When a woman faces love, she will become crazy, and when she falls in love with a person, she will be willing to give everything for the other party, and even humble to love, which is a very irrational behavior.
She thinks that this can move the other party, but in fact, the more humble, the more the other party does not know how to cherish, and will only enjoy your kindness to her.
A good love is based on the equality of both parties, when you repeatedly lower your stature, you are already unequal, and he will not love you as much as you think.
Some people feel that women are too reserved to chase after the people they love, but they are also sub-situational, sometimes, take the initiative, be generous, more conducive to the development of the relationship, some times, too active will only make the other party look down on you.
In the heterosexual relationship, the more "reserved" a woman is in these moments, the more men will be fascinated by you, don't be too proactive.
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Be reserved when men are chatting with you
How would you react if someone you liked was talking to you? Is it directly seconds back, or wait for a moment?
Some women will directly return to each other in seconds to let the other party know that you have been waiting for his news, but you will only expose your weaknesses and make the other party feel that you have already been conquered by him.
If it's just a daily chat, not an interview about important things, then you can stay reserved, pause for a while and then reply, just to make the other party feel that you are not waiting there at any time, waiting for him to call.
Don't think, in case you reply late, he ignores you what to do, if he does not want to ignore you, even if you return in seconds is useless, if he wants to ignore you, even if you do not reply, he will always wait.
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Be reserved when men want to see you
When a man wants to see you, he may not really miss you, it is likely to be boring, at this time, you have to distinguish what he means, and then decide whether to see him or not.
Even if you really want to see your situation, you can also be reserved, instead of every time he says to meet, you are happy to agree, it will only make him feel too easy, and men will not cherish too much for things that are easy to get.
Sometimes, the reason for your relationship is longer, if you can restrain it, he will be more fascinated by you, and even obsessed with you.
And if you have been actively sticking to each other, for a long time, he will feel no sense of conquest, and slowly will not contact you again, asking you to meet.
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Be reserved when men want to develop further with you
The feelings of two people go to a certain extent, and men will want to have further development, in this process, some women will listen to him in order to please men, and what he says is what he says, but this will only hurt you.
Don't feel that you have given everything for a man, he will be moved, he will be good to you, in fact, the more you give wholeheartedly, the more he feels bored, and even slowly will move away from you.
If you want a man to be inseparable from you, then when he wants to further develop with you, keep it reserved, let him be patient, understand your preciousness, rather than wronging himself.
Only if you learn to love yourself, he will respect you, will understand that this relationship is not easy to come by, I hope you can understand.
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Conclusion
In the process of getting along, it is not that the more humble you are, the more he will love you, on the contrary, when you are humble, he will only think that you are too cheap.
It is better to learn to be reserved and keep a sense of mystery, so as to arouse his curiosity, let him repeatedly take the initiative to contact you, want to see you, so that you can grasp the initiative.
Of course, you can't be too "doing", you should be reserved when you should be reserved, and you should be generous when you are generous, so that he can be more fascinated by you and make him more and more inseparable from you.
As for how to grasp this degree, it also depends on the way the two of you get along, and your judgment of him as a person, only if you have a scale in your heart, you can know how to get along with him more happily.