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"Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans." It is said that parents love their children, so they must think more about their children.
Capable parents, in addition to caring about their children's education, are trying to pave the way for their children's future.
An example must be mentioned here.
A few years ago, a city girl on the variety show "Metamorphosis" had extremely poor learning, but she was maverick and only loved art, and her parents unconditionally supported her.
Finally, the girl went to a top professional school abroad, and opened a studio with the support of her parents to concentrate on painting. Although she may not be able to sell a painting in a month, she has been able to "not have to run for a few pieces of silver" and can happily do what she likes to do.
This is very envious of ordinary people, who does not want their children to have the freedom to "be themselves"?
So many parents feel that if I can fight for a few houses in advance, my children will not have to worry about buying a house in the future, and the vacant house can also be used to collect rent, even if the child can't find a job after graduation, he can also cope with it calmly. How nice!
There are also parents who have already sat in several apartments, and they are somewhat relieved in their hearts, feeling that they have saved up the "family business" for their children, and they can also breathe a sigh of relief.
Is this really the case? Here is the story of a descendant of a fallen nobleman of the Republic of China, and it may make people sober up a lot after listening to it.
Noble women in the decline of the Republic of China: patrons are short, and finally have to borrow money to survive
This woman's ancestors are a famous family, although the family is in the middle of the road, but still left her several villas, which also have high-end furniture, treasures and antiques.
In that era, the net worth of owning a villa was not high. It is reasonable to say that how much can a woman spend, these villas are enough for her to spend a lifetime.
She thought the same thing, but she didn't expect that the world would be unpredictable. In her later years, she not only lived in poverty, but even needed to live in debt.
Why?
She did not expect that although the villa was her strength, it was also one of the biggest expenses for her.
Because the house will become old, if you want to ensure the value, you need to maintain it. Maintenance costs money. The larger the villa, the higher the cost of maintenance.
Because she had no source of income, she had to sell one of the villas in order to maintain the other. Because the villa is old, it can only be sold cheaply. In addition to paying for maintenance materials and labor costs, the rest of the money she spent less than a month was gone.
In addition, although the family is in the middle of the road, the luxurious lifestyle she has cultivated since childhood has not changed. She had nannies at home, and there were two of them. Everything she needs to be taken care of by a nanny.
In addition, she also has to drink afternoon tea and attend a dinner party. Usually, I also go to the theater to see plays. To participate in these social events, it is natural to wear the most beautiful clothes, and it is not always the same.
These "exquisite" lifestyles eventually made her sit and eat the mountains. The house was sold, the antiques were taken for fun, and in the end she had to live on debt.
It can be seen from this that even if you leave your children with a rich family foundation (whether it is real estate or funds). If children do not have enough wisdom, they will still be defeated.
Family property does not support the future of children.
So as a parent, what is the most reliable thing to leave for your children? It also has to be ability.
Cognitive enhancement, awareness of crisis, and the ability to iterate itself in response to changes in the times. Otherwise, even if you have a million family properties, you will eventually be exhausted due to force majeure such as changes in the times and natural disasters.
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