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Zhao Jiaqi
Zhao Jiaqi is a national first-class actor, starring in dozens of film and television dramas such as "Northeast Family", "Mother-in-law's Family", "I Married My Mother with My Mother", "Mother-in-law Mother of an Only Child", "My Early Girlfriend", "Who Will Serve My Mother" and so on.
With her solid and natural performance style, Zhao Jiaqi is deeply loved and praised by the audience.
Zhao Jiaqi is the "second generation of stars", her mother is the old drama bone Peng Yu, the original Zhao Jiaqi's original dream was music, she was born with a good voice, she has won a gold medal in vocal competitions, and her singing career is flourishing.
But in order to take care of her mother, she "abandons the voice from acting", so that she can still be in the same still with her mother to take care of her life.
Zhao Jiaqi with her mother Peng Yu and sister Zhao Lingqi
Zhao Jiaqi is not only a filial daughter, but also a good wife and mother.
Her love with her husband Xiao Meng was her initiative, at first Xiao Meng was just a young man selling fruit at the entrance of their theater, but he was tall and handsome, and he was also practical and diligent, which was very attractive to Zhao Jiaqi.
In this way, the two people began a sweet love, but in addition to the age difference of eight years between the two, there is also a family background that is not right, etc. Peng Yu learned that her daughter fell in love with a fruit stall vendor and was initially opposed.
So how did Zhao Jiaqi cross the obstacles, marry Xiao Meng and give birth to a son and love for decades?
Zhao Jiaqi with her husband and son Meng Asai
Why would Zhao Jiaqi reconcile her mother and her uncle after her father's death? What is the story of their family?
01 Discarded from acting to caring for mom
Zhao Jiaqi was born in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, her mother Peng Yu worked in the Harbin Drama Theatre in her early years, and her father Zhao Wenxin was also the backbone of the theater's business.
Later, Zhao Jiaqi's mother Peng Yu attacked the film and television circle to appear in many classic film and television dramas, which is an old drama bone on the screen.
Zhao Jiaqi has an older sister, Zhao Lingqi, who is two years older than her, and is also an actor, who has starred in works such as "Never Give Up", "There Are Tears Flowing", "Mother", "Begonia Still", and is now a national first-class actor.
Childhood Zhao Jiaqi with parents and sisters
Born in such an acting family, Zhao Jiaqi grew up in the theater director since she was a child, and often saw her parents acting and filming.
So she was no stranger to theatrical performances, and she also liked to perform, but she was not interested in it at that time.
Zhao Jiaqi's previous dream is music, she has a good voice since she was a child, and she has won gold medals in vocal competitions.
Later, because her mother Peng Yu loved to shoot, but because of her higher age, she did not trust her mother to shoot alone, so she gave up music and followed her mother to shoot dramas, so she took good care of her mother and her career was not delayed.
Zhao Jiaqi and her mother Peng Yu
Zhao Jiaqi's first play was "Northeast Family" starring her mother, although she only made a cameo in it, but her mother Peng Yu played "Chen Jiuxiang" in it made her famous throughout the country and became a well-known actor.
After that, Zhao Jiaqi filmed with her mother many times, such as "Romantic Things", "Very Post-90s", "Mother-in-law's Family", "Who Will Serve Mother" and other dramas.
In order to take care of her mother, Zhao Jiaqi gave up music and gave up many opportunities for her to shoot dramas, most of the time she followed her mother into the crew.
For her, nothing is more important than her mother's physical health, and nothing is more important than taking good care of her mother, in her heart, her mother is bigger than the sky.
Zhao Jiaqi
02 The godson is also very happy
In addition to being a filial daughter, Zhao Jiaqi is also a good wife and mother.
Zhao Jiaqi's love affair with her husband, Mr. Meng, began at the door of the drama theater, when she was only 19 years old, which was the age of Ruhua.
Mr. Meng was a small vendor selling fruit at the entrance of their unit, but he was exceptionally tall and handsome, not only allowing people to see the fruits he sold at a glance, but also his people.
And Zhao Jiaqi is attracted to him like this, of course, Mr. Meng is also very fond of this little girl who is eight years younger than himself, she is not only sweet, but also very grounded, and not small.
In this way, the two people fell in love.
However, at first, Zhao Jiaqi did not tell her mother, but when other colleagues in the theater discovered this "secret" and told her mother Peng Yu, she did not believe it.
One day Peng Yu went out to look for Zhao Jiaqi, and just happened to meet her eating fruit in front of the fruit stall, while chatting happily with Mr. Meng.
