As a woman, have you ever learned how to attract men?
Some people may say that women themselves have a high attraction, and will naturally attract men's pursuit, there is no need to learn this.
But is that really the case?
As far as the current society is concerned, the status of women has risen to a certain extent, but at the level of male-female relations, it is still very difficult to get the favor of their favorite object, not to work hard, and to rely on their own "charm" to attract the opposite sex.
As the saying goes: turnip cabbage, each has its own love.
Although in the love market, women have a huge advantage, but in order to accurately attract a certain man, or a certain type of man, women also need to enhance their own value in order to make their charm unstoppable. The purpose is simple, it is precision.
Simply put, it is the man you like that also likes you. How do you improve your attraction to him? I have four suggestions.
The first one: women are pleasing to themselves
Beautiful women are always present, but attractive women are not common.
Everyone's liking is different, some people like this type of look, some men like another look.
There is a saying: as long as he likes you, he likes what you look like, as long as he doesn't like you, even if you are a fairy, he has no feelings.
Is this really the case? I just want to ask, do you really believe this statement? I don't believe it anyway!
Therefore, if a girl wants to attract a specific opposite sex, she must know the real preferences of the other party, whether it is Lori, is the royal sister, is the black long straight, is the small family jasper, or everyone is boudoir.
When targeted, the attraction may be instantaneous.
If he likes The Royal Sister, then your Lori's outfit will not attract his attention.
Second: Talk about topics that interest him
U.S. President Franklin D. Roosevelt said: When you talk about things that are of interest to the other party, your communication will be unfavorable.
Communication is a bridge between people, without communication, it is difficult to have any resonance between people.
So if a girl wants to attract him, she should study what he really likes and what topics he is interested in.
When there is no obstacle to the communication between the two people, it is when the other party feels that they have a sharp heart and a fate.
The third: recognition and worship, for men, is "poison"
If the first two methods make men interested in you, then this one is enough to make men move their hearts for you, look at you differently, and remember you.
This method is recognition and worship.
It is no exaggeration to say that the best way for a woman to gain a man's favor in the shortest possible time is to recognize him and worship him.
Every man has a fanatical and sensitive "self-esteem" and they crave approval, especially from the opposite sex.
Don't think this is discrimination and oppression of women, because men are more willing to be a pair with a person of the opposite sex who adores him and approves of him.
So recognition and worship is just a skill.
Men conquer the world by force, and women conquer the world through men. Men and women who are the absolute "rulers"?
Right.
Fourth: Targeted care
Men are strong, men are bold and brave. We think men do this, but is it really so? Not necessarily!
Men are also human beings, they also have vulnerable times, they also have depressed times, this time they are no different from other people, but also very much want to be loved by a person.
If you care for him at this time, it will definitely leave a strong mark in his heart.
No matter how much love you usually have, it is not as important as caring for him when he is depressed, disappointed, and unable to persevere.
Attracting a whole bunch of men, for the vast majority of women, is not a difficult thing to do, attracting a particular member of the opposite sex is a challenging thing.
So how to improve their charm and attract that particular "lover" through learning is every woman's homework.
After all, no one wants to encounter the embarrassing situation of "love me, I don't love, I love, don't love me".
I believe that a woman who has learned these four skills will definitely be able to attract the opposite sex that she likes, do you think?