Since there is no intention of falling in love with him, it is better to explain it clearly to him, so that no one will delay. Otherwise, it is not good to hang others in this way, and it is an irresponsible performance for yourself and others. Or maybe it was because I was hot-headed and agreed to be together. Or maybe you're not used to being together and don't want to progress too fast. As for whether to end respecting your own inner thoughts, if you love, please grind it out. If you don't like to talk about it early, so that everyone is not so embarrassed.
Instead of restraining, it is better to choose, so that there will not be so many troubles. Many times falling in love does not affect learning, the best way is to review together and work together, as long as you can distinguish when to play and when to study well. Otherwise, if you have been struggling with this problem, you will not be able to devote yourself to learning. Just find the right way for you to get along and don't miss out on someone you like each other. That way, there will be no regrets in the future.
In fact, there is no need to explain anything, just be yourself, some people just like to impose their dissatisfaction on others. So as long as you are sitting upright, have nothing to care about, and look at everything optimistically. Some people don't know how to cherish whether to give up or have to give up, don't doubt yourself, as long as it is not their own problem, why bother themselves.
It is really uncomfortable to be slandered, but also to open up, you frankly nothing is what others can say true, adjust your mentality to continue to yearn for the future life, there will always be people who are really worth your efforts to accompany you for a lifetime!