Evenly matched is a view of marriage that many people recognize.
In addition to ability, there are also appearance and figure, and if anyone breaks the convention, it will often cause people to talk about it.
In 2016, the wedding of a small couple in Hubei Province caused many people to watch.
The wife is a 90 cm "pocket woman", the husband is 1 meter 75, the difference of 85 cm love, will there really be results?
Many people feel suspended, but they use the results and give a beautiful answer.
Poor height, difficult to stop love
This "pocket girl" is named Pan Lixuan, and when she was in elementary school, she found that she grew very slowly.
Peers are more than one meter and two meters tall, she is less than 90 centimeters, which makes Pan Lixuan very distressed, but because her brother is ill, her parents' attention is on her brother, and when she finds that her daughter's height is a problem, she has missed the best treatment period.
Pan Lixuan's personality is optimistic, she insisted on reading until junior high school, she gave up reading, because of her height, she walked slowly, the results of physical education class are naturally difficult to meet the standard, and because of her height, it also caused many classmates to ridicule, making her feel stressed.
After returning home, she did not complain about herself, but paid attention to the information of the disabled, and formed a group, often comforting people whose fate had been frustrated.
Many people admired her and felt that the owner of the group was a girl with a temperature, including Marelin.
Marelin was originally a sunshine boy, tricked by fate, when he was working with his father, the wall of the brick kiln suddenly collapsed, his father pushed him out, but he could not come out, making Ma Ruilin feel guilty and depressed for a long time.
In addition, because of the high temperature of the brick kiln, he was burned on his back and face, and his body was also inferior after recovering, and he was reluctant to go out of the house.
Joining Pan Lixuan's group, he opened a window for him, he felt that chatting with Pan Lixuan could feel full of energy, driven by the other party, Ma Ruilin also took the initiative to apply to be an administrator, wanting to pass on this positive energy.
After a long period of contact, the two young people have a spark of love in their hearts, they walked from online to offline, Pan Lixuan although small, but Ma Ruilin saw her beauty.
Ma Ruilin looked strange because of the burns, but Pan Lixuan saw his loyalty and honesty.
After contact, both of them firmly believed that they wanted to go down together.
Whether you want children or not, the power of maternal love is strong
At first, Marilyn's mother disagreed, and although her son was injured, he was also a seven-foot boy and was fully capable of marrying a girl of normal height.
But Marelin persuaded her mother: "Mom, the lover I am looking for is to accompany me for a lifetime, if you love me, accept the person I like." ”
Unable to help the son, the mother agreed to the marriage of the two, and over there, Pan Lixuan's parents also disagreed, the daughter was petite, they were worried about being bullied after marriage, and they did not have the ability to fight back.
It was also Ma Ruilin who gave the promise, so that Pan Lixuan's parents promised to give their daughter to him, when the two got married, the nearby villagers came to see, the bride was very beautiful, but the height difference also made people feel fresh, many people were worried about Pan Lixuan's future, whether they could get the kindness of their husbands.
After the two got married, life was as happy as other small couples, Pan Lixuan's mouth was sweet, her personality was good, she always made her mother-in-law laugh, and her mother-in-law gradually liked this daughter-in-law, took care of housework, and would also cook pan Lixuan's favorite meals.
It is the warmth of the family that makes Pan Lixuan very entangled in her heart after learning that she is pregnant, under normal circumstances, she is not suitable for pregnancy, there may be genetic risks, and she is small, and the development of the fetus is easy for her to bear.
But she longed to be a mother, there was a crystallization of love, in the face of her mother's persuasion, she thought for a long time, or decided to give birth to a child.
She knew she was taking the risk, but for a hope, she felt that no matter how hard she worked, it was worth it.
Under the careful care of her mother-in-law, Pan Lixuan's physical state is stable, and when she was 7 months pregnant, she also went to participate in a program, netizens saw that her stomach was very large, she needed to be supported when she walked, but her face was full of happiness, really a small energy, which may also be the power of maternal love.
She had been going for a maternity check-up, and at the 35th week of pregnancy, doctors recommended that she have a cesarean section, and the fetus has developed so much that her internal organs are squeezed out of place.
After the birth of the child, five pounds and six two, is a healthy little boy, Marilyn cried, Pan Lixuan laughed.
Those who work hard deserve to be blessed
After having children, Pan Lixuan did not work as a full-time mother at home, but worked hard and wanted to give her children a good future.
She tried to make videos, show her life to everyone, and tried to bring goods, because she had a lively personality, was good at communication, won the trust of many people, and had good sales results.
In one show, the host asked her how much she earned a month, and Pan Lixuan replied: "Forty or fifty thousand." ”
Really excellent, I believe that most people of normal height earn more, but also enough to show that as long as people do not give up their efforts, there will be infinite possibilities.
And their marriage is also very happy, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious, there is a mother-in-law to help take care of the children, the husband is around to support, Pan Lixuan is very confident, so that the career is getting better and better.
In life, "pocket people" are not unique, some of them are congenital lack of a growth hormone, some are caused by acquired diseases, it seems that they are as tall as kindergarten children, in fact, the mind is mature, but also fully capable of starting a family.
Most of the time, "pocket people" will find people of similar height to start a family, and then go to work together, the income can be completely self-sufficient, most of them will choose not to have children, worried that the health of children will be affected.
From this point of view, Pan Lixuan is a brave girl, not only found a person of normal height to marry, but also had a healthy child, the child is held in the arms of the grandmother, the height is no different from the normal child.
Today's Pan Lixuan, her career is also slowly stable, she is busy at the same time, will also find time to accompany children to play, children go to kindergarten, she will also go to pick up, feel the joy of children's growth.
There is no fixed pattern in life, God closes a door for you, and will open a window for you.
When encountering anything, you must have the courage not to give up, you must know that the fate is in your own hands, as long as you have confidence, you will also attract people from the same channel to come around and open up the happiness of life.
Give it a thumbs up and go! Those who work hard deserve our blessings!