In life
We will meet all kinds of people
Someone is exquisite and beautiful and popular
Someone talks and behaves decently
There are social talents left and right
……
And most people look at themselves
But it is unremarkable, obscure and transparent
From time to time, she laughs and calls herself a delicate pig girl
Enjoy lying flat with peace of mind
But the psychology of lying flat
That doesn't change the status quo
To be different
Meet a better version of yourself
It has to change from now on
First, the image
Want to stay healthy and slim in shape
But he lost himself in the midst of all kinds of cuisine
Gradually, the management of self-image was lost
It's the norm for most of us
"Manage your body
Manage your own image
It's the first step in your life."
Because a person's appearance is innate
But the image is clean and refined
But it was nurtured
So don't let laziness dominate you
Read more and exercise more
Use knowledge to enhance your inner temperament
Create an external image with packaging
Take the first step in your life
Second, words and deeds
In the Analects
Confucius spoke many times about the theme of words and deeds
He advocated consistency between words and deeds, and prudent words and deeds
His disciple Zigong was a man of many words
Confucius then admonished Zigong
We must pay attention to what we preach, go first, and then speak later
And don't talk about it
Now there are many people like Zigong
Said but did not do
Or just lip service
There is no intention of putting it into action
Finally, it is dishonest to others
As a result, their integrity has fallen again and again
Therefore, we must always reflect on our words and deeds
Whether it is consistent or not, whether it is said or not
Or you can set specific goals
Let everything you do have small achievements
And give yourself a reward step by step
Third, emotions
Ancient Cloud:
Joy is not promised, mourning is silent
When angry, there is no dispute, when there is chaos, there is no decision, and when tired there is an end
Maintain a daily rhythm of life
It's not that hard
The hard part is to correct your emotions
If you don't quit your bad emotions
Life will not change
Don't fix your own emotional holes
It is difficult to achieve success in life
Always pay attention to your own joys and sorrows
Like what
Don't lose your temper over the trivialities of life
Don't excite speech for different ideas
Do not personally attack others for questioning
Strengthen the control and expression of emotions
Life will be smoother
Fourth, socialize
Mader famously said:
"Clean circles, generally small circles
There were not many people, three or five or even two or three
A circle of large numbers
Inevitably, it will be muddy."
The interpersonal interactions of contemporary college students
The way it manifests itself is varied
As the scope of interaction gradually expands
You might find it
Students with common interests or like-mindedness
You may also meet classmates who turn their faces to you like a face change
So there is no need to put everyone
Please come into your own lives
Put people who do not belong in their own lives
Please get out of your own circle
This is the beginning of a quiet life
5. Character
"Cai Gen Tan" has a saying:
"The King of Virtue and Talent, the Slave of Virtue"
Character is the master of talent
Talent is the slave of character
The greatest sorrow of being a human being is not that there is no money and no power
It's not a passing character
We are in a relationship or cooperation with people
His character will not be seen for a short time
But it has been seen for a long time
Be sincere with others
Give kindness and be grateful
Others will "repay Qiong Yao"
Be aware of your need to change your character
Find the benchmark of moral integrity
Adjust yourself against him
Let your character be sublimated
College life is like a small group life
Everyone can show their style
Dress up and dress yourself when you go out
Leave a good image for others
Think carefully about your words when talking to others
Speak roundly without offending others
Control your emotions and don't make a big fuss
Don't give your anger to your roommates and classmates
Kind character will be
Make yourself more comfortable in the group
Hope we can all
Later in life
Meet a better version of yourself
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Text | Xie Zihan
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Typography | Zhang Qilin
Edit | Zhang Lixiang