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As early as 2005, a photo of the famous actress Xu Jinglei and the music industry leader Zhang Yadong spending sweet time together exploded like lightning in the online world, instantly attracting heated discussions and onlookers from many netizens!
In the photo, Xu Jinglei focuses on choosing her favorite clothes, while Zhang Yadong accompanies her like a careful and thoughtful boyfriend, making people feel the strong romantic atmosphere.
However, this undoubtedly made another well-known actress who had just announced her relationship with Zhang Yadong at that time, Gao Yuanyuan, have to face a heavy blow.
In response to all kinds of questions and doubts from the public, Xu Jinglei has always maintained a calm and calm attitude. In the eyes of everyone, she is such a woman who is full of mystery and dares to challenge conventional ideas.
When she was young, she bravely broke into the family of the married literati Wang Shuo, visited his wife Shen Xujia in person, and even made a jaw-dropping request for divorce, and finally succeeded in cohabiting with himAlthough Shen Xujia left with her daughter in tears, Xu Jinglei did not seem to feel the slightest guilt about it.
It is worth mentioning that her relationship with Wang Shuo failed to achieve positive results in the end. However, when Wang Shuo encountered difficulties, Xu Jinglei did not hesitate to buy a property for him.
Recalling this, Wang Shuo proudly said: "I relied on the support of others to rise, but my heart is extremely firm!" From which we can clearly feel Xu Jinglei's deep kindness to him.
In addition, Xu Jinglei also had an affair with actor Huang Jue. Although neither party has given a clear response on the matter, it is enough to prove that her relationship journey is full of drama.
It is precisely because of this unique view of love and attitude to life that Xu Jinglei has always maintained a bold and free pace on the emotional road, and does not care about secular gossip.
In 2011, a group of photos of Xu Jinglei and international superstar Jackie Chan kissing intimately in the middle of the night were exposed on the Internet, which once again pushed her to the focus of public opinion. In the photo, a slightly drunk Jackie Chan enthusiastically escorted Xu Jinglei to the car and affectionately left a deep kiss mark on her cheek.
In the face of such an intimate scene, Xu Jinglei tried her best to justify, some used "sand into the eyes" as an excuse, and some claimed that it was just an ordinary farewell kiss, however, in the eyes of the majority of netizens, her "bold" image has completely collapsed.
Looking back on this incident, we can't help but think of the once sensational relationship between Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo. At that time, 36-year-old Wang Shuo had already entered the palace of marriage, and Xu Jinglei was still a college student.
Despite the huge age gap between them, they were drawn to each other's exceptional talents and quickly fell in love.
As a literary leader, Wang Shuo undoubtedly showed a strong appeal that was hard to resist. Although she learned that the other party was already a family person, Xu Jinglei still did not hesitate to devote herself to this dangerous love game, overcoming all difficulties, just to share the sweet time with the man in her heart.
She bravely visited Wang Shuo's spouse, Ms. Shen Xujia, unreasonably asked her to take the initiative to end the marriage, and even joined forces with Wang Shuo to put pressure on Ms. Shen.
In the end, Ms. Shen Xujia couldn't bear it anymore and left this sad place with her daughter, and Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo officially started their cohabitation life. Since then, Xu Jinglei's image in the public mind has plummeted, and she has been strongly condemned from all walks of life.
However, she didn't care about it and devoted herself to this relationship that transcended the age limit.
Obviously, Xu Jinglei has always been straightforward and generous in her treatment of feelings, and dares to challenge secular concepts. It is this sincere and natural personality that makes Wang Shuo and many other middle-aged men fall in love with it. Although she has been with American actor Huang Lixing for more than ten years, Xu Jinglei has always adhered to the position of non-marriage.
When asked why she was reluctant to step into the palace of marriage, she once replied: "Today's love life has reached a flawless state, and a perfect score of 100 points for marriage does not improve this love to 120 points, but may destroy the existing beauty."
Indeed, Xu Jinglei has a unique understanding of marriage. In her view, marriage is not a necessity in life, but an important nourishment of love in life. She is happy to indulge in the sweetness of love, but she avoids the constraints of marriage.
