A woman who is brave enough to pursue her dreams
Xu Jinglei was born into a typical medical family and showed extraordinary talent. At a young age, she was nurtured by her parents to be proficient in Latin and music, and by the time she reached adulthood, she was a learned and talented woman.
The family thought that she would take over the family's medical career and become a distinguished doctor, just like other peers.
However, Xu Jinglei's deep dreams are very different from her family's expectations. She has loved watching movies and listening to music since she was a child, and she is full of endless yearning for her acting career.
Whenever she witnesses the superb performances of the actors on the screen, she is always immersed in endless imagination, looking forward to the day when she can stand in the center of the stage and display all her talents.
Xu Jinglei, who used to work in an advertising agency, often enjoys the dramas rehearsed by her colleagues in addition to her busy work. Looking at the wonderful performances on and off the stage, she felt an unprecedented passion and desire in her heart.
After careful consideration, Xu Jinglei resolutely decided to quit her current stable job and devote herself to her dream film and television career. Although the road ahead was long and tortuous, she remained steadfast and bravely embarked on a new journey in life.
When Xu Jinglei finally stood on the new stage of her life, her eyes flashed with confidence and eager yearning for the future. She understands that the road will be challenging, but she also believes that if you keep going, your dreams will come true!
Part B: The reward of hard work
After devoting herself to the film and television industry, Xu Jinglei began a long and arduous road of struggle. As an inexperienced newcomer, she learns acting skills from the basics, honing her lines and understanding the role over and over the course of countless days and nights.
Her hard work quickly paid off. In 1998, Xu Jinglei's outstanding performance in the movie "Farewell My Concubine" won warm applause from the audience, successfully broke through the encirclement, and won the reputation of "the first talented woman".
When she held this honor in her hand, she was thrilled in her heart, as if she had completed an important transformation in her life overnight.
Ms. Xu Jinglei has gone from obscurity to dazzling stardom step by step, and she has used her strength and talent to show the world her extraordinary talent! Her success has injected endless courage and hope into those who are full of dreams but are trapped in prison, that is, as long as you dare to put in the hard and long effort, one day, you will make your dreams come true.
Over the next few years, Ms. Xu Jinglei created many unforgettable characters, and her name began to be widely known in the film and television industry. However, she was not satisfied with this, but worked harder to improve her acting skills, seeking greater breakthroughs in every challenge.
It is with this perseverance that Ms. Xu Jinglei's career is booming and has reached unprecedented heights. Until 2010, she broke new glory and became the first Chinese mainland actress to win the "Golden Rooster Award".
This is undoubtedly the highest praise and recognition for her excellent acting skills.
When Ms. Xu Jinglei held this coveted honor in her hands, tears welled up in her eyes. Her heart is filled with endless joy, but at the same time, she feels a strong belief in her dreams and an ardent expectation for a more ambitious future.
She understands that this is just a new starting point to the pinnacle of life, and there are many more wonderful things waiting for her to pursue and achieve in the future.
3. Bravely cross borders and achieve self-sublimation
Although her career has reached its peak, Ms. Xu Jinglei still has a thirst for knowledge burning deep in her heart. She is never satisfied with the status quo, and always expects to break through and surpass herself.
When Ms. Xu Jinglei was 30 years old, she made a jaw-dropping decision - she took the initiative to give up the halo of a first-line star, resolutely returned to school, and rededicated herself to the study of professional knowledge.
At the time, many people questioned her choice, believing that she was already at the pinnacle of her career and that such a risky move was too bold.
However, Ms. Xu Jinglei is steadfast in her decision. On the one hand, she devotes herself to the study of academic knowledge, and on the other hand, she actively participates in various activities and practices inside and outside the school, and strives to achieve the sublimation of self-worth.
This decision not only enabled Ms. Xu Jinglei to make new progress in academic theory, but more importantly, it broadened her horizons of life and the world, and enabled her to have a deeper understanding of life.
Xu Jinglei often emphasizes in public interviews that re-devoting herself to academic research is an important way for her to carry out her personal practice, so that she can have a quiet space to think deeply about various topics in life, to appreciate the beauty of life, and to pursue the peace of mind.
This concept deeply touched and inspired countless fans who follow her, and one of them said in an interview: "When I saw that our idols were able to challenge themselves so bravely and always maintain their thirst for knowledge, I deeply realized that even if they have achieved quite good results, they must not stop moving forward, and only by moving forward bravely can they truly realize their self-worth."
There is no doubt that it is precisely because of this insatiable enterprising spirit that Xu Jinglei can shine with a unique brilliance at all stages of life. She knows very well that as an actor, if she stagnates, she will be drowned by the torrent of the times.
Therefore, only by keeping up with the pace of the times and constantly absorbing new knowledge can we always maintain our youthful vitality in this rapidly changing world.
