Children grind and drag, in the morning lying in bed do not remember, drag a minute is a minute, even if they know that school is late or can not get up. When I came home from school for an hour of homework, I couldn't finish writing for three hours. Wash slowly, eat slowly as if everything is slow. Parents are anxious, the nameless fire is rubbing up, eager to roll up their sleeves is a beating.
If you think about it, parents can't blindly blame their children for being slow in what they do, and they should find out why their children are slow to do things. If you don't want to get up in the morning, you can sleep more for a while, because the child does not go to bed on time at night, or because the homework is written too late or the child has insomnia and causes late sleep... At night, when I came home from school to write homework at the specified time, I always rubbed it, to find out if the child could not write or was afraid of writing wrong, and was criticized by the teacher in class the next day. Another example is eating slowly, whether it is because the child does not like to eat or does not like the taste, or to eat and play while using it. Or maybe the child's rebellious psychology is at work, you urge me to hurry, hurry up, I don't want to hurry, see what you can do to me.
Knowing oneself and knowing that the other is invincible, the child rubs the parents to say that lai says that it does not work, and after understanding the reason clearly, the right medicine can be solved. Do not use your own rhythm of life to ask your child, maybe the child's pace of life is slower than that of parents. Parents must also stop urging and nagging and turning to encouragement and appreciation, and everyone loves to listen to good words, and so do children.
The child's rubbing may be caused by the lack of a concept of time, and it is not known how long "10 minutes" and "one hour" are. You can let your child realize how long "10 minutes" and "one hour" are in life, or in the things that children are interested in, such as playing with mobile phones for only one hour, watching cartoons for only half an hour...
After recognizing the concept of time, children can pay a price for grinding overtime. For example, being late for class is criticized by the teacher, which affects the learning progress of the whole class and lets the child know that this is the price of grinding. Also after the child is improved, be sure to give reasonable rewards or verbal encouragement. When children do things, they can naturally think of the bitter fruits of grinding and the rewards of quick completion, and they will speed up their work.
Is your child rubbing? How did you respond?