Before reading this article, I sincerely invite you to click the "Follow" button, so that you can continue to push such articles in the future, and it is also convenient for you to discuss and share, your support is the driving force for us to insist on creating~
Text: March talks about history
Edit|March says history
Preface
Xu Jinglei, a woman with a legendary background, has been bumpy on the emotional road from being militarized by her father in childhood to becoming a "talented woman in the Beijing circle". The lack of father's love and love experience are intertwined into a blurry picture, how does she face her father's expectations and her own inner struggle?
From pursuing love to escaping marriage, what kind of mood did she choose? Is it the pursuit of true love, or the end of the shadow of childhood? Can Xu Jinglei's emotional world find a true home?
Xu Jinglei's rebellious life: gray childhood and parents' marriage urging
Imagine a little girl, who has been militarized and managed by her father since she was a child, and has hardly enjoyed the warmth of her father's love, and her mother is always too busy to take care of herself, and her parents often quarrel with each other. This is Xu Jinglei's childhood, which can be described in one word - "miserable".
Her father, a technician, was extremely strict with her education, and everything was planned step by step. Wake up time, study time, and eating habits are all strictly controlled by my father. If you are not careful, you will be scolded and corporal punishment by your father.
And her mother often expressed her resentment towards Xu Jinglei, which made her feel extremely confused and helpless. Every time she heard her mother sigh "If it weren't for you, I would have divorced your father a long time ago", Xu Jinglei's heart was full of questions and helplessness.
In addition to the repression of the family environment, her father also tried his best to cultivate Xu Jinglei's talents, requiring her to be proficient in painting, calligraphy, poetry and so on. Although she excels in various talents, the fire of rebellion in her heart is slowly burning.
As time passed, Xu Jinglei grew up, and when she entered college, she began to show resistance to her father's restraints. Skipping classes, surfing the Internet, and playing rock 'n' roll, all in order to get rid of her father's control over her.
And in her love life, she is not to be outdone, and she has not broken off her boyfriend since she was 17 years old. Her rebellion and insecurity stemmed partly from the repression of her family in her childhood, but also partly from the desire for love and the fear of marriage.
Her father's urging to marry bothered her even more, although she had many boyfriends, she always adhered to the principle of "only falling in love, not getting married". Even if you meet someone you love, you don't want to step into the trap of marriage.
Xu Jinglei's parents have always been worried about her marital problems. Especially the father, who is very anxious about his daughter's marriage, will knock on the side from time to time.
But Xu Jinglei has always had reservations about marriage, and she feels that happiness has nothing to do with a marriage contract. Such an answer made the parents feel extremely disappointed, and they always hoped that their daughter would find a warm family.
The father even directly expressed his expectations for his daughter's marriage on the show, hoping that she would be able to start a family as soon as possible. But Xu Jinglei's insistence made him extremely annoyed, he realized his mistake, but it was irreparable.
Today, Xu Jinglei is already a successful actress, with a successful career and a relatively stable love life. But she has never been able to get rid of the shadow of her childhood and has reservations about marriage.
His father's apology was too late, and although he regretted it a lot, the scar in Xu Jinglei's heart could not heal. She chose not to get married, not because she didn't believe in love, but because she was afraid of being hurt again.
Xu Jinglei's rebellious life originated from a gray childhood, and it became more and more confusing due to the urging of her parents to marry. Perhaps, only she can understand this complex emotion, and only she can give herself the answer.
"Xu Jinglei's emotional history: from teacher-student love to scandal, the biggest boss in the entertainment industry!"
Xu Jinglei, this name can be described as a legend in the entertainment industry. She is not only a talented woman, but also a goddess with rich emotional experience.
First of all, I have to talk about the relationship between Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo. This is a vigorous teacher-student love! When Xu Jinglei was still at Nortel, she sparked a spark with Wang Shuo, a bigwig in the literary world. The relationship between the two was the focus of the media for a while, although they did not come together in the end, but the impact of this emotional journey on Xu Jinglei was far-reaching.
Let's talk about the scandal between Xu Jinglei and Huang Jue. Huang Jue, an unruly musician, and Xu Jinglei's love story once made countless people envious. However, the good times did not last long, and the relationship between the two did not come to the end in the end.
Finally, we have to mention Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing's long-distance running love. This relationship can be described as a clear stream in Xu Jinglei's love life.
The two have been together for more than ten years and have never chosen the form of marriage, but this relationship is stable and long-lasting. Xu Jinglei insists that love does not need the constraints of marriage, which also makes her more independent and strong emotionally.
Xu Jinglei's love life, like her films, is full of drama and depth. Each of her relationships is like a wonderful movie, which is endlessly evocative. Although there have been ups and downs, Xu Jinglei has always maintained her own style and attitude, which has also made her a unique existence in the entertainment industry.
"Xu Jinglei: Egg freezing surrogacy shocks China!"
Xu Jinglei, known as a talented woman, talked about her views on egg freezing and surrogacy in a show. This was originally a personal choice, but after Zheng Shuang's surrogacy and abandonment incident, Xu Jinglei's remarks became the focus of heated discussions again, just like being turned over old accounts.
Xu Jinglei's attitude in the show can be said to be quite straightforward, she said that many people around her have chosen surrogacy, which is a normal thing in her opinion.
But when these words were said in public, it was like throwing a stone on the calm water, stirring up a thousand waves. Some people support her frankness and choice, while others criticize that this attitude may bring bad values orientation to society.
Surrogacy is a sensitive topic in China because it is expressly prohibited by law. Xu Jinglei's remarks have been interpreted by some as a challenge to the law, and some even see it as an objectification of women and lives.
Among these criticisms, there is no lack of personal attacks on Xu Jinglei, and some netizens even use words like "cruel" to describe her thoughts.
But we also have to see the other side, Xu Jinglei's remarks have also sparked discussions about women's reproductive rights, reproductive technology, and related laws. These discussions, while intense, are also a reflection of social progress. After all, everyone has their own way of life, and technological developments are constantly challenging conventional wisdom.
Xu Jinglei herself is quite calm about this controversy. In the face of netizens' questions and comments, she simply responded: "Say it, your mouth is on other people's faces." ”
These eight words not only show her calmness, but also reflect her views on this controversy: everyone has their own opinions, and she also has her own life choices.