Fourth, although the emotional road is tortuous, it still remains real
In terms of emotional life, Xu Jinglei's experience can be described as magnificent and full of ups and downs. She once fell in love with the well-known director Feng Xiaogang for several years, and the relationship between the two initially received widespread attention and blessings from all walks of life, and was known as a pair of "made in heaven".
At that time, Feng Xiaogang, who was a leader in the industry, praised Xu Jinglei, a talented actor. The two met by chance and quickly sparked a spark of love.
In the years that followed, their romance gradually spread through the streets and became the center of attention.
At the same time, Feng Xiaogang also gave everything he had and went all out to support Xu Jinglei's acting career. Whenever she releases a new work, he will always travel thousands of miles to the theater to give the warmest applause and encouragement.
The relationship between them seems to have reached a perfect fit, solid and stable.
However, regarding the specific reason for the breakup, Xu Jinglei never revealed too much, but said indifferently: "The emotional thing is really indescribable. Every time she was asked about the topic of the relationship, she was always careful to phrase it, and although she appeared calm on the surface, the pain inside was obvious.
Despite the regret of experiencing this "bumpy love road", Xu Jinglei still faces life bravely with an extremely strong will, showing the unique tenacity and independence of single women.
She often emphasizes in interviews that everyone should learn to face life independently, live the life they truly love, and never be swayed by the eyes of others.
Such an independent and free outlook on life is undoubtedly one of her most cherished personal traits.
Fifth, to win the industry's praise for outstanding strength
With her outstanding acting talent and courage to challenge herself, Xu Jinglei has repeatedly won the recognition of the industry's top awards, and her career development has climbed to a new peak.
Looking back on her acting career, from winning the reputation of "the first talented woman" in the movie "Farewell My Concubine", to later winning the first mainland actress to win the "Golden Rooster Award", every stage of achievement is extremely precious to Xu Jinglei.
These accolades are a testament to the fruits of her hard work and a supreme tribute to her talent.
However, for Xu Jinglei, these award-winning records are by no means the ultimate goal of her career, but have become a new inspiration and a driving force for progress. "Every time I win an award, it's a new starting point for me.
She often motivates herself with these words.
Xu Jinglei is never complacent about winning awards. On the contrary, whenever she achieves excellent results, she always calms down and thinks deeply about what she still needs to improve. It is this never-ending learner mentality that enables her to maintain the excellent qualities of humility, prudence, diligence and self-discipline even when her career has reached its peak.
For Xu Jinglei, achievement is just to spur herself to make continuous progress and stick to her original intention. She would rather choose to live a simple life and examine herself with an introspective eye than indulge in the bustling spotlight, bound by fame and fortune and forget her original dreams and pursuits.
This peaceful and humble attitude towards life, the unity of knowledge and action, may be the key factor for Xu Jinglei to win wide recognition in the industry. A director who worked with her once spoke highly of her: "The reason why Jinglei was able to maintain humility at the peak of her career is because she has a unique wisdom in life deep down - she is not disturbed by the outside world and always focuses on self-improvement."
This inner quality is precisely what attracts her the most.
6. Cherish the present and remember the original intention
When we look at Xu Jinglei's wonderful life journey, she always adheres to a sincere and fearless attitude towards life. When he was young and frivolous, he decisively gave up a stable and comfortable living environment, moved forward bravely, and pursued the ideal in his heart.
Even if she suffers setbacks in her emotional life, she can still calmly deal with her firm belief in the concept of "dreaming, brave trying, quiet contentment", which is deeply imprinted in every corner of her life.
In her youth, Xu Jinglei resigned from her stable job in an advertising company without hesitation, and resolutely devoted herself to the film and television industry that she was fascinated by. Despite the twists and turns of the road ahead, she never retreated, but moved forward bravely with unwavering steps.
With the steady development of her career, Xu Jinglei was not satisfied with the status quo. At the age of thirty, she took the initiative to put down the glory of A-list star, returned to school, and plunged into the ocean of knowledge again. In the face of all kinds of doubts from the outside world, she was not afraid, but worked harder to study knowledge, and realized the improvement of self-worth on various stages inside and outside the school.
Even when her love life encounters twists and turns, Xu Jinglei can still face the world bravely with an independent and tenacious attitude. She has never lost faith in love, but with a more positive attitude, cherishes the present moment and loves life.
It is precisely because of this persistence in "dreaming, trying, and being content" that Xu Jinglei can achieve such an extraordinary life. From the initial brave pursuit of dreams, to the later persistent pursuit, she has given a new meaning and value to life.
"Everyone's life should be in charge of themselves, and the key is to live their true selves." These are the words that Xu Jinglei often hangs on her lips. She perfectly interprets the profound connotation of this sentence with practical actions - dare to pursue the deep desires of the heart and never give up; Have the courage to break through oneself and realize the sublimation of life; Even in the face of setbacks, he still has a positive attitude towards life and endless courage.
There is no doubt that Xu Jinglei has demonstrated the noble quality of "always dreaming and being down-to-earth" through her own unique life experience. As a result, her life transcends the ordinary, exuding a unique light and charm.