Peng Yu was a little angry, but the girl's subconscious made her pay attention to the fact that the fruit in her daughter's hand was better than the fruit on the stall, so she suppressed her anger and just told Zhao Jiaqi to "go home." ”
From the moment Zhao Jiaqi saw her mother, she made up her mind in her heart, no matter how angry her mother was, she would not be separated from Mr. Meng.
Sure enough, back at home, her mother began to let her confess herself. Zhao Jiaqi told her mother in 1510 that the other party was eight years older than herself, had no fixed job, made a living by selling fruits, and had many brothers and sisters in the family.
Originally, Zhao Jiaqi hid her love, Peng Yu was a little angry in her heart, and when she heard her daughter talk about the other party's family, she directly shook her head, "No, break up immediately." ”
But Zhao Jiaqi's attitude is very firm, she has identified the other party, she and her mother have shown their determination, she loves him very much, and in this life, "he will not marry." Watching her grow up from a young age, what kind of temperament her daughter was, Peng Yuzi was clear.
Saying that he could not move his daughter, Peng Yu found Mr. Meng, who was selling fruit, and said to him:
Xiao Meng, now Jia Qi is young and does not understand things, don't wait for her to understand things in the future, dump you, you still leave her early.
Who ever thought, Xiao Meng's attitude is also very resolute, he did not flinch, but showed his attitude, he also identified Zhao Jiaqi, this life is not her not to marry, if one day, she dumped herself, he did not have any complaints.
At the beginning, Peng Yu herself and her husband were also free in love, she looked at her daughter and each other, the two young people were truly in love, if they beat the Mandarin duck, they would definitely regret it in the future, so she did not interfere anymore.
Zhao Jiaqi with her mother Peng Yu and son Meng Asai
Zhao Jiaqi is very fortunate to have a pair of enlightened parents, who respect their choices and xiao Meng's work.
Of course, Xiao Meng also cherished Zhao Jiaqi more, and secretly swore in her heart that she would not fail her in this life, so the little couple became more and more sweet, until the two entered marriage and gave birth to a son Meng Asai in 1989, who has been in love so far.
But at the beginning, someone always asked Peng Yu: "Your daughter is so beautiful, and she is an actress, and has a decent job, you are willing to let her marry a fruit seller on the street?" ”
Peng Yu blocked back with a mouth: "Young people are very in love, they have their own way to go, and the blessing of being a parent is it." "Even so, there are still people talking behind their backs.
Happy family of three
But for the sounds of the outside world, Zhao Jiaqi never listened to them. She knew that life was her own and that her mouth was someone else's.
What she can manage well is her own life, and after marriage, she has lived a small life of husband and son.
And Mr. Meng also as he said at the beginning, put Zhao Jiaqi in the palm of his hand, no matter how good or bad the business is, no matter how busy the work is, he will take time to accompany her, never yell at her, so many years have been so.
03 The son is proud
In 1989, Zhao Jiaqi gave birth to a son, Meng Asai, and the family regarded him as a treasure in the palm of their hands.
Meng Asai with Dad
In particular, Grandma Peng Yu said that she was close to each other generation.
Peng Yu was even more precious to this grandson Meng Asai, and often carried his daughter and son-in-law to give his grandson pocket money.
In the words of Meng Asai, Grandma was always worried that he was hungry and did not eat enough, and she always couldn't help but make food for him to eat, and she would do whatever he liked to eat. Although she looked at her grandson's increasingly obese body, she also reminded him that he should lose weight.
But she still couldn't help but give him the most and the best, because she always felt that it was not enough, and always felt that her grandson was not full. Therefore, Meng Asai's relationship with grandma has been deep since childhood, as long as he is called "Grandma", she understands what he wants to do.
Meng Asai and Grandpa and Grandma
As a typical "star three generations", Meng Asai was deeply influenced by his grandmother and his mother and aunt, and he had a strong interest in acting since he was a child, and Peng Yu also intended to cultivate him in this regard.
However, their family has always been very democratic, and the family is at most a reference for advice, and it is still up to me to make decisions.
Meng Asai embarked on the road of an actor, it was his own decision, as an elder, Grandma Peng Yu and mother Zhao Jiaqi were very supportive.
In their eyes, he has a talent for acting, as long as he is willing to work hard, he will definitely become a good actor in the future.
Meng Asai
Meng Asai also lived up to expectations, in order to be admitted to the Chinese opera, he trained himself from a big fat man of more than two hundred pounds to a fitness master of more than one hundred pounds, and was admitted to the undergraduate department of Chinese opera performance as desired.
After graduation, he has starred in popular dramas such as "Brother Sea", "Snowy Eagle", "Cool Daddy and Pretty Mom", "SCI Mystery Case Collection", "Ringing Record" and so on, and has won industry recognition and audience love by virtue of his strength.
