Netizen question 1: As shown in the following figure, is the blind date rejecting me by saying this?
My answer:
The first sentence: She thinks you two can't talk anymore, but she doesn't want to accept or face this reality, but wants to escape. It shows that although she is a little troubled, she still hopes to change.
Second sentence: She expects that sense of dependence that goes beyond friendship, but she is also afraid of becoming dependent on you. So she currently positions your relationship as a friend, and clearly tells you that you don't want to contact every day, or that she is afraid of daily contact, and that there are consequences that she may not be able to control.
The third sentence: She wants a sense of security, reliability, can't get used to you lying flat, no pursuit, and peace with the encounter, is that you have no money, and there is no ambition to earn more money. So I don't want to talk to you about the future, and I don't dare to fall in love and get married with you.
I don't think she's rejecting you outright, otherwise she wouldn't have to talk so much nonsense to you.
There is a saying that makes sense: the suspect is the buyer.
She expressed her hopes and demands for you and reminded you to think long-term and comprehensive.
But at the end of the day, I want you to make more money.
This is my interpretation, right or wrong I don't know. After all, I'm not her either.
Netizen question 2: Ask for help, which one should the two blind dates choose?
One works on the railway, takes two days off, the salary is higher than mine, the only child in the family, but the boy is relatively short and fat, 170 tall and relatively fat, the mother is single, so I can say that it is his first love. His father was in the same industry as me and could be of great help to me in my future work.
The other looks very ordinary, at first glance a little unpleasant, but very high 180+ in the state-owned enterprise salary is similar to mine, but there are two sisters (both married), so the boy some of the movements are a bit like girls. There have been objects and sexual relations, so it is very straightforward to find objects at present. The aim is straightforward is to like and then get married.
My answer:
If you ask me, I don't want either. Because I don't like short and fat ones, and I don't like things that are too ugly.
But if you have to choose one or the other, then choose one.
The advantage is that the only son, a blank piece of paper, his father will help you with your work in the future. It can be said that all you get is affordable, no burden. His work is also relatively leisurely. And fat people can lose weight, and there is a possibility of change for the better.
Second, ugly is not saved. The salary is not much of an advantage, although the two sisters are married, but they will not subsidize you, no matter if you borrow money, it is good. It's ugly, feminine and tall, and the picture is a little uncomfortable.
If there are other possibilities, it is recommended to take another look.
Netizen question 3:
I offered a bride price, and the man chose to break up on the grounds of family conditions. After a year of separation, he actually married a blind date who was inferior to me in every way. The most outrageous thing is that the dowry money has not only not decreased, but also brought out a higher dowry than I originally demanded. I wonder what men who do this think?
My answer:
It may be that after a year, he has matured and realized, knowing that there is no such shop in this village, and the bride price will only rise and fall like the house price, so he quickly determined it.
Or maybe he felt the value of the woman. At first, he was not willing to pay so much for you, but this woman made him feel that it was okay.
Another possibility is that he didn't have any money that year, and now he has money.
It may also be that he did not want to live with you in the first place, and this woman made him feel relaxed, harmonious, not tired, suitable for living together. So he wanted to be stable, wanted to get married.
In your eyes, she is inferior to you in all aspects, perhaps it is precisely because she is so ordinary that it is true that plain and plain is the person who lives a life. So he went from.
And was it really because of the bride price that he broke up that year? Will you have wanted to dump you and just use the bride price as an excuse?