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Some time ago, Yan Yikuan in "My Little Two Mouths" was complained by netizens that he did not take responsibility.
His wife Du Ruoxi took care of the family's affairs, and Yan Yikuan was the treasurer.
There is a scene in the show that makes everyone feel that he has "turned back":
Yan Yikuan, who has always been indifferent to family affairs, after seeing the child's ear being swollen by mosquito bites, accused his family of not looking after the child and threatened to eliminate all mosquitoes at night.
As a result, he only lasted 15 minutes, and then he lay down next to the child and fell asleep, leaving the child alone to dangle next to him.
Bragging, no responsibility, the wedding is only responsible for the scene, at home to do the hand-shaking treasurer, this is the netizens' summary of Yan Yikuan's performance, but also the true portrayal of many men in reality, no exaggeration!
Zhang Xiaoxian once said, don't just love a good person, don't just love an excellent man, don't just love a talented man, please love a man with responsibility.
A responsible man may not say meaty love words, will not give you romance and surprises, but he will never let his wife face the difficulties and confusion in life alone.
Li Jing in the movie "Nezha's Devil Boy Descending" is a man with flesh and blood who is willing to take on the responsibility!
In order to help Nezha grow up smoothly, he did not hesitate to exchange his life for his life, and used his mortal body to block the Heavenly Curse.
A responsible father, no matter how small the contribution is, is also a hero, because his existence is a reliable mountain.
The mother is in a good mood, and the child smiles warmly
A family is either ruined by men without responsibility, or ruined by women without good emotions!
Good mood mom, determine the happiness and temperature of a home, she laughs, home is spring!
A few days ago a news:
Because the 7-year-old daughter had poor eating habits, her mother called the child to the bedroom for reprimand and scolding, resulting in multiple bruises on the child's body and ineffective rescue.
This tragedy occurred because the mother did not control her emotions.
Tony's stationary face experiment, a psychology professor at the University of Manchester, is a psychological experiment that has caused a sensation around the world.
At the beginning, the mother interacts normally with the child, and the mother's eyes, language and body actively respond to all the behaviors of the baby, and the baby behaves very happily and happily.
Later, my mother changed her expressionless, unresponsive face.
The child quickly noticed the change and began to find ways to get his mother's attention, but no matter what he did, the mother remained expressionless.
Finally, the child broke down into tears.
This experiment shows that children are particularly sensitive to their mother's emotions.
Whether the mother is happy or not, the child can always feel it at the first time.
The Woman Who Ran with wolves says:
For most adults, even if they have had a problem with their mother only once in their lifetime, there will be a "copy of the mother" in their minds who speak, behave, and react exactly as they did in childhood.
The mother will not control the emotions, and the child will grow up to reproduce the appearance of the mother, and there is no ability to manage his emotions.
The mother's good mood creates the child's good character.
The mother controls her emotions, gives the family a peace, and gives the child a protection.
The root of Mom's good mood lies in Dad's responsibility.
There is a responsible father in the family, and the mother must be in a good mood and have a sense of security.
But if the mother's efforts are not cherished and understood, the mother's mood will naturally not improve.
I've seen a news:
The woman was lying outside the window on the 11th floor trying to take her own life. She cried that she was a full-time mother, the child was 16 months old and would only call her father, she was blamed by her husband for not teaching children, and during the quarrel, her husband came up and hit her with an IPAD, and her mouth was bleeding.
At this time, the woman's husband coaxed the child to sleep on the side, and did not care about the wife's excessive behavior.
With such a husband, as a woman, how can you not be cold?
Many mothers, who did not shrink back from the October pregnancy and the birth of a child, nor were they overwhelmed by the hard work of bringing a child, but they would have an emotional collapse in the absence of responsibility and understanding of their husbands.
In "Mother is Superman", Hu Ke confided that he wanted to be a mother and take care of his work, but Sha Yi said with a blank face: "I didn't give you so much pressure!" ”
Hu Ke choked up and retorted:
"This thing itself is not hard at all, the hardest thing is your attitude."
The father's understanding and active sharing, the mother's good mood is causal!
Men are honestly the pillar of the family, the day of the family, and the responsibility is great!
There is a responsible father,
There will be one more mother who is out of control,
Eventually it will raise a sensitive and timid child.
For children, the best family education is not how much the parents have achieved and how many material resources are provided to the children, but the father has responsibility, the mother has a good mood, and the interaction between the two is the best family style.
Finally, a word to everyone: home and everything! Everyone has "Mr. Good"!