In the popular military drama "Special Battle Glory", the "Xiao Yunjie" he played was even more eye-catching for the audience, and he also won everyone's recognition again with his own efforts.
Now when Grandma Peng Yu and Mother Zhao Jiaqi mention him, they are full of pride and relief.
Zhao Jiaqi and her son Meng Asai
04 Behind the remarriage of the mother and uncle are tears of heartache
In Zhao Jiaqi's heart, her mother is her day.
When she was a child, her mother and father gave her the best love, and when she grew up, she did her best to give them care and protection.
Zhao Jiaqi's father Zhao Wenxin died of illness, in 1988, his father suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, although after rescue to save a life, life can not take care of himself, he was paralyzed.
At that time, Zhao Jiaqi and her sister had their own families, they had their own lives, and their careers were on the rise, and they could not accompany and take care of their parents every day, but could only go to see them occasionally.
This also makes Zhao Jiaqi feel very guilty, when her parents need her most, she can't accompany them all the time, which is one of the reasons why she will later broker her uncle and mother to remarry.
At that time, in order to take care of Zhao Wenxin wholeheartedly, Peng Yu retired in advance and stayed by the bedside to take care of him, but eight years later, the illness still took Zhao Wenxin with him, leaving Peng Yu alone.
For the departure of her wife, Peng Yu's heart is very painful, but she is not ashamed.
Because when he needed her most, she never abandoned, took care of him wholeheartedly, and fulfilled the responsibilities and obligations of a wife.
When her father died, Zhao Jiaqi and her sister were very sad, but they knew that the saddest person was still their mother.
Growing up, they saw their parents, knew how good their feelings were, how much they loved each other, and now that their father was gone, leaving their mother alone, alone.
At that time, they were filming in Beijing, so they took their mother to Beijing to relax, and during a visiting experience, Peng Yu stepped into the crew of the movie "City Scarecrow" and accidentally got a cameo phone booth aunt.
This experience from the film opened a new door to Peng Yu's life, and she ushered in the second spring of her career.
With the diversion of attention, Peng Yu gradually came out of the sadness of losing her husband, but when she was not filming, she was always lonely, although she had her daughter to take care of her, but she could not always do everything.
Five years after her father's death, Zhao Jiaqi thought of finding another wife for her mother who knew cold and hot, and she had been secretly choosing.
Later, she happened to meet her uncle to go to Harbin for a meeting, so she typed the "idea" of her uncle Chen Jiurong.
Chen Jiurong is Zhao Jiaqi's uncle, the president of the university, a well-known expert in brain surgery at home and abroad, and he has been single since the death of his aunt.
Just in time, Zhao Jiaqi felt that her uncle should also find a companion, so she told her uncle her thoughts, and then she told her mother.
In this way, the two old men who had lost their wives began to "date" frequently, and naturally got together and put on their wedding dresses again and walked into the wedding hall.
There are many people who can't understand what is the psychology of the daughter as a matchmaker and the old mother and the uncle to remarry, in fact, this matter does not need to be understood by others, as long as the children of the two elderly people can understand, as long as they support, they live together happily and happily.
Now this family has been close to each other, and after more than twenty years, the children of the two remarried old people have long changed the titles of "aunt" and "uncle" into "mother" and "father", and the family is harmonious and harmonious.
Family
Zhao Jiaqi said that a woman's proudest wealth is happiness.
Zhao Jiaqi is happy, and she certainly has the capital to be proud.
Because since she was a child, she had parents who loved her, and when she grew up, she met Mr. Meng, who hurt her all her life, and gave birth to a son who was intimate and contentious, not only did not let her worry about anything, but also relied on her own efforts to spell out her own world in her career and became her pride.
As a daughter, Zhao Jiaqi has been filial throughout her life, and she has given up her hobby of music to take care of her mother and engaged in acting work; as a woman, she can understand her mother's loneliness.
After her father's death, she brokered her mother to remarry her equally widowed uncle and become a companion for the rest of their lives.
For her, there is no need for others to understand, as long as the family is healthy and happy, the family together and the united beauty is the happiest thing.
There is a saying on the Internet that the most advanced show of wealth is a family harmony, and it is deeply believed that the family is the harbor of everyone's soul, and love is the soul of the family.
Zhao Jiaqi filial piety to her parents, teach her children, respect and love each other, and love her husband, love her all her life, and live as an example for her son while she is proud of her son.
Finally, share a sentence of what Teacher Zhou Guoping said, and encourage Jun, may you also be loyal to yourself.
Happiness is not to live like others, but to be able to live according to one's own heart.
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