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I remember watching the "Legend of the Paladin Sword" when I was a child, Yukimi and Sedum met because of a "fixed love jade pendant", and gradually fell in love on the way to fight against the evil sword fairy, although they never showed their hearts in the play.
But the audience can always be very keen to find the feelings of the two people, and the biggest driving role in this should be the two sides of each other's name: Yukimi called Sedum "bean sprouts", and Sedum called Yukimi "Pig Woman".
Different nicknames always can't hide the love in the hearts of two people, especially only the mutual title between men and women, which not only shows love, but also closes the distance.
Many people in the face of love, will unconsciously germinate a "sense of exclusivity", especially when each other has become a couple or couple, this "sense of exclusivity" will gradually transform into "possessiveness".
And the most obvious manifestation of this feeling is to give each other a "nickname of love". Of course, women will not be exceptions, and when they are moved by men, they will unconsciously give men nicknames to narrow the distance between each other.
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"Pig" in fact, there are many "straight men" will not understand this title, may also feel that this is to say that they are stupid, if there are men who think so, then you are very wrong. More often, this "pig" is meant to express a woman's love for you.
Think about it this way, in what situations do women call men "pigs":
The husband was cooking in the kitchen and accidentally burned the dish, and the wife not only did not get angry after seeing it, but also said with a smile: "Should you not be a pig?" Then looking at her husband's confused expression, he slowly walked over and hugged him, and then began to clean up.
The husband will be turned upside down when he puts on the quilt cover, and when he has not been able to get it right, he will call his wife to help, and the wife will look at the quilt on the bed and say loudly: "Haha, you pig", and then rearrange the quilt in the play between the two people.
I remember that her neighbor Xiao Ai often called her husband Chen Peng a pig. The two were college classmates who met because of club activities, and Chen Peng fell in love with Xiao Ai at first sight, and then launched a very enthusiastic pursuit.
Chen Peng would use red candles to confess to Xiao Ai in the shape of a heart downstairs in Xiao Ai's dormitory, but chen Peng did not calculate the weather that day, and a heavy rain poured out all the candles, but did not extinguish Chen Peng's feelings for Xiao Ai.
Chen Peng also once became famous because Xiao Ai accidentally fell from the stairs, and then "bravely broke into the girls' dormitory" and then broke into fame, and would also buy Xiao Ai her favorite milk tea for Xiao Ai by riding a bicycle for three kilometers, all of which was seen by Xiao Ai.
In addition to being moved, Xiao Ai will often say Chen Peng: "Are you a pig, willing to do so much for me." But Chen Peng always smiled and touched the back of his head.
It has been seven years since the two people fell in love and got married, but Xiao Ai still called Chen Peng a pig, which is not a pejorative meaning of Chen Peng, but a response to Chen Peng's love.
Every time Xiao Ai called Chen Peng "pig", the faces of the two people were full of happiness, and Chen Peng would also respond to Xiao Ai calling Xiao Ai a "fool".
These seemingly pejorative titles can better reflect the most sincere love. From acquaintance to love, from calling each other full names to giving each other titles, the distance between two people is slowly getting closer, and their feelings are gradually deepening.
These simple titles in life seem to be mutual ridicule, but in fact, they are a "small sweetness" in the relationship.
Even men and women who have not yet been together, women will not be an exception when they are impressed with men, and will naturally be intimate with the men they like, and this intimacy will also be reflected in her title for you.
The title of "dear" should be a more obvious emotional performance of women, after all, the title of "dear" has a certain sense of intimacy and directivity.
Not casual ordinary friends or confidants can be called:"Dear", and the vast majority of men who can be called this by women occupy a very important position in women's hearts.
After all, this nickname not only represents the love and heartbeat of men, but also a sense of dependence and the support of men's feelings.
When a woman can use this nickname very freely to the man she likes, it may be that she has strengthened her determination to go down with him, and then the woman's affection may not be so simple.
The nickname "husband" actually contains a lot of "certainty", what is "certainty"? In fact, it is a kind of determination of women to men, a certainty of this relationship, and a certainty of each other's future.
When a woman uses this title for a man, she is likely to have determined that the man in front of her will be the one who will be the one who will work with her for the rest of her life.
Because this title is not only a manifestation of love, but also a sense of commitment, a commitment to each other's love, the two people's love for each other gradually deepened in the gradual getting along.
Especially women's feelings, many will show a "positive growth trend" in each other's interactions, and for men who have moved their hearts, they will gradually magnify his advantages.
When women can call out this title very freely, it is also the time when women trust and rely on men the most.
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Of course, salutation is only a way to express feelings, but it does not reflect all the feelings of women for men, after all, the love expressed by salutations can also be pretended in many cases.
Want to know whether a woman is really touched by you, in fact, you can see the hint from the details, she will care about you when you are sick, will always think of you, which can be called heartbeat.
If you usually only have perfunctory and indifferent, then no matter how intimate the title may not help. Love is to be understood by oneself, and the true meaning can only be realized in the process of continuously getting along.