind.
It can be seen that love will make a person learn to use his brain.
When a man pursues a girl, he will "do whatever he wants", and will "vote for what you like", so that you unconsciously, attracted to him.
Many girls, after being with men, will also sigh: he is a wooden knot.
But I don't know, he wants to develop feelings with you, in fact, he has been rubbing the ground secretly, trying his best to make you feel good about him, but you think it is natural for you to "walk together".
So, when a man is "playing tricks" on you like this, he is already confessing to you, see if there is anything around you, don't care.
Unconsciously "paying attention to you" makes you feel like he's everywhere
The beginning of love is the beginning of a fate.
It's just that some people regard meeting you as their unswerving determination, while some people regard meeting you as a game.
So, if a guy, he seriously pursues you, you will feel that he is "everywhere" and his attention will always revolve around you.
Maybe he's not good at words, but he will do many things for you silently; maybe he never confessed, but he will always appear quietly next to you.
Just like the male colleague we mentioned at the beginning, the two people originally only had a little intersection at work, and there was not much contact, but I heard that some people often saw him go to the girls' office building, and some people often met him to feed the girls, and when someone asked: Why do you appear here? Boys always say lightly: The food here is delicious.
These so-called "coincidences" seem boring, but it is not someone who is laying the future of a relationship.
Life is long, and women want the deepest romance and sincerity.
Therefore, this person, he does not have so much "acting skills", nor too much confession, but he just wants to be closer to you, have some connection with you, let you know that your side, has quietly added a person's company.
Carefully "tempt you" to make you feel that he and you are "good friends"
Women's psychology, in fact, is eager to meet a person, can be with their own "heart and sharp". Just like the old saying: I have a look, he understands, I move, he understands.
Unfortunately, this kind of heart has a sharp mind, and in real life, it is too difficult to encounter.
However, when a man wants to pursue you, he will try to get close to the "heart of the rhinoceros" in your heart.
For example, he tells you a joke, especially a cold joke, if he sees you listening to his joke, he will laugh, then he will often make you so happy in the future, if you will praise him a "hello humor", he will immediately hit you like chicken blood, from time to time to give you a piece of cold humor;
When you send a circle of friends, you will find that his private message will follow, it seems that you are very interested in the circle of friends you sent, or like or give advice, and you can chat very well;
Everyone goes out and plays together, and you will feel that whatever you propose, he will echo you, and wherever you want to go, he will give his approval.
In short, he will make you feel that you are so close to each other.
Remember that Zhang Haochen once had a saying: All the unexpected encounters in the world are actually the painstaking efforts of another person.
If a person likes you, you will find that he will have many coincidences with you. Eating, you will like to eat the same taste as you; reading a book, you will like the same series; even if it is a small gift that you have been traveling and bringing back, it will be what you have longed for for a long time...
The pleasing thing in this is that he loves you carefully.
The world is like a book, I prefer this sentence of yours, make a comma, stay at your feet, understand all your careful thoughts.
Sincerely "remind you" so that you feel that he "loves you"
Loving someone needs to be expressed.
There are always people who say that modern women have passed the era of hearing love.
However, if a man does not confess anything and lets women guess what he means, most women will ignore everything he does and will wait for his confession. If he avoids talking about it, the woman will also feel that he is engaged in ambiguity, not true love.
So, confession, is very important.
And if a man really wants to be with you, he will definitely secretly rub his confession from time to time, sincerely reminding you: I have a crush on you, come to my side.
You will feel that he will tempt you if he is not concerned: You crazy, I guess you are waiting for me to collect you!
Or, will it be directly ambiguous to say "Or, I'll chase you"?
In the words of the dark rubbing, in fact, what is hidden is the mind that wants to chase you. Especially in various festivals, various small details will be designed to give you some small gifts to express your love.
He will remind you that I am blatantly pursuing you.
Perhaps, he will not give you a vow of mountains and seas, but whenever you need him, his warm words will be in your ears, making you feel solid, feeling that this person is "very real", and making you feel: with him, you are at ease.
Love, and most importantly, is sincerity. Only sincerity makes it most difficult to refuse.
-03-
Perhaps, in love, the two words that are most feared are: if.
The phrase "how could we have been" is full of infinite regrets.
In life, if a man says that he can't talk about love, it is absolutely suspected. The truth is that he hasn't met the man who made him say it.
If a man is truly in love with someone, he will definitely try his best to chase her down. Even if he is wooden, stupid, and clumsy, he will live vividly when he meets the person he likes.
Just like in "A Beautiful Life", Guido, in order to coax his wife Dora, even in the concentration camp, had to find a way to call her to the radio station: Good morning, my princess.
While people were touched, they finally understood why this stupid boy would let her be noble and beautiful, so loving.
Yes, most of the men that women admire are men who are active in action and spoiled in words, if a man can't give her even the most basic care, then most of them don't love him much.
After all, in this world, happiness never takes the initiative to knock on the door, but you need to knock on the door yourself.
Therefore, in the end, may men be able to seriously love each other and love each other with their hearts; may women cherish this person who holds the "heart machine" and comes to you and strives to be close to you.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!