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I believe that many people have been drunk and have done things after getting drunk, which is normal. But the phrase "drinking mishandle" is not just talk, especially when the father brings the baby, the consequences of drinking too much will really be very serious.
The man lost his 5-year-old son after getting drunk, and his mother broke down and cried when she received a call from the police
On the evening of the 17th, a traffic policeman in Zhengzhou encountered a woman's request for help on the way out of the police, it turned out that the woman's 5-year-old son was scattered, hoping that the traffic police could help find their children.
After some searching, I was also very fortunate to find the child. Seeing the child, the mother cried excitedly, and while holding the child, she loudly accused the father of the child who was shaking next to her: he drank too much and lost the child, which scared me to death.
It turned out that on the same day, the child's father took the child out to a friend's party, and he was drunk because of the greedy cup, so he called his wife to pick him up. While waiting, the child's father saw a car across the road and seemed to feel that his wife had arrived, so he asked the child to cross the road to find his mother.
As a result, the child went across the road and found that it was not his mother, and when he returned to the other side of the road, he found that his father could not be found. The 5-year-old walked directionlessly in the middle of the night, but fortunately finally met a kind passerby, which avoided a tragedy.
I have to say that taking the child out can still get drunk, this father's heart is really quite big, fortunately the enthusiastic masses and the police, otherwise this unqualified father should blame himself for a lifetime. Here is also another reminder to parents, take their children out, and do not drink alcohol at the end.
The careless father lost his five-year-old son drunk, which caused a lot of harm to the child
Presumably after watching this video, many netizens feel very helpless like Tuanzi's mother, how can there be such a "confused" father. It is said that dad is a "big mountain" for children and can be relied on, but this father obviously does not realize the responsibility on his shoulders.
With a 5-year-old child dares to get drunk, and when he comes home, he also loses the child because of insufficient estimation of physical strength and sobriety, resulting in the wrong car, fortunately, in the end the child is still found, otherwise if he encounters a trafficker, the consequences are unimaginable.
Although this incident is fortunate, the father and son have not had any serious consequences, but stay outside for such a long time, go back or pay attention to the health of the child, there is a disease or cold should also be dealt with in time.
I also hope that this father has experienced this incident and can quit the habit of loving drinking, so as not to delay other things in the future. Moreover, the image of a father who is always drunk in the eyes of his children is probably not too good.
Having a dad who likes to drink, how much psychological shadow will it bring to the child?
Tuanzi Mama has a female friend by her side, and she made it clear when choosing a mate that the first condition is not to drink, because she once told how she felt when she was a child, facing her father who was often drunk:
When I was a child, my father was very good at drinking, usually after work, he had to drink two sips, drunk when he drank, even drunk and sleepy, when he was a child, the most he did, and the most unwilling thing to do, was to go outside to take his father home.
Pulling the drunken father, the people along the way saw many people whispering: who drank too much. At that time, I was already ashamed, and I could only quickly pull my father home and wipe the stains on my father's body with painstaking efforts.
After all these years, the shadow of my father's drunkenness still affects me, especially those who don't like people who see alcohol and don't die.
In life, some people drink in moderation, after drinking more, that is, talk more, or sleep directly, then such a situation will not have a great impact on children, at most, in the child's cognition, realize that they have a father who loves to drink.
But some people after drinking too much, very grumpy, easy to drink crazy, light drop pots and bowls, heavy shots hurt people, if it is such a father image, the impact on children, can be described as very negative.
First, the child's personality will become polarized, some children will become timid and cowardly, and they will escape when they encounter things; some will become violent and rebellious, and use violence to solve problems when they disagree with others.
Second, alienating the relationship between parents and children, often drinking and scolding the parents of children, will make children dare not be close to you, in the long run, parent-child relationship will naturally become strange, and even if the child grows up, it will become an indelible scar for children.
Third, it affects the child's normal life and learning. There is a drunken father in the family, the child is worried every day, every day after coming home from school, he will consider what kind of scene it will be, and will he have the heart to live and study well?
Tuanzi Mama wants to say:
The influence of fathers on their children is huge, and everyone has the obligation to let their children grow up healthily, so those parents who love to drink more alcohol should drink less for their children.