Xu Jinglei once said frankly that she has not fully experienced this long journey of life, and has not yet had fun, how can she easily enter the palace of marriage and become the wife and mother of others? She even froze nine eggs at the age of 39, publicly stating that she does not want to leave any regrets.
This independent attitude to life is really admirable. Many people have mixed opinions about her infertility, but she has never been seen and evaluated in the unexpected world. Xu Jinglei has the courage to break through the traditional life mode and live her true self, which is her most charming.
Perhaps, in her eyes, freedom trumps everything. She did not want to be bound by any constraints, and even the natural responsibility of giving birth had to be postponed. However, in any case, this is Xu Jinglei's own choice, and we can't blame it too much.
When it comes to the long-standing rock-solid passionate relationship between Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing, people often lament that fate is unpredictable. Why did they fail to make a marriage vow when they had been deeply in love for a long time?
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However, in addition to Huang Lixing, Xu Jinglei seems to have had a rumor of "sister and brother love" with another young talent. Back in 2010, the then hot writer Han Han frankly confessed on the online platform and clearly expressed his willingness to give Xu Jinglei's birthday gift, which attracted a lot of attention.
In fact, as early as 2006, the cultural pride, who had an age gap of up to 8 years, were mistaken for a relationship because of some cryptic conversation on their blog, and although the two sides later publicly denied it in a resolute manner, well-informed people said they had witnessed Han Han travel from Shanghai to Xu Jinglei's residence in Beijing.
In the face of public doubts, Xu Jinglei herself could only reluctantly admit that the two did have normal social interactions, but resolutely denied the so-called "sister and brother love". However, what is unexpected is that not long after, Han Han actually publicly released a statement, claiming that he had dedicated himself as a "birthday gift" to Xu Jinglei, although he was ultimately rejected, but undoubtedly added more dramatic elements to this scandal.
It must be pointed out that Han Han's straightforward show of love was really beyond everyone's expectations. However, no matter how much the outside world speculates about the emotional entanglement between them, the end result proves the absurdity of these speculations.
Now, Han Han has entered the palace of marriage and has children, while Xu Jinglei still maintains a single free body.
So, is that "sister-brother love" real or just a dream of youth? However, Xu Jinglei has always adhered to a single lifestyle, which really complements her always bold and avant-garde personality.
Looking back on Xu Jinglei's love journey when she was young, it can be said that there were thorns along the way, but she never pretentiously pursued her innermost desires bravely. At that time, she was still a college student, but with her outstanding talent, she attracted the attention of Wang Shuo, a 36-year-old married man who was a giant in the literary world.
Despite the huge age gap between the two, Wang Shuo undoubtedly has a fascinating charm.
Soon after, Xu Jinglei threw herself into Wang Shuo's arms without hesitation. Not only did she go to the residence of Wang Shuo's wife Shen Xujia in person, unreasonably asked the other party to take the initiative to file for divorce, and even united with Wang Shuo to put pressure on Shen Xujia.
In the end, Shen Xujia, who was overwhelmed, couldn't bear it anymore and left this painful place with her daughter.
In the face of ruthless accusations and criticisms from all sides, the talented Xu Jinglei showed a completely fearless attitude! She devoted all her energy to this love entanglement that transcended time and space, turning a blind eye to the discussions of the outside world.
The two of them have lived together ever since, unafraid of the world's gaze and constraints.
However, what is amazing is that although Shen Xujia chose to leave, Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo were unable to spend the rest of their lives together after all. However, when Wang Shuo fell into a low point in his life, Xu Jinglei still did not hesitate to lend a hand and buy a property for him.
Looking back on this unforgettable experience, Wang Shuo proudly declared: "I succeeded with the love and support of women, but my heart is extremely firm!" From these words, it is not difficult for us to feel Xu Jinglei's deep kindness to him.
Because of this, the frank and straightforward personality that dares to challenge tradition has made Xu Jinglei an unrestrained free soul at a young age, attracting the warm attention of many middle-aged people, including Wang Shuo.