In January 2016, a young couple from Hubei Province entered the marriage hall in front of relatives and friends, but their union sparked heated discussions in the local area.
This is because the height difference between the couple is 85 centimeters, the bride Pan Lixuan is a "pocket man" who is only 90 centimeters, and the groom Ma Ruilin is only 5 feet 7 inches, so they are the cutest pair.
After marriage, Pan Lixuan, as a person with a lot of money, disregarded the doctor's persuasion and risked her life to give birth to a child for Ma Ruilin.
But during Pan Lixuan's pregnancy, the mother-in-law made a heart-wrenching request, even for the good of the young couple.
What brought them together? What makes them together and end up on the other side of happiness? What makes them good friends, good brothers? What force drove them down an extraordinary path? What makes Pan Take such a big risk?
The girl without love, only 90, met her "Prince Charming"
When she was a child, due to her parents' busy business and often outside, she could not take care of her, and Pan Lixuan was often locked at home and played alone.
Due to the absence of her parents, some of Pan's physical changes did not immediately attract attention.
Over time, it was found that her legs had been deformed, and her height had not been high, remaining at 90cm.
Seeing her like this, her parents did not treat her, because one of the brothers in the family was sick, and the medical expenses were given to him, and by the time she passed the best treatment period, it was too late.
Pan Lixuan talked about the misfortune of her original family more than once in the show, saying that when she grew up, her parents did not care much about her, even if she wanted to get married and have children.
But she was a strong girl, and the more her family ignored her, the stronger she became and began to connect with the outside world through the Internet.
After some efforts, she also became a group leader, often infecting the disabled with her songs, and over time, more and more people knew her, and she used her songs to support herself.
They saw a positive outlook on life in her, and it was this group leader who led her to meet her current husband, Marelin, in the future.
Speaking of her husband, Marelin, he was actually a sane man, but an accident had rendered him incapacitated.
In 2012, Ma Ruilin and her father worked in Qinghai, where they worked on a kiln, which was actually a hard job.
He and his father went to work at the construction site that day, and while they were working, his father looked back and saw that the walls of the kiln had suddenly begun to bend and were about to collapse.
He screamed and told Marrylin to run, but his father had no time to come out and was buried in the ground forever.
Marelin, on the other hand, saved his life, but because the kiln was so hot that when the walls collapsed, everything that weighed on him was hot, so his back and legs were basically burned extensively.
After this pain, Marilyn is actually very decadent, and his father's death makes him feel extremely remorseful, that is, when he met Pan Lixuan.
Pan Lixuan created the group to encourage the disabled, and Marelin accidentally joined the group and volunteered to serve as a group administrator.
Because he often uploaded basketball videos in the group, which made Pan Lixuan feel very sunny, the hearts of the two young people slowly drew closer, and soon established a romantic relationship.
But the early days of their relationship did not go smoothly, and Pan Lixuan's height and physical condition were not approved by Marilyn's mother.
But she was a good person after all, and she nodded to see her son like her so much, to see that his father's unexpected death had changed his life with the girl.
So in 2016, they walked the red carpet, and although they walked and walked, their eyes were strange, but they didn't care, on the contrary, they lived a very ordinary and happy life, and soon ushered in the fruits of love.
Difficulties in having children after marriage
Because of Pan Lixuan's physical condition, in fact, for this pregnancy and delivery, it was not smooth sailing.
At first, Pan Lixuan was uncomfortable because of the appendix, and when she arrived at the hospital, this examination found the existence of the child, but at this time she was both worried and happy.
Worryingly, she was also diagnosed with a recurrence of an appendix abscess and needed an anti-inflammatory needle because she was pregnant.
But having a child in her belly makes it impossible for her to decide whether to inject or not, and if she doesn't, her life could be at risk and the child could be reinfected.
She's in terrible physical condition, she can't stand the cold, she can't stand the cold, she can't eat anything, it's really troublesome.
But when she heard the news, she congratulated Marelin and discussed what to do.
But what also touched her was that when she was pregnant, there was a very good mother-in-law who took care of her and was very attentive.
But Pan Lixuan's mother learned of this news and did not agree to leave the child, after all, mother and daughter are connected, even if she said that her biological mother is not good, her mother still loves her.
