The really beautiful feeling is that two people together can accompany each other, encourage each other, and grow into a better self.
If a relationship does not allow you to gain and inspire, you do not have any expectations and hopes for your future, and you cannot see your future, it means that this relationship is not suitable for you.
For women, middle-aged men who truly love and care deeply about you will usually go out of their way to meet your wishes and needs.
Whether in life or in relationships, he will give you meticulous care and attention.
Love is like a flickering light in the dark night, illuminating your journey home.
If you find that he starts to find various excuses to alienate you, no longer actively approach you, and even becomes jealous and suspicious of you, it means that he does not love you anymore.
When we truly like someone, we will allow the other person to integrate into our world, and we will desire to have a heart-to-heart fusion and collision with the other person.
Generally speaking, middle-aged men will be allowed to do this to him when they are emotional about you.
1. Allow you to flip through his phone
No matter how much two people love each other, they must maintain the necessary distance and grasp the sense of proportion of getting along.
If a middle-aged man gets emotional with you, he may allow you to flip through his phone.
Under normal circumstances, he will not let strangers look at the phone at will, only when he has feelings for you, he trusts you enough to allow you to do so.
Not everyone can look through a middle-aged man's phone unless he has real feelings for you.
It is precisely because he likes you that he will try to satisfy your curiosity and let you find a sense of security and presence in your relationship.
He does not want any unnecessary misunderstandings between you, in order to make your heart feel peaceful and down-to-earth, he will take the initiative to hand over the mobile phone and let you see enough at a time.
The reason why he allows you to look through his mobile phone is, on the one hand, to prove that he trusts you and that he cares about you, on the other hand, it also fully shows that he has not done anything to be sorry for you, and has not done anything wrong.
Of course, this is not to encourage you to check your partner's phone, after all, this involves personal privacy.
It's just that when a middle-aged man allows you to check his phone at any time, it shows that he is open and sincere enough inside, he has not cheated on your feelings, and his love and sincerity for you can stand up to testing and review.
2) Allow you to break into his life
Two people together need to rely on and support each other, blend and trust each other.
If a middle-aged man has feelings for you, he will allow you to break into his life and take the initiative to introduce you to his friends and family.
Because he cares about you, he doesn't want your feelings to be hidden, but he can't wait to make your love public.
If he has been in a relationship with you for many years and still refuses to introduce you to the people around him, he will not dare to take you home to meet your parents or your family, indicating that he may not really want to be with you.
The more middle-aged men who have real feelings for you, the more they will want to have more emotional connection with you and want to open their hearts to you.
On the one hand, he will want to integrate you into his world, and his world will not lock you up easily.
On the other hand, he will also be full of curiosity about your life, want to know more about your growth experience, and want to accompany you to experience and experience the warmth and cold of life.
Only when he doesn't love you will he allow you to blend into his world, he will keep a distance from you, and even disappear from your world without a trace.
So, when you find that a middle-aged man is willing to let you fit into his life circle, he is eager to have more intersection with you, and he is willing to open his heart to you, indicating that he may have moved his feelings for you.
3. Allow you to show weakness and make mistakes
Two people together need to tolerate and tolerate each other, and know how to show weakness appropriately.
You don't have to pretend to be strong in front of someone you love deeply, and sometimes you can show your fragile and helpless side.
A middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply allows you to show weakness to him.
When you cry in front of him, he will not only not abandon and mock you, but will give you warm comfort.
Because he has feelings for you, he hopes that you can remove the pretense of being strong in front of him, occasionally showing weakness so that he can better protect you.
When he is willing to become a strong pillar and reliance in your life, he can help you at a critical moment, indicating that he really loves you.
Middle-aged men who truly love you deeply usually allow you to make mistakes once in a while.
Because he loves you, he has a broad heart and will not be preoccupied with you because of your occasional mistakes.
Only a middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply will allow you to show weakness to him and allow you to make mistakes.
A middle-aged man who has feelings for you will usually silently care and pay attention to you, when you don't need him, he will silently retreat in the corner, when you need him, he will stand up and extend a strong hand to you at the first time.
If a middle-aged man does not allow you to show weakness or make mistakes, once you show a vulnerable side or accidentally make mistakes, he will ridicule and ridicule you, indicating that he does not really love you.
Middle-aged men who truly love you deeply usually have a soft heart.
Only when he doesn't love you will he be you.
In short, if a middle-aged man has feelings for you, there will be more or less abnormal performances, which will allow you to do a lot of things to him.
For example, he will allow you to break into his life, allow you to make mistakes, and allow you to show weakness.
Everyone will make mistakes sometimes, as long as they know how to correct them in time.
If a middle-aged man does not allow you to make mistakes, when you accidentally make mistakes, he will not tolerate you, but will continue to pour salt on your wounds, losing trust and confidence in you, indicating that he does not love you enough.
When two people are together, the most important thing is to be tolerant and considerate of each other.
The more middle-aged men who have moved their true feelings for you, the broader their hearts are, and the easier it is to accept and tolerate your shortcomings and shortcomings.
If he is too selfish and stingy with you, and is not willing to tolerate your bad temper or accept your small shortcomings, then there is a good chance that he does not have you in his heart at all, and he may have let go of you long ago.
We should allow our partners to make mistakes and show weakness, allow partners to express their true feelings in their hearts, and give their partners more respect and understanding.
Only when we know how to be honest with each other and irrigate with love can the little saplings of love thrive.