During the epidemic, many people have started a life of home isolation. Children have opened online classes, adults do not have to go to work, in addition to three meals a day, the main focus is on the children.
Downstairs neighbors have a little boy in the second grade, a little fat, round head round face, every time the elevator encounters is shy to laugh, home isolation days more than 11 o'clock at night, you can also hear her mother's roar, the voice one after another, the tone has been maintained in a high-pitched state.
There is a friend who is a strong woman who is fierce in the company on weekdays, and the team is very well managed. A few days ago, I complained to me, and in such a home isolation, I was afraid that mother and son would turn against each other. It turned out that she had found a note written by her son in her fifth grade desk.
After reading it, it made her back chill and full of hatred for her. Every day he was told to study, buy him a tutoring book, accompany him to do homework, correct the wrong problems one by one, in addition to cooking, most of the time was spent on him, so loved him, and in the eyes of her son she was a terrible mother. At that moment, the strong woman cried!
After my son's online class ended, he ran to me to gossip: our classmate Li Man's language books and math books made her mother tear them up. I remembered that this was a quiet Sven girl, usually very well-behaved at school. Through a parent who has a good relationship with Li Man's mother, I know that Li Man's mother is unemployed, the hot pot restaurant opened by his father is closed, and the employees' wages are now dragging on. Presumably the pressure is relatively large, just happened to meet the child unconsciously, the emotions are not controlled.
We adults can spit on the children of online classes at home in the major media, more trouble, more toss people, but the children of the epidemic at home online classes, sitting at the computer all day, wearing thick glasses at a young age, in the study and life of home isolation, usually busy parents, brush their eyes together to focus on them, with the expectations of parents, according to the standards of parents, a little flaw may be infinitely magnified, leading out of a family storm. Parents who do not go to work are energetic and emotional, and their children are always the central point for them.
While children who study at home, where are their emotional outlets? No one can be the ideal way to be others, and each individual is independent. Parents who are isolated at home during the epidemic work weekdays, so please rest now. Free time is used to grow up, read books, play chess, raise flowers, and drink tea. Trying to change the child, it is better to influence him through his own behavior.