In an interview, Lu Yu asked: If your boyfriend says let's have a child. What would you say?
Xu Jinglei replied naturally without thinking: I would say that I think about it.
Lu Yu: I won't completely resist this matter in my heart, right?
Xu Jinglei: I'm actually a little resistant, I don't think it's realistic now, I'm still working, how can I have a child? Who cares about him? I'm still going to play, but I haven't played enough.
At that time, she said: I have only been playing for two years in my life, so what can I do, I have to play for a few more years.
She said that after doing the egg freezing thing, she was prepared, and she could have children at any time.
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Xu Jinglei is a literary actress with personality, depth of thought and advanced concepts, she is not the kind that is stunningly beautiful, she is comfortable and pleasing to the eye, and Liu Shishi is the same type.
Although she is 50 years old, there is an obvious rebellion in her, and she dares to try what others dare not say or do.
The first time I knew the word "egg freezing" was from her interview.
Xu Jinglei is an actress, and she has masterpieces in her early days. She is a director, calligraphy and painting, and she is a talented woman.
In terms of talking about boyfriends, several of them are talented and well-known figures, but she did not hype them up, and always handled them in a low-key manner, maintaining indifference and calmness.
In the end, Xu Jinglei fell in love with Huang Lixing, and the two had been in love for many years, had a stable relationship, and did not enter marriage.
Huang Lixing loved her and accepted all of her. Her attitude towards marriage is that it doesn't matter if she gets a license, the man respects it, and she enjoys the freedom of love with her.
Xu Jinglei suddenly disappeared for a few years when she was at her most popular.
Hua Shao asked: What have you been busy with in the past few years since you disappeared?
Xu Jinglei: I'm busy playing.
Everyone present laughed and thought: how could she be so willful?
Xu Jinglei didn't care, she said that after playing for 3 months, everyone said that it was impossible, and she would definitely be in a hurry to return to work. However, after she played for 3 months, she was not happy, so she played for another 3 months, and then took a break for half a year or a year.
If it weren't for everyone urging her to come back and shoot, people would still be playing.
admires Xu Jinglei, no matter how good the box office is and how popular she is, she can play outside, it's amazing.
Which top performer has such a mentality as her?
Xu Jinglei said: Life is always the most important, filming is just work, work is part of regulating life, and life is always the first place when you make a choice.
She doesn't enter into marriage, she doesn't want children, and in her life, her happiness is always higher than these.
Some people say: This is selfishness. Her parents, the man's parents, and the old man are all waiting to hold their grandson.
Huang Lixing's father knocked on the side and asked skillfully about it, expressing the idea of wanting a grandson, but Xu Jinglei did not waver.
The woman was grateful to Huang Lixing for his tolerance and wrote: I am often sick, and you will always have medicine. She said: The right person is the person who makes you better.
It is said that a marriage contract can bring people a sense of security, and Xu Jinglei knows that it does not guarantee the duration of love.
There are different opinions in the outside world, but few people admit that in this way, the man is willing to give up everything for her, that is Xu Jinglei's charm!
Bless their love.
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