For the sake of her daughter's health, she persuaded Marelin not to put her daughter in danger and asked Pan Lixuan to miscarry.
In fact, combined with the doctor's advice, she herself was sick, and the child she gave birth to was also in danger, and even if the child was born, they would be shocked if something happened.
But Pan Lixuan was born strong, in order to protect her child, she chose to give birth to her own child, which may be her only chance to become a mother, or it may be her instinct to become a mother.
Looking back at the festival, the 7-month-pregnant actress was in a good mood and chatted with the host.
But the belly is the size of a watermelon, especially for a pocket person like her, as the baby grows, doctors recommend not to have a baby in the first trimester, because adults can be life-threatening at any time.
But Pan Lixuan has always wanted to give birth to this child, which is her and her husband's child, a gift from Heaven.
As a mother, she couldn't kill her own children, so she chose to keep them.
It wasn't until the 35th week of pregnancy that doctors said the baby showed signs of premature birth, but she endured the pain and held the baby until the 38th week, hoping to give birth healthily.
Finally, she couldn't hold on, and doctors began an emergency caesarean section.
The child had grown to 5 kilograms, 6 pounds and 2 inches, squeezing her out of her internal organs, and if she continued like this, the adult's life would be in danger.
She gave birth to a very healthy little boy with the help of a doctor, and the birth of the baby made her life complete.
Because she was too fragile to be in general anesthesia, she chose semi-anesthesia, and because of her small body, the doctor could only cut the caesarean section vertically.
In a later interview, she said it was so to the point that it made her cry bitterly, but when the child was born, she was happy, and it was all worth it.
But life is always boring, and in the face of these twists and turns, they cannot escape the world.
Life is hard, but you can't resist the love of life
From pregnancy to childbirth, Pan Lixuan's small body endured so much pain that when she lay on the operating table, she could only say that there was a strength supporting her.
Today's Pan Lixuan, children have grown up, but they face a big problem, that is, survival.
Pan Lixuan is a disabled person who relied on singing before marriage to make a living, but after having children after marriage, she paid more attention to her children and returned to her family.
Her husband, Marelin, was badly affected by burns, and in the past he could have worked hard, but now he had almost no income because of burns.
As they get older, the pressure on their lives is also increasing.
Seeing that the family was cornered, Pan Lixuan also began to think of a way.
With the help of Caring Company, she also started a micro-business whose proceeds helped her maintain her family expenses.
When the host asked about her monthly income in an interview, she said it was like $40,000 or $50,000.
She speaks with confidence and pride because she has proven her worth, she is able to maintain the stability of the family in her own strength, and she is not someone who her own biological parents consider unworkable and drag down the family.
Thank you, Mom
Early in the show, Pan thanked her mother-in-law for the important role she played in the show, from her relationship with Marilyn to getting married and having children.
At first, Marelin's mother found out and was very opposed.
But in order to please her son, she had to obey.
Gradually, after coming into contact with this girl, she also gradually fell in love with this daughter-in-law, because she was sunny and cheerful, she could be very good to her son, she treated her like her own daughter, from pregnancy to childbirth, she participated in the whole process, and took good care of Pan Lixuan.
Because of her health, Pan Lixuan can't eat a lot, is very sensitive, and is also very picky, but her mother-in-law does not bother her, but changes her taste every day, and even a bite is very happy.
For Pan Lixuan's biological mother no matter what, the mother-in-law said that she loved her very much, such a mother-in-law relationship, but also let Pan Lixuan very happy, she also regarded the mother-in-law as a real mother, crying that she did not understand before, she and her husband will be filial to the mother-in-law.
At the end of the performance, she sang "Wish You Peace", thanked her mother-in-law, she was lucky to meet her mother-in-law, and also wished her good health, and wished all the good people who helped her, a peaceful life, and a better tomorrow.
In 2022, the family is also very happy, the child has gone to kindergarten, the couple is busy with micro-business every day, the mother-in-law is also helping to take care of the family, the little life is getting better and better, the mother does not feel that she is worthless as before, and the life is getting better and better.
She also uses her own hands to help more disabled people like her live a better life through caring enterprises.