Xu Jinglei, who is now 47 years old, has a unique lifestyle, she firmly chooses to live alone and chic, and she politely declines marriage and parenting, and is willing to indulge in the sweetness of love.
Although she has made some achievements in her career, Xu Jinglei has not stopped her endless yearning for life and her unremitting pursuit of knowledge. She has always had the courage to try a variety of novel hobbies, such as self-taught piano, handicraft making, etc., and strive to achieve personal diversity.
In her view, age is never an insurmountable gap, and as long as your heart is full of love, it's never too late to start.
Xu Jinglei does not deliberately pursue the so-called perfection in the eyes of others, she is just committed to shaping a true self worthy of her own appreciation and affirmation. In an interview, she once said frankly: "I don't have any regrets in my life. Whether it is in the acting career, film and television creation or other artistic fields, she is fully committed to showing the elegance of a talented woman, and everything is under her control.
In the face of those unique choices that are difficult for ordinary people to understand, Xu Jinglei always treats them indifferently and uses her colorful life experience to depict the most authentic self. The courage to pursue that unique lifestyle is undoubtedly her greatest personality charm.
Xu Jinglei's college career is undoubtedly the craziest and most free and easy time in her life. After freeing herself from the heavy pressures of her family, she unleashed her long-hidden rebellious personality in her heart.
The obedient girl who was once devoted to the study of ancient poetry and literature and was obsessed with calligraphy and painting began to fanatically pursue rock music and bundi culture. She often wears fancy clothes and skips class to watch live performances outside of school, showing an unprecedented cool style.
It was during this crazy youth that Xu Jinglei met an important person in her life, Mr. Wang Shuo, a giant in the Beijing literary world, and the two fell in love at first sight and started a sensational relationship.
What is remarkable is that Wang Shuo was over forty years old at that time, while Xu Jinglei was only 19 years old, and the age gap between the two was as high as 18 years. What's even more shocking is that Wang Shuo is already a family man, and his wife also gave birth to a lovely child for him.
In the face of her parents' thousands of instructions, Xu Jinglei didn't care, and persistently pursued this love affair that was both novel and contrary to traditional moral norms, and she was infatuated and did not regret it. She reveled in the sweetness of rebellion and savored the pleasure of forbidden love.
Mr. Wang Shuo's high evaluation of the young talent Xu Jinglei is remarkable, not only for her endless development potential, but also for the tacit understanding between them. With his extensive connections in the cultural circle and outstanding influence, he paved a path to bright stars for the beloved woman, making Xu Jinglei's acting career rise like a rocket.
Xu Jinglei's unique literary atmosphere and outstanding talent come from her strict family education environment. She was born in the bustling Sanlitun area of Beijing, although her family was not wealthy, her parents were hard-working and simple workers.
Since she was a child, her father Xu Zijian has strictly disciplined her with an almost militarized and rigorous attitude. Whether it is the trivial matters of daily life or academic learning, every link is strictly regulated and precisely arranged, and the slightest mistake is not allowed.
Xu Jinglei, who was thin, dark-skinned and ordinary-looking in childhood, appeared introverted and calm under the strict discipline of her father.
In order to let his daughter have more opportunities, Xu's father did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to let Xu Jinglei receive systematic art training in calligraphy and painting from an early age. Under such strict requirements, Xu Jinglei could only concentrate on studying day after day, splashing ink, and gradually accumulated profound literary literacy and artistic cells in the process.
In addition to the cultivation of artistic expertise, Xu's father also required Xu Jinglei to memorize a large number of classical literary masterpieces and poetry classics. This laid a solid foundation for her future path to becoming a talented woman.
It is this strict family education environment that has shaped Xu Jinglei's unique and talented style today.
With the full support and promotion of Mr. Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei's career is booming, and she has not only become a well-known actress, but also an outstanding film director. However, this once passionate relationship did not come to the end after all, and after more than ten years together, they chose to part ways and embark on a new journey in life.
Despite the pain of a breakup, Xu Jinglei did not stop because of this, but bravely pursued a new love. She has had scandals with musician Zhang Yadong, actor Huang Jue, writer Han Han and others, which has attracted widespread attention from all walks of life.
Sadly, however, none of these seemingly hopeful romances ultimately came to fruition.
Whenever she says goodbye to her ex, Xu Jinglei always shows a calm, calm, elegant and generous attitude, and never breaks out any bloody plots for onlookers. As an independent woman, she always faces it with poise and ends every relationship gracefully.
By 2009, Xu Jinglei had a glimpse of the screen and her current boyfriend Huang Lixing, and the two industry leaders concluded a deep marriage for more than ten years. Huang Lixing is not a handsome man in the traditional aesthetic concept, but his unique masculine charm and inadvertently revealed evil eyes are enough to make countless women fall in love with him, so he has won the reputation of "walking hormone".
When the relationship first emerged, Xu Jinglei was full of praise for Huang Lixing. In the years since, she has frequently shown the sweet life of the two on major social platforms, and unabashedly expressed her cherished feelings for this relationship. As an independent female representative, Xu Jinglei's road to love is full of ups and downs and challenges, but it is unique.
The reason why Xu Jinglei can enjoy the reputation of "talented woman in the Beijing circle" is by no means groundless. She is like an all-round artist, showing outstanding talent and otherworldly talent in many artistic fields such as calligraphy, painting, and literature.
Calligraphy is undoubtedly Xu Jinglei's best art form, and her skills have reached the realm of perfection. Her unique font style has even been officially included in the Founder font library, which undoubtedly demonstrates her high status and far-reaching influence in the calligraphy world.
In addition, Xu Jinglei also has high attainments in the field of painting. Since childhood, he has received a comprehensive and systematic art education, and he has devoted himself to his studies in high school, which has laid a solid foundation for his future artistic creation. Painting has always been her lifelong hobby, which has added a lot to her title of "talented girl".
It is worth mentioning that Xu Jinglei has undergone a long period of literary edification under the strict requirements of the family environment since she was a child, thus accumulating unparalleled literary accomplishment and talent. She is proficient in the use of ancient and modern characters, and recites many poems, which can be called a cultural giant.
It is these unique artistic temperaments and outstanding talent genes that determine that Xu Jinglei is by no means an ordinary woman, and she will definitely become an enviable "talented woman in the Beijing circle". She has brought together outstanding talents in calligraphy, painting and literature, and has led the trend in the cultural world.
In the face of the overwhelming discussions and doubts, the 47-year-old Xu Jinglei has always been calm and determined to live her true self. With her unique but irreproducible philosophy of life, her distinctive personality and independence have become a unique landscape and a unique female role model.
"I'm so proud of the journey I've taken in my life!" When asked if she had any regrets, Xu Jinglei replied. Whether it is in her acting career, filmmaking, painting and writing, she has poured all her passion and talent into the end, and finally reaped remarkable achievements, showing her extraordinary style as a talented woman, everything is under her control.
Xu Jinglei did not portray herself as a perfect image that everyone could easily understand and accept. Instead, she strives to be a real being worthy of her own appreciation and affirmation. "If everyone understands you, aren't you too ordinary?" She said in an open-minded and confident tone, fully demonstrating the calmness and elegance of an independent woman.
Choosing not to marry or have children, sticking to herself, and bravely pursuing a unique path in life is undoubtedly the strongest statement of personality that Xu Jinglei has made to the world. This honest, atmospheric and fearless attitude to life is precisely what makes her greatest charm, and it also makes her a legendary figure worthy